I've never been one to hit the bar alone but I am here now

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And it's quite liberating:banderas:

I can't explain but I am enjoying it :ohlawd:

My girl is getting her hair braided so a nikka just went to get drinks solo dolo (my nikkas will be here in like 40 minutes......CP time) so I said fukk it and embraced it:obama:
 
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I actually prefer to hit the bar by myself so I don't have any friends who ain't about that wing man life hold me down with bad jokes/attitudes.

Plus it's easier to assimilate into a group if you into that sort of shyt or try and chase trim without having to worry about your other friends who might not have been as successful.
 

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Ya just ordering a drink and talking to randoms or have someone talk to you is pretty chill. After you finish drinking or talking you can either just dip or stay talking to some women. Either way you are there to enjoy yourself and observe.
Yooooo real talk.
Someone asked me how the drink was and it turned into a mini conversation. And I'm noticing a bunch of educated black women in here and it's so dope.
 

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I actually prefer to hit the bar by myself so I don't have any friends who ain't about that wing man life hold me down with bad jokes/attitudes.

Plus it's easier to assimilate into a group if you into that sort of shyt or try and chase trim without having to worry about your other friends who might not have been as successful.
True

My homies always chasing the "fun" or hoes. I hate doing that. I like to drink and let the bytches and fun come to us.
 

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Im the weirdo who will hit the bar with a book or something. Feeling surrounded by life but not having to interact with any of it:ahh:

Having other folks tag along usually means having to be sensitive to everyone elses desire to stay or leave. fukk that.
 

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Im the weirdo who will hit the bar with a book or something. Feeling surrounded by life but not having to interact with any of it:ahh:

Having other folks tag along usually means having to be sensitive to everyone elses desire to stay or leave. fukk that.
I've seen people doing that too :russ:

Two of my friends used to hit the bar scene solo and bag bishes too.
I never done that but it might be easy lol
 

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I've seen people doing that too :russ:

Two of my friends used to hit the bar scene solo and bag bishes too.
I never done that but it might be easy lol
Depends, breh. I've never picked a woman up from a bar, but ive had conversations with some that could have went down that road. As long as you arent the type to sit in a bar and look timid and friendless, you are good.
Inevitably it came up in conversations that I chose to go alone so I could take the ambiance in at my own pace.

Its easy, but you have to be willing, fortunately or unfortunately, to be an icebreaker. Its crazy how nights can pop off by just finding a dope bartender and shooting the shyt with them. Next thing you know, other patrons jump in the convo, and everybody is talking. That alone gets women more open to speak to you, cause you out here proving you arent socially retarded. In fact, that works ANYWHERE. Just get some people to fukk with you, and just about everyone else will off principle.
 

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I did that once. shyt was lame. The music was too loud and everybody was already with their groups of friends, so it was hard to talk to new people.

Of course you anti-social Coli nikkas would like that shyt. :francis:
This shyt right here:russ:Learned my lesson calling myself bout to mingle with the geeks at an event. Most people were cliqued up and ignoring anyone who didnt walk in with them.
 

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If you're worried about not having someone to talk just talk to bartender.
 
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