Of course other people use it. I only brought up me not using it because I'm not defending the usage of it.
The difference is those words aren't used like that anymore because people chose not to use them. Secondly, those terms aren't used as much because they were replaced by something else. Third, you're comparing phrases that were never banned, restricted, frowned upon, or were widely considered as negative.
That's the biggest lie and misconcerption out there. "People don't use it like that anymore". Yes they do, and even still, it's blah.
Do people or do people NOT get offended or uncomfortable about the word? I'm not just talking about Tyrone from 43rd Street and Lil' Wong from Washington Heights. I mean most people in Society in general.
Alot of you wouldn't even use it around your Grandparents like that or at all so why is it necessary to flaunt it around? Becuz honestly, objectively speaking, that's usually how it's tossed around in the Arts. Grown Black Men in a Mature atmosphere aren't tossing it around so why make the word bigger than it ought to be? It's an old Label that we "overcame" and now it's over.
Historically we've always Adapted on our own so why stop now? We either Own it or Burn it. In the real world you can't have it both ways, it's never worked that way and it's never going to work that way. 2Pac couldn't even have changed that