Come on now. Any one who has tried to give advice to a young bul is helping. Any one that gave a young'n a couple of dollars, or let him pump his gas or such, and he was like "Thanks. I was gonna go rob someone" has helped. Every Grandma and family member that has put their house up to bail out someone, or put up their own money to try to get a lawyer is helping. Every parent that attends PTA meetings, or giving money to some youth org fundraiser is helping. The bottom line is don't try to compare yourself to someone with a wider reach. The average joe does more on a day-to-day basis than most people realize.