Jemele Hill doesn’t believe fathers should give their daughters a whooping. Says it should be left to the mom…

[MaxPain]

I agree.

 

[DaddyFresh]

I stopped getting whoppings at 8. Pops just had to threaten. My Wife on the other hand…

How do you beat a 16 year old and why?

yeah I was taller then my dad at 12 and could whoop his ass at 13-14. beatings stopped then lol

 

[fifth column]

I could always tell who has kids versus who has theories in this thread. Kids are little human beings, you can’t train them like puppies. Sometimes they gonna test you to see if you are about it and no amount of go stand in the corner or let me explain is going to cut it. When my kids cross the line then I’m disciplining them, I’m not interested in no social experiment.

There is a reason why they tell you to follow orders in the army, it’s not to humiliate or test your manhood rather it’s to keep you alive. That’s my approach, when I tell my kids to clean up their rooms or put away their tablets it’s an order and not a discussion.

 

[#1 pick]

I could always tell who has kids versus who has theories in this thread. Kids are little human beings, you can’t train them like puppies. Sometimes they gonna test you to see if you are about it and no amount of go stand in the corner or let me explain is going to cut it. When my kids cross the line then I’m disciplining them, I’m not interested in no social experiment.

There is a reason why they tell you to follow orders in the army, it’s not to humiliate or test your manhood rather it’s to keep you alive. That’s my approach, when I tell my kids to clean up their rooms or put away their tablets it’s an order and not a discussion.

They will try you. They will lie to keep their social arrangements then know they are fukked when it's time for consequences

 

[G-Zeus]

You dont need to whoop them... If my kids exaggerate they get a slap on the back of the hand and usually no more than 3 and they will behave for months. Its about how they were educated when smaller and how the first born reacts .. 99% of the time i only need to do a count down.

However....some of these parents got little demons....they need a whooping...daily

 

[yardman]

I would think Black people from the West would analyze their affinity for corporal punishment throughly given our shared history of slavery. I come from one of the most violent countries in the world where up until ‘97 police were doling out punishment with cat-o-nines in publicly. We actually have a history of some of the most inhumane torture practices during slavery, buck breaking was literally popularized on our island, though Haiti is markedly first just on the basis of sheer cruelty. Humans love to emphasize the line of demarcation between themselves and beasts, but think the supposed and purported most intelligent form of life on the planet can’t raise balanced offspring without physical punishment. That so-called holy book is still doing a number on us, lol.​

 

[Treblemaka]

Do you have kids?

no

Then

Why is this relevant? If youre an adult it literally means you've been a child. You should be able to look back on it and speak definitvely on what worked and didnt and why.

Ive worked with boys for over a decade and dated women with children. Raising kids is hard because it requires consistency of effort and a willingness to plan and and tailor a structure for your child. But it isnt some overly complex thing.

If you cant consistently compel you 6+ year old without violence it means they dont respect you theyre just scared of you. Ive been able to get kids to follow commands without ever laying a hand on them.

Fear is never a viable long term answer to teach anyone with unless your intention is to show them violence can be used to compel someone to do something

 

[Luke Cage]

Do you have kids?

Yes

 

[spliz]

Do people even whoop their kids now? I haven’t seen that shyt in years but I have seen many bad ass kids running around causing problems

Foreign parents def whoop they kids asses. lol.

 

[spliz]

Why is this relevant? If youre an adult it literally means you've been a child. You should be able to look back on it and speak definitvely on what worked and didnt and why.

Ive worked with boys for over a decade and dated women with children. Raising kids is hard because it requires consistency of effort and a willingness to plan and and tailor a structure for your child. But it isnt some overly complex thing.

If you cant consistently compel you 6+ year old without violence it means they dont respect you theyre just scared of you. Ive been able to get kids to follow commands without ever laying a hand on them.

Fear is never a viable long term answer to teach anyone with unless your intention is to show them violence can be used to compel someone to do something

But if u don’t have kids u don’t know what it’s like to raise any. Same way I hate when never married people try to talk about marriage.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

I was very intentional about letting my girls know who the boss is.
I can't imagine beating my kids and having them afraid of me.

Just a very mild spanking for the youngest in her hell raising phase, but time out and denying access to things worked.

The nuclear bomb is telling one of them that I am disappointed in them.
That phrase broke my daughter down so bad that I was almost scared to say it again.

Anyway, the goal of a father is that when shyt goes down, no matter what it is, your kid does not think "I can't let dad know about this" but "I gotta call dad right now!"

The whippings never changed the way I went about things as a kid, it just made me more sneaky.
What changed me was when I saw I was disappointing my parents and that made me feel in a way the whippings never did.

 

[King Poetic]

My dad, My Granddads beat every boy and girl in the house , didn’t give a fukk about no damn gender shyt like jemele hill

Sometimes u have to look at a person own past to see why they assume something like this

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

go to your room where your pc, steam deck, ps5 and phone is

grounding a kid now is taking them to the park or the mall

You are supposed to take away all of their "toys"

People keep rewarding their kids after the act up so they never learn the lesson they were supposed to learn.

 

[beenz]

Jemele J Hill (@jemelehill) on Threads

I’m old school. I don’t think men should put their hands in girls. Leave that to the mommas. It leaves a different imprint when men do it. You never want a little girl to get accustomed to a man putting his hands on her.

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this bytch has no kids. who gives a fukk what she thinks? I am a girl dad (22 & 16) and I have whooped both of them back in the day.

 

[BunchePark]

We whipping ass over here

fukk who don't like it