Joe Budden doing his absolute best to get canceled in 2019. Caribbeans now mad at him

Ezekiel 25:17

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The harder you shame them, the more they hoe it up.

I don't see the point of shaming women. They're grown, they're adults, let them make the decision on their own because you can't control them. Guide your daughters in the right direction and show them the consequences of being a hoe, that's all you can do.
 

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Meh... no outrage from me. Just shake my head and K.I.M. Since he's american (assuming) i dont expect him to understand the Caribbean Carnival culture if he's had limited exposure to Caribbean culture. Maybe to him and his street culture, women in outfits showing a lot of skin = hoes.

For example, I usually invite them but I refuse to take my american friends, even american women i date, to Carnival with me. I tell them "you drive YOUR car and meet me there". THem cats just wanna show up , see some ass, drink and leave after 2-3 hours. I aint leaving just because your ass wanna leave. We stay carnival from noon til close (aka 10PM or midnight). I dont care if ya feet hurting.
 
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Caribbean women putting on those costumes and dancing is them being hoes?

fukk out of here.

I'd love to see 95% of nikkas go out not here and report whether it was easy to smash a majority of them just because they wear a carnival outfit.:comeon:


So they're just wearing hoe costumes?:ehh:
 

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So they're just wearing hoe costumes?:ehh:
There is a hoe costume? :skip:

I once thought that the accepted definition of a "hoe" was a person who engaged in dangerous, promiscuous sex without concern for risk or self-respect.

I also thought that brehs believed that a "hoe" doesn't have a costume...it was a mindstate(see above)

Now, we are stating that Carnival costumes are hoe costumes?

And other brehs are saying that it's directed at non- Caribbean women.

Are we really ignoring the whole costume is literally a remnant from various traditional festive African garb?

Are these "hoe" costumes outside of a European lens?



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Now, understand, I'm in NO WAY saying there isn't a sexual and sensual component to it all...there is.

But sexual does not mean hoeish/slutty and being surrounded by caribbean culture, raising children(including a daughter) who will be raised with a strong Caribbean identity...

None of the celebrations or the dancing(whining) is ever considered an expected invitation to be in appropriately touched or treated. There are real, unspoken, boundaries.

I'm actually interested in a real debate about this, especially from the Caribbean/NYC brehs who have opined that they see it as hoeish.:ld:
 
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There is a hoe costume? :skip:

I once thought that the accepted definition of a "hoe" was a person who engaged in dangerous, promiscuous sex without concern for risk or self-respect.

I also thought that brehs believed that a "hoe" doesn't have a costume...it was a mindstate(see above)

Now, we are stating that Carnival costumes are hoe costumes?

And other brehs are saying that it's directed at non- Caribbean women.

Are we really ignoring the whole costume is literally a remnant from various traditional festive African garb?

Are these "how" costumes outside of a European lens?



3286553787_7f2c90dd4f_b.jpg


:jbhmm:


Now, understand, I'm in NO WAY saying there isn't a sexual and sensual component to it all...there is.

But sexual does not mean hoeish/slutty and being surrounded by caribbean culture, raising children(including a daughter) who will be raised with a strong Caribbean identity...

None of the celebrations or the dancing(whining) is ever considered an expected invitation to be in appropriately touched or treated. There are real, unspoken, boundaries.

I'm actually interested in a real debate about this, especially from the Caribbean/NYC brehs who have opined that they see it as hoeish.:ld:


So you'd be okay with your daughter "dressed" like that gyrating her hips and dancing in a sexually suggestive manner in front of thirsty onlookers?
 

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So you'd be okay with your daughter "dressed" like that gyrating her hips and dancing in a sexually suggestive manner in front of thirsty onlookers?
Would I be okay with my adult daughter dressing in a traditional, albeit revealing, carnival costume and dancing in a sexual manner in a carnival festival?

Yes, considering my experience at carnivals and Caribbean festivals, I'm comfortable with it.

A woman can be in a carnival situation and the level of awareness, experience & intelligence can be VERY predictive of the safety of her situation.

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Funny thing is, that question, which I reasonably understand, seems like it is a predictor of a man's genuine protection of his daughter but, honestly, it's a policing of her body as property.

I would NEVER want my daughter to be in a compromising situation where the consensus of the event, situation, group that she is with has a disrespectful intention.
 
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