Just Found out my Dad is having a affair

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Sounds like a lot of the nikkas in this thread don't have daddies :gladbron: keep making excuses for bytch ass nikkas that don't handle ther biz
 

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U prolly share that mom too breh :deadrose:

Don't go through her phone my dude lol please :pachaha:
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technically him and my mom are separated but are still married. Went to work with him today and his phone went off so I checked since i had suspicions after he had been coming home late for about the whole week before([plus this nikka doesnt buy any food for the house anymore). Some of yall would say its cool but ever since my mom left he hasnt really been helping her raise my two sisters or even bother to talk to his daughters. idk why its making me so mad so tell me am I trippin or is he in the wrong. text were of the woman saying what was on the menu for sunday and all these good morning text :scusthov: I cant tell my mom cuz she still has hope that he will change and he tried to get her back at first but while he is how he is now its best they stay separated. But I still feel like they should be divorced before all this goes down. He feels that woman is more important than his family apparently...as you can see this runs deep but am I in the wrong as should i leave it alone?


why u always cockblocking neegas??
 

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I keep thinking about that Little Brother All For You

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technically him and my mom are separated but are still married. Went to work with him today and his phone went off so I checked since i had suspicions after he had been coming home late for about the whole week before([plus this nikka doesnt buy any food for the house anymore). Some of yall would say its cool but ever since my mom left he hasnt really been helping her raise my two sisters or even bother to talk to his daughters. idk why its making me so mad so tell me am I trippin or is he in the wrong. text were of the woman saying what was on the menu for sunday and all these good morning text :scusthov: I cant tell my mom cuz she still has hope that he will change and he tried to get her back at first but while he is how he is now its best they stay separated. But I still feel like they should be divorced before all this goes down. He feels that woman is more important than his family apparently...as you can see this runs deep but am I in the wrong as should i leave it alone?

Have a man to man talk with him about it and see how it goes. But before you do make sure you ready because these type of convos can go real good or real bad.
 

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technically him and my mom are separated but are still married. Went to work with him today and his phone went off so I checked since i had suspicions after he had been coming home late for about the whole week before([plus this nikka doesnt buy any food for the house anymore). Some of yall would say its cool but ever since my mom left he hasnt really been helping her raise my two sisters or even bother to talk to his daughters. idk why its making me so mad so tell me am I trippin or is he in the wrong. text were of the woman saying what was on the menu for sunday and all these good morning text :scusthov: I cant tell my mom cuz she still has hope that he will change and he tried to get her back at first but while he is how he is now its best they stay separated. But I still feel like they should be divorced before all this goes down. He feels that woman is more important than his family apparently...as you can see this runs deep but am I in the wrong as should i leave it alone?

Mind your business. You'll understand your father in about 8-15 years. Being a snitch isnt going to help your family. Theres only one reason to snitch and thats if your father is a fakkit, your moms sleepin with your friends, or your moms sleeping with a queen.

Snitchin on your father :snoop: At least tell your father to keep his dirt low. You're mom gonna find out eventually anyway. If she dont know already. Dont shame your mother in your eyes.
 

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Your mom was a poor excuse for a wife. If she was doing her duties your dad would not be seeking outside comfort. OP, im not sure if you male or female but know that men are real simple and we require simple things. You mom was incapable of doing the simple things to make your dad happy or content. The fact he wont talk to your sisters or put food on the table is because your father is being spiteful towards your mom and your sisters are probably being used by your mom against him so he chooses to stay away.
 

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Surprised it took 4 pages.

4 pages :usure:

50 posts per page :ohlawd:
at first i wanted to be harsh to dude but like someone else said, people grow up differently...

-first of all, you most likely only know what your mom told you. And the reason your dad doesn't open up to you about his side is probably because he knows you're not mature enough to handle things...




-second, this is gonna sound tough but your dad doesn't really owe your mom or your sisters shyt at this point. from your own words, SHE left him. He tried to get back with her. She wouldn't take him back. :yeshrug: He told her she'd fail if she doesn't take him back and now you're saying she's struggling...i'm saying...




-third your parents are seperated and SHE left him and wouldn't take him back. I would HOPE dude is getting some other p*ssy...sheeeeeeit...



-fourth, you went through your dad's phone without his permission and the first thing you did when you found out what it was is tell your sisters? :wtf: your sisters probably already told your mother too...:snoop: then you wonder why your dad doesn't open up to you about stuff like that???




here at the coli we're like a family so i gotta keep it real with you. you need to grow up a little...

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How old are you OP? Without knowing more about the situation, it's kind of hard for me to draw a full conclusion, but there are a few holes in the story:

Why did they separate and for how long? If it was her fault or it was mutual, then he's not really in the wrong if he started chatting with the new chick after the separation. If it's his fault, he may have been creeping anyway and you probably should have expected this.

You are kind biased towards your mom, so you probably won't ever get the real story from pops. Like Turbulent said, telling your sisters is like telling your mom. If pops found out you were going through his phone AND told your mom (indirectly) he probably wouldn't fukk with you like that anyway.

Dude only really has an obligation to the shorty in high school (who sounds like she'll be graduating in 3 months).


Sounds like a lot of the nikkas in this thread don't have daddies :gladbron: keep making excuses for bytch ass nikkas that don't handle ther biz

She left him. He may be a bytch ass nikka (not enough details to know) but all 4 people in the crib are grown. Unless he dipped a few years ago, at least he stayed till everyone was of age. Is he expected to beg to be taken back so he can take care of the crib until everyone moves out? :heh:
 

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Mind your business. You'll understand your father in about 8-15 years. Being a snitch isnt going to help your family. Theres only one reason to snitch and thats if your father is a fakkit, your moms sleepin with your friends, or your moms sleeping with a queen.

Snitchin on your father :snoop: At least tell your father to keep his dirt low. You're mom gonna find out eventually anyway. If she dont know already. Dont shame your mother in your eyes.
nikka already told his sisters...his mom knows for sure by now. his pops was right not to tell him shyt...
 
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