Just Found out my Dad is having a affair

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I can't cosign him not putting food in the house for his daughters but as far as who he's sexing, that's his business.
 

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Your dad sounds like a dikk then. Tell her to divorce so she can get alimony/child support from your deadbeat father.
 
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ok...well its time to sell the house...

how old are your sisters?

ones older who had alot of problems who should really be on her own 23 and the other is a senior in highschool she just turned 18 but between all the groups shes in and her about to college she could use him more than ever i think. I just feel like with this affair hes gonna abandon helping his family because honestly when they brought up divorce he doesnt wanna give my mom anything and would rather just take what they have even though she was set back financially raising us
 
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ones older who had alot of problems who should really be on her own 23 and the other is a senior in highschool she just turned 18 but between all the groups shes in and her about to college she could use him more than ever i think. I just feel like with this affair hes gonna abandon helping his family because honestly when they brought up divorce he doesnt wanna give my mom anything and would rather just take what they have even though she was set back financially raising us

bruh...your sisters are grown assed women...

the best thing you and your sisters can do is get on your feet and not be a burden to your mom...

i doubt you know all the dynamics of your parents' relationship...so IMO...you should stay out of that...

as for the rest...:usure:...thats life...you and your sisters get on your feet...that should be a priority...

your pops will come around or maybe he wont but you do what you need to do.
 
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Your sisters are 18 and 23 and you're worrying about food on the table?

not necessarily food on the table but support for the younger one who is going to college upstate and you should know how expensive college is...but maybe it will all work out just hard to find something out like that especially when your believing a lie but thats life i guess
 

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Your sisters are 18 and 23 and you're worrying about food on the table?

Yeah if they were younger then i'd be more sympathetic. At this point he isn't obligated to take care of them like that anymore so they'll have to get jobs. You may want to advise your mom to divorce him, and you yourself may need to get a job. The free ride may be over, and legally, your father's work is done.:manny:

Your younger sister may need to take out a loan, work part time, or if she's a good enough student, financial aid.
 

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College is expensive but that's up to your dad whether he's going to pay or not and that's a separate issue from your parents relationship.
 
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not necessarily food on the table but support for the younger one who is going to college upstate and you should know how expensive college is...but maybe it will all work out just hard to find something out like that especially when your believing a lie but thats life i guess

bruh...she still in highschool....worry about whats gonna happpen in the fall later...
 
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bruh...she still in highschool....worry about whats gonna happpen in the fall later...

Yeah I can see that guess its just natural to not like whoever he gets with though. thats true he can do what he wants to do but i guess you have to be in the situation to understand where im coming from
 
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