Just got child support taken out my check

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to the threadstarter, you have two options:

1. fight for custody. if ur ex is a weed smoker, drinks a lot, parties a lot, u can show her to be irresponsible and be able to get custody based off that...that's only if ur not doing those degenerate things either. if u urself smoke weed, do drugs, party.etc, then, dont know what to tell ya.

2. Move to jersey. you can find a much cheaper apartment there and just simply commute to the city using either the nj transit bus or the nj transit train.

Those are the two best options you need to look into NOW, like immediately.
 

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Ive read possibly 26 if the kids go to college

Damn fam

shyt's crazy. I actually worked with my BM and got taken off papers(we both wanted to keep our family out of the court system, I pay a fixed $1K a month for my seven year old son, we're both happy with the arrangement), but when I saw that my check was garnished till 2030 I was like :damn:
 

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Sucks that you two couldn't work out an agreement without the court system stepping in :(

She did me dirty
We did have an agreement
I put money into her account monthly
I was even giving her money on the side just so it seems like she wasn't getting enough so she can get food stamps
When we separated I moved out of my apartment that I had since before her
All she had to do was pay 400 a month in rent. Everything included
Food, babysitting and a backyard was included
I took care of everything for 9 years while she went to school ttying to get her associates
 

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There's no room for truth and reason here, sorry.


Better to let him fester in his imagination, where his kids don't benefit from their mother having a car to transport them; where she's allowing her kids to starve while spending thousands every month on beauty treatments that actually cost about $30; where he lives in one of the most expensive counties in America, but is outraged child support costs would be adjusted based on the fact; where the mom is spending money allocated for her children on a new boyfriend, while he, the dad, refuses to seek custody of his children, despite the alleged unfit parenting of their mom; where actual dads, the ones who actually live with their children and care for them full time, don't spend just as much on child care.


Let his imagination run wild.
He should abandon his kids, that's what I would do cuz that's way too much money.
 

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She did me dirty
We did have an agreement
I put money into her account monthly
I was even giving her money on the side just so it seems like she wasn't getting enough so she can get food stamps
When we separated I moved out of my apartment that I had since before her
All she had to do was pay 400 a month in rent. Everything included
Food, babysitting and a backyard was included
I took care of everything for 9 years while she went to school ttying to get her associates

Damn that's rough. What made her switch up on you? Did you get a new GF or something?
 
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