Just got child support taken out my check

[Dad]

QUIT CRYING nikka. YOU MADE THE BABY. YOU PAYING 1K A MONTH. LOOK UP DAY CARE PRICES...

DAP + REP

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

fukk my life
I thought there was an error
Then I seen -$487 child support
I got to pay this every 2 weeks
I support my kids as much as I can
They don't need nothing
This shyt is rediculous
I won't be able to pay my rent
Or phone bill
Or eat
Or pay my car insurance
Or health insurance
I would basically have to work like 80 hours a week just to live check to check

This ain't living brehs
Strap up

And if you work 80 hours the baby momma will just file for an increase and have them take more.
When it hit me 18 years ago, all I could do was walk to work, get a roommate to split my $300 a month rent with, eat ramen noodles and get free food from wherever I could.
If it wasn't for the kindness of some key people and an ex of mine that got me away from that dead end state, I'd probably be dead today.

I feel your pain breh.
But I can tell you that it doesn't last forever.
I'm sure you want to see your kids and do as much for them as you can.
Try to keep doing the right thing, but don't let it kill you...because that's how this game is designed.
Your goal is to stay alive...their goal is to put you in a position where you HAVE TO mess up and end up in jail or dead from starvation.

Stay strong.
I can tell you now that no one in that evil system can or will help you.
If you can ever get a lawyer...please do.
The only way to get help is to pay for it.

 

[#1 pick]

I can't disappear on my kids like my pops did to me

It won't matter, they will get you there too.

 

[#1 pick]

OP I'm assuming you see your kids every other weekend. If you see them a lot more than that then this is a case of the bm not being being shyt. When me and my ex spilt I made sure to still get my daughter 3 nights a week and split the cost on everything for her. When it's finally time for this divorce to go thru I have months of proof. It also helps that I pay for a house in both our names and it's in my daughter's school district

Ya'll married, the shyt isn't as smooth when you aren't.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I'm not even makin half of 6 figures
And I live in NYC
I told the fake ass judge if she does that to me ill be living in my car
She said that's life

My daughter is 9 and my son is 7
I'm always half way there
It definitely is cheaper to keep her

Aw shyt man...you got hit up in NY!!
That's horrible...they're the worst state for CS...Florida is 2nd in line with the fukkery.
Glad you're already halfway done.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

 

[#1 pick]

I did
5 years younger than her
Prettier
Got a lot of shyt going for her
My BM thought my new girl was gonna be temporary
When she realized it wasn't like that
She showed up to my new place that i shared with my new girl at 7am
Instigated a fight
Then pressed charges on my girl
My girl getting arrested really fukks up her future employment opportunities

This is why I do not want to see my BM anywhere near me under any circumstances outside of the courtroom. ZERO. I hate it for my child but her mother is a piece of worst shyt imaginable. I just don't deal with her no more. I pay my child support which is a lot but it's better than dealing with her.

 

[Arithmetic]

They already have that
Their mom's now has enough for
Monthly car payments
Hair and nails done weekly
Takin her new man out

fukk that. Appeal that shyt in court. My Allah guide your appeal to victory.

 

[Diyhai]

It's cheaper to keep her brotha. I separated from my lady for a few months and she put me on that CS and it was over 1500 a month for 2 kids. Please believe we worked out them issues. Good luck to you and I would suggest you go to court and ask for a modification.

that 1500 made this nygga find god

 

[onelastdeath]

I planted cocaine in my BM's car already so just in case she ever tries that "I'm taking your son away from you" shyt, I'm framing her as a drug addict and snitchin

Then taking my son

I doubt it'll come to that though .

That's my boo

 

[Gutzman]

Damn how much do u make a month? I pay 350 a month, and that has fukked me up for all my young adulthood. But there is light at the end of the tunnel, Ill be done with mine in September. Ill be getting my full paycheck again finally. fukk child support.

 

[Konnan]

Hes living check to check where is he supposed to get that from breh

A vial of crack on the other hand

Not a bad idea

Be a damn shame if she slipped up and lost custody

See what we sayin OP

 

[Arithmetic]

So sad seeing so many young black brehs and brehettes in this predicament

 

[714562]

Its
It's bullshyt breh, they took my entire refund check and my license still may get suspended. It's a scam and they don't care at all about the situation of the father.

This is the one thing I've never understood. Why does failure to pay child support result in a driver's license suspension? What sense does that make?

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

This is why I do not want to see my BM anywhere near me under any circumstances outside of the courtroom. ZERO. I hate it for my child but her mother is a piece of worst shyt imaginable. I just don't deal with her no more. I pay my child support which is a lot but it's better than dealing with her.

Same here.
My dumbass baby momma tried to break all my car windows with a 2x4 when I still lived in that state/neighborhood.
She intended on getting me put in jail for knocking her ass out. Once she hit me with the 2x4 and left a mark that was bleeding, I calmly called the cops.
She stood out there yelling and cussing me out saying "Go ahead and call them, they gonna take you away!".
When the cops came, they saw the injury, saw the bloody 2x4...and they took her away!!!
Damn real I pressed charges. Put that evil bytch in jail for 2 weeks!!!
Her damn family calling me begging me to drop the charges....fukk THAT!
I hoped that bytch would get into it in jail and get murked!
Unfortunately, she did her time and got out and left me alone after that.
Still left the state to get away from that evil bytch...
She had the nerve to try and move one state away and file child support on the same kid!
Got CS from the adjacent state trying to make a case and take funds out my check...the original state said "HOLD UP" and they stopped wothdrawing ANY CS from my check until it was over.
The bytch was HEATED!!
Blowin up my phone asking me what the hell is going on...when that fukking 3-time loser jailbird scam artist knew exactly what the fukk she did.
When I told her to fukk off and don't call my phone she tried to get CS on me, they laughed at her and threatened to draw up an investigation on her.
bytch got real quiet then.
Called me back asking for help talking to the original state CS and telling me she gonna stop with the case in the state she moved to.
I hung up on her pathetic ass.

One day I'm gonna tap dance on her fukking grave...I swear.