Just got child support taken out my check

[JAY?]

he already said he doesn't .. that's why its an issue 487 every 2 weeks is almost 1000/month when he said he would give 400/month on his own.. that's a 600/month expense increase that he didn't account for. and it happened unexpectedly.. sure in a few weeks after 3-5 paychecks he'll learn how to rebudget but the initial shock is what's killing him

My monthly expenses are like $500 more than what I make
That's with giving her 400
And the more I work the more I get taxed and the more she gets
It makes no sense

 

[JAY?]

Well you shouldn't have had children out of wedlock, then have a white woman as your avi.... dumb c00n.

You reap what you sow.

My girl is Dominican/Rican

 

[blackzeus]

fukk my life
I thought there was an error
Then I seen -$487 child support
I got to pay this every 2 weeks
I support my kids as much as I can
They don't need nothing
This shyt is rediculous
I won't be able to pay my rent
Or phone bill
Or eat
Or pay my car insurance
Or health insurance
I would basically have to work like 80 hours a week just to live check to check

This ain't living brehs
Strap up

Control your nut brehs, sh*t real outchea

 

[Atsym Sknyfs]

I don't make that much
After taxes
And health insurance
And 401k (which is only $50 every 2 weeks and I'm gonna have to put an end to it)
And union dues
And every other bullshyt fee or tax that comes out of my check
I see about 1200 every 2 weeks
And that's if I don't miss a day
I miss a day about once every 2 weeks for doctor visits
I have a couple of medical issues
It costs about $200 a missed day between the lost of wage and copays

for you medical stuff I hope you did FLMA.. a day every 2 weeks means you need JOB protection ..you dont have paid sick days? put those forms in.. sounds like you might have a city job (edit no city job you said you got 401k).. then def fill out those forms in.

do you do single health insurance or family plan.. if she has Medicaid you can drop down to the single (only in November though)

 

[MarloStanTrill]

fukk my life
I thought there was an error
Then I seen -$487 child support
I got to pay this every 2 weeks
I support my kids as much as I can
They don't need nothing
This shyt is rediculous
I won't be able to pay my rent
Or phone bill
Or eat
Or pay my car insurance
Or health insurance
I would basically have to work like 80 hours a week just to live check to check

This ain't living brehs
Strap up

You shoulda bailed on that thot- or she shoulda had an accident while she was pregnant

Probation & parole...and Kids & marriage is a trap for nikkas

 

[NobleDrewAli]

In all seriousness though breh. I feel for you. I can't even tell you to get another job because they'll factor that income into your payments and take MORE from you. Shyt all messed up. I wish you the best.

 

[the cac mamba]

:flobbe:

yo this needs to be official

 

[Bilz]

fukk my life
I thought there was an error
Then I seen -$487 child support
I got to pay this every 2 weeks
I support my kids as much as I can
They don't need nothing
This shyt is rediculous
I won't be able to pay my rent
Or phone bill
Or eat
Or pay my car insurance
Or health insurance
I would basically have to work like 80 hours a week just to live check to check

This ain't living brehs
Strap up

If you worked 80 hours she could take even more

 

[Atsym Sknyfs]

it don't take no damn 1000 a month to raise no 2 damn kids wtf tip y'all niqqas on

those kids bills are like this

150$ water bill
150$ electricity
150$ (gas and that depend on winter) if pays own heat 1000
400$ a month on groceries
that's not including cable/cell/car note/car insurance/gasoline

then u spend maybe 6000 for the year on clothes.

OP did u bad mouth the judge? i know dudes making 80k and only play like 600 a month

fixed to show NYC prices

 

[JAY?]

How many months do you have to miss for them to start garnishing your check?

for you medical stuff I hope you did FLMA.. a day every 2 weeks means you need JOB protection ..you dont have paid sick days? put those forms in.. sounds like you might have a city job (edit no city job you said you got 401k).. then def fill out those forms in.

do you do single health insurance or family plan.. if she has Medicaid you can drop down to the single (only in November though)

What's flma?
Nah. No city job
I get 6 sick days a year
I use more than that

And I used 1 sick day last week because when I went to return the kids she wasn't there so I had to take them back home and return them the next day

 

[JAY?]

If you worked 80 hours she could take even more

If I work 80 hours the bytch could retire

 

[Bawon Samedi]

This is why we use condoms brehs...

Im a young nikka and winning I cant have a kid.

Take notes from Huncho Hoodo...

"cant be no baby daddy so my son he stay wit me."

I feel bad for one of my coworkers who has CS take almost his entire check.

How is condoms so hard brehs? Keep them in your wallet, car glove department, bring them when you travel,etc.

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

#Nokidsgang

It's a blessing.

BULLETPROOF CONDOMS WHEN IM IN THESE HOES

 

[Atsym Sknyfs]

What's flma?
Nah. No city job
I get 6 sick days a year
I use more than that

And I used 1 sick day last week because when I went to return the kids she wasn't there so I had to take them back home and return them the next day

Family Medical Leave Act ... FMLA (Family & Medical Leave)

Spoiler

The Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) provides certain employees with up to 12 weeks of unpaid, job-protected leave per year. It also requires that their group health benefits be maintained during the leave.

FMLA is designed to help employees balance their work and family responsibilities by allowing them to take reasonable unpaid leave for certain family and medical reasons. It also seeks to accommodate the legitimate interests of employers and promote equal employment opportunity for men and women.

FMLA applies to all public agencies, all public and private elementary and secondary schools, and companies with 50 or more employees. These employers must provide an eligible employee with up to 12 weeks of unpaid leave each year for any of the following reasons:

• for the birth and care of the newborn child of an employee;
• for placement with the employee of a child for adoption or foster care;
• to care for an immediate family member (spouse, child, or parent) with a serious health condition; or
• to take medical leave when the employee is unable to work because of a serious health condition.

Employees are eligible for leave if they have worked for their employer at least 12 months, at least 1,250 hours over the past 12 months, and work at a location where the company employs 50 or more employees within 75 miles. Whether an employee has worked the minimum 1,250 hours of service is determined according to FLSA principles for determining compensable hours or work.

Time taken off work due to pregnancy complications can be counted against the 12 weeks of family and medical leave.

A final rule effective on January 16, 2009, updates the FMLA regulations to implement new military family leave entitlements enacted under the National Defense Authorization Act for FY 2008.

Special rules apply to employees of local education agencies. The Department of Labor administers FMLA; however, the Office of Personnel Management (OPM) administers FMLA for most federal employees.

... it protects your job because of excess absences due to medical issues for you or fam.. as lomg as you work FT been at place for a year you qualify.

you get 12 weeks off a year (you can take in 1 shot or periodical ,, ex. 3 hours every 2 weeks for DR visits.. you still use your sick days or its un paid ... but you cant get fired for excessive absence

 

[JAY?]

And the shyt that really hurts is that it effects my relationship with my new girl
I can't really take her out
Or do nice things for her
She's good with going to the park and shyt like that but she deserves so much more
She been holding me down throughout all of this

Another thing that hurts is I can't really take the kids out either
I can't buy them their favorite cereal for when they come over
I can't take them for ice cream or pizza