Just got child support taken out my check

[Atsym Sknyfs]

2 choices:

Pay the 5 like on Martin

Get back with that bytch

He already obligated to pay .. getting back with her wont solve the issue.. they garnishing him.. if he was paying voluntarily then maybe..

 

[Afro]

even if you are building a family, if the woman wants a divorce, you're screwed.

I din't know when/if I'll get married, but there's gonna be an ironclad prenup if possible.

Prenups get thrown out everyday man. They don't work anymore, she says "signed under duress" and poof. Lawyers specialize in getting the max amount of money out of you. Do not think a prenup will save you.

You get married, you hand control to her.

 

[acri1]

Have kids, brehs

 

[blackslash]

Dis why im marrying a traditional christian woman who in it for the long haul(FOREVA)
These problems wont be mine

 

[MoneyBags]

Kevin federiline won

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

What's flma?
Nah. No city job
I get 6 sick days a year
I use more than that

And I used 1 sick day last week because when I went to return the kids she wasn't there so I had to take them back home and return them the next day

You said you have a Union job. Man read the contract. I'm almost 100% sure it is in there that if you have a medical problem you get those days off with no problem.

Go talk to your Union Stewart and ask them if you don't want to read it yourself. Tell them your situation on the medical stuff and I'm sure you're good.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I can't disappear on my kids like my pops did to me

But do you understand why he did now?

 

[Ashley Banks]

lol @ the kid's mom being insulted because he has to take care of his kids.

Sucks for you op but $1000 a month seems reasonable for 2 kids. Kids are expensive. You guys talk a ton of crap about a man being a "provider" but when you really have to do it, you want to act like a victim and talk about abandoning your kids or murdering their mother.

 

[stepbackj34spud]

In all seriousness though breh. I feel for you. I can't even tell you to get another job because they'll factor that income into your payments and take MORE from you. Shyt all messed up. I wish you the best.

No they don't.. My homey has a second job and he said they don't touch that check. She'll only find out about the extra income/job if he tells her/somebody else tells her.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

It's cheaper to keep her brotha. I separated from my lady for a few months and she put me on that CS and it was over 1500 a month for 2 kids. Please believe we worked out them issues. Good luck to you and I would suggest you go to court and ask for a modification.

And this is exactly why a lot of nikkas stay with a chick and cheat on her excessively. Cause they don't even want to be there in the first place

But the moment you say "look this isn't working. I'm going to take care of my son and anything he wants or needs, just tell me and I'll have it for him....."

She immediately goes with "fukk you nikka I'm taking you to court"

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

The 12k a year is actually going to his baby mom's hair and nails, rmbr?

Nevermind that the average cost of raising one child is more than double what he's paying for the two.

Hair and nails, yeah, that's what the money's being used on.

It's cute to say that, but let's be real for a second

I lived with my girl and my son for the first 3 years of his life. At NO point and time did it take 1000 a month, every month, to raise him

If we had no kid, we'd still have the house. So you can't count that. You didn't have a kid and suddenly need to move out your cardboard box. same with a car. You had one before him. Don't blame that on the kid for you having one now


Food and clothing yea. Clothing not so much. How many fukking clothes are you buying? You can buy enough clothes for a year with 1500 on a 7 year old. Does he need $50 jeans? $60 polos? No. But if you wanted too. That still enough.


Food. We never spent no damn $400-500 a month for the whole family. Let alone just him. Learn how to cook meals instead buying that expensive overpriced processed frozen shyt.



A lot of what y'all are adding up ain't for the kid. It's for the kids. Not for the parents. Buying groceries for the kids is not buying groceries for you and the kids.

A car payment is zero to do with the kids and the judge will tell you that. As a parent you are to provide clothing, shelter and food. Shelter to include daycare but his kids are in school so that's not a factor either



It's all bullshyt. I don't live with my bm anymore. She works. I work. Our child is in school. I asked her flat out how much does she need. She said pay my electric and give me an extra 100 bucks. My son wants for nothing. Anything he wants, I buy. Anything extra he may need, we buy. Just took them both to Disney for a week. He's good money


I couldn't imagine her suddenly saying, you know what, I need an extra 900 dollars to be able for him to survive. nikka please

 

[SheWantTheD]

whoooo new man gon' be stunting in the car you pay for, with your FABULOUS baby moms in the passenger





fixed

 

[SheWantTheD]

Damn bruh, sorry to hear that.

Thank goodness I ain't got no baby mama's shyt.

Free as a whistle

 

[Neil Tyson]

lol @ the kid's mom being insulted because he has to take care of his kids.

Sucks for you op but $1000 a month seems reasonable for 2 kids. Kids are expensive. You guys talk a ton of crap about a man being a "provider" but when you really have to do it, you want to act like a victim and talk about abandoning your kids or murdering their mother.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

They live in her mom's house
She takes care of them

Get receipts breh. Most men don't know this. You can demand receipts to show proof that the money is being used for your kids

There is no way in fukking hell she is going to be able to show that she spends 900 a month on them, when she can't possibly show any bills she's paying. Unless she show up with a 900 food bill every month, you'll win