Just got child support taken out my check

[JT-Money]

I guarantee you he is still sleeping with her. Are you going to ignore all the men who admit they do this just to avoid child support? Its common.

Would you date another man with kids? After dating a single mom I swore off them forever. It's just not worth the headache.

 

[seabreeze80]

Would you date another man with kids? After dating a single mom I swore off them forever. It's just not worth the headache.

Hell no and I don't blame you for not wanting to date single moms neither. The headache is too much.

 

[The Radiant One]

pay 1400 for one kid I'm so hard on hoes

 

[Robo Squirrel]

“If you find a good one, you better keep her”
Yeah she good for now, til she wants some bread.

nikkas always trying to talk down on nikkas that wanna be single and just fukk bytches.

Don’t wanna sound ignorant, but to me it’s like a female trait to look down on a man because he wants to be single and enjoy his freedom.

You get married and have kids, that bytch literary has you by the balls.

fukk that!!

 

[Lifejennings]

Pay for the children that you make. When you don't the rest of us have to pick up the tab, and we're not going for it. By the way black women seek child support the least out of every group.

 

[GoFlipAPack]

Getting that vasectomy was one of the best decisions I ever made. No kids for me I'm good

 

[Kilgore Trout]

this thread is eye opening

 

[The Fade]

I will never let a woman put me in a car or fukk over my insurance

I’m running back to court forever and a day to annoy the shyt out of that judge

 

[GoFlipAPack]

It's actually really sad seeing shyt like this. I don't know, maybe it's because I saw the way my mother con her baby daddies (my oldest brother dad disappeared and just refused to work since the birth of my brother, my dad was in jail for not paying child support for like 4-5 years. He died when I was 13, now the father of my last 3 siblings. This guy was with my mom since I was 2. He paid all the bills in the house, her car, food, rent, giving her an allowance when he can, giving all 5 of her kids [including my older brother and I who weren't his biological kids] AND STILL he was on child support. All while he was living with us. They split when I was 15). I don't see what fukking enjoyment any girl get out of making someone else's life miserable like that.

It's so desperate.

If I were to ever get pregnant out of wedlock (not an option now, obviously, or ever for that fact) & the man even makes me THINK he doesn't want this child whether it is questioning me if it's his, abortion, etc. I'll personally hand deliver him the forms where he can terminate his parental rights. I don't want my child loving nor following a man who runs from responsibilies as such.

If that isn't the case, we can rejoice and raise our child together. If not together but he still wants to be in his/her life, I'll never rob him of that. We can settle everything out of court like grown folks. That's the thing there too, girls that do that kitty shyt of hitting a man's pockets like that not caring about his own well-fair is child-minded women. It's despicable. And they do it for the wrong reasons too. I watched my mother use all the money she was collecting for shyt that didn't pertain to us (her children) at all & im gonna assume majority of women are doing the same.

God bless women like you

 

[SupaHotIce]

$400 a month don't even pay for food for 2 kids. Well scratch that, it can if you stretch it but that's $50/week per kid. You leaving their mother to play your role as the provider. Find a way to do better. Kids gotta eat, have clothes, have a place to stay, a way to get the places they need to go, etc. If I had custody of my kids and my BM tried to give me $400/mo I'd laugh in her face

What??? You need to learn to cook.

 

[The Fade]

I know the feeling pockets on empty like a motherfukker. What's worse is even if you get an extra job to make up for what you're paying, that extra income pushes your total income higher, so when it's tax time unless you have any write-offs, y'all ended up owning taxes. Because your in a higher bracket if you can't claim one of the kids, even tho your pockets says something different.

So they make you pay an amount you can’t pay unless you get a second job

You get a second job to pay the money and they just raise the amount you have to pay even more, completely ruining the point of a second job

And so then you become stressed and risk jail


Now I see why fertility rates are low, that’s essentially sharecropping for a woman who’s a loser

 

[YoungMoneyCashMoneyBoy]

$400 a month don't even pay for food for 2 kids. Well scratch that, it can if you stretch it but that's $50/week per kid. You leaving their mother to play your role as the provider. Find a way to do better. Kids gotta eat, have clothes, have a place to stay, a way to get the places they need to go, etc. If I had custody of my kids and my BM tried to give me $400/mo I'd laugh in her face

Are you unemployed?

 

[Mr swag]

fukk my life
I thought there was an error
Then I seen -$487 child support
I got to pay this every 2 weeks
I support my kids as much as I can
They don't need nothing
This shyt is rediculous
I won't be able to pay my rent
Or phone bill
Or eat
Or pay my car insurance
Or health insurance
I would basically have to work like 80 hours a week just to live check to check

This ain't living brehs
Strap up

That is 9k a year, you can’t eat???

 

[KingTut]

This dramatic ass thread never fails to crack me the fukk up

 

[JAY?]

That is 9k a year, you can’t eat???

After child support and taxes and all that other shyt they take out I was coming home with like 700 every 2 weeks.
That wasn't barely enough to pay my rent
It definitely wasn't enough to pay for all my bills
I was going in the hole like $500 a month. Putting everything on credit cards just to make ends meet.
Honestly I forgot all about this thread. I don't even remember making it. I'm in a much better place in my life right now