Just got child support taken out my check

[WesCrook]

How do you know? You are not him. I'm pretty sure he was still sexing her. I've seen it happen time and time again. That baby mama isn't acting out for no reason. He more than likely has a lot of skeletons that you nor your cousin know anything about. Right now she thinks everything is good but it will all come out eventually. I'm not caping for the baby mama but I've seen this type of thing happen so many times.

A lot of men still have sex with the baby mama hoping that it will keep them from being put on child support. Look at this thread. A lot of men have already admitted that they do this. It works in the beginning but eventually she will keep wondering why he is only offering sex and not a relationship. As soon as he tries to get into a new relationship with someone else, all hell breaks loose.

Personally this situation happened to me. I was with an ex for years and we decided we were going to tie the knot. We planned having kids and everything. Out of nowhere I was getting stalked by his baby mama. Of course he called her crazy, which was true but I knew there was something more to her craziness. Long story short, he was still having sex with her the whole time hoping that it would keep her from putting him on child support. Unfortunately for the both of them, I'm tech savvy and gained access to their phones, computers and cameras. She was threatening him damn near every day that he she would finally put him on child support if he didn't comply to her demands and he gave in every time. I won in the end.

Most women don't act crazy or jealous out of nowhere. Something happened to make them act out like that. Hopefully your cousin is smart and doesn't take everything he says as gospel truth.

Put all men in the same bucket because of your own personal experiences, breh.

@ "Something HAD to MAKE them act out like that"

 

[Verbal Kint]

What??? You need to learn to cook.

You need to smarten up. Ive got 4 sons and my grocery budget has been over $200 per trip since before the last two were born. Dont speak on what you dont know dum dum

 

[Verbal Kint]

Are you unemployed?

No, boy. And Ive had my son on my own for 9 months before I got married and have 4 kids at home. So Im speaking what I know

 

[Wild self]

So they make you pay an amount you can’t pay unless you get a second job

You get a second job to pay the money and they just raise the amount you have to pay even more, completely ruining the point of a second job

And so then you become stressed and risk jail


Now I see why fertility rates are low, that’s essentially sharecropping for a woman who’s a loser

EUGENICS. is key to these bytches is that they need to stop having kids altogether

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Threads like this keep me from wanting to nut in a broad. shyt us harsh

Or fukk divorced career women

 

[YoungMoneyCashMoneyBoy]

No, boy. And Ive had my son on my own for 9 months before I got married and have 4 kids at home. So Im speaking what I know

No need to get snippy, Kunt. You said "Kids gotta eat, have clothes, have a place to stay, a way to get the places they need to go" as if you're unemployed and are depending on that $400/month as your sole source of income coming your way via your BM that you would laugh at.

If you have a good job and are supporting him on your own, $400/month from your BM is nothing to laugh it.

 

[seabreeze80]

Put all men in the same bucket because of your own personal experiences, breh.

@ "Something HAD to MAKE them act out like that"

Did you miss the part where I wrote: "A lot of men still have sex with the baby mama hoping that it will keep them from being put on child support. Look at this thread. A lot of men have already admitted that they do this."

I never said all men.

 

[Verbal Kint]

No need to get snippy, Kunt. You said "Kids gotta eat, have clothes, have a place to stay, a way to get the places they need to go" as if you're unemployed and are depending on that $400/month as your sole source of income coming your way via your BM that you would laugh at.

If you have a good job and are supporting him on your own, $400/month from your BM is nothing to laugh it.

That aint my name, boy. And your reading comprehension is off. Child support is meant to share the financial burden of raising children. Regardless of what Im bringing in, $400 a month doesnt come close to even half the cost of raising kids.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

im appalled BY YOUR AGGRESSIVE IGNORANCE

taking care of your own goddamn kids and EXPLOITATION of a man's salary is two different damn things

don't let your HATRED OF MEN blind you to the reality that Child Support is being exploited by SOME greedy vengeful babymamas and a shallow biased court system

i feel for the OP....

I was there for my son from the beginning signed the birth certificate right there at the hospital...had my girl living with me

took on a extra job as a contractor to pay off my debts to get a bigger place and support my family

because i happened to have subcontracted alot of work for the city...i was able to get a hookup on some government housing

helped get her a nice section 8 apartment in the suburbs where all she had to pay was 85 bucks a month for rent....


the plan was for it to be TEMPORARY....the following year i had plan to marry her with money i saved for us to move OUT OF SECTION 8 into a OUR OWN HOME.... so much for that plan

im sending her money for her place ....while im on the road busting my azz to work..

she didnt work always had an excuse....and when she eventually decided to go to school she wound up on academic probation (failure)

so i guess somebody taught her the "game" ...and when i arrived home from working out of town, she decides to start these crazy off the wall arguments and shyt .....just giving me hell.....not to mention she was stepping out on me

so finally she says she want's to breakup..i was like cool...we wasnt getting along ..and it wasn't healty for us or the baby

come to find out this was a GAME!!!.....the byatch NEVER had her own place prior to me....

so that place she got and the bread she was getting from me was a comeup

so now that we broke up ....not less than a week later I GET SERVED WITH CHILD SUPPORT PAPERS....

i go to pick up my son now..and she still ain't working .....balling out at at the mall and done moved a new boyfriend in the aparment i hooked her up with ....

yet SHE COULDN'T AFFORD THE COPAY AT THE DOCTOR'S VISIT FOR MY SON

and the utilities!!!...all she had to pay was 85 bucks for rent...yet my azz had to pay the electricity bill cause god knows what she did with her child support money

meanwhile my black azz.....struggling to pay 645 dollars for one child (live in georgia and have a kid with a woman on assistance breh)...ONE DAMN CHILD YALL!

had to leave my apartment......work 7 days a week.....and move into a fukking rooming house....living off raman noodles and value meals from fast food restaurants..

fearing that if i didn't make a payment I COULD HAVE MY LICENSE SUSPENDED OR FIND MYSELF IN JAIL..

ASK YOURSELF IS THAT FAIR??


so DON'T YOU DARE STEROTYPE EVERY MAN AS SOME "DEADBEAT" HAVING DADDY...I DID AND CONTINUE TO DO FOR MY SON

THAT BYATCH JUST TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE SYSTEM...WITH NO REGARDS FOR ME OR MY SON..

BUT HEY YOU KNOW THE STORY...HATE THE GAME NOT THE PLAYER

SO IF ANYTHING I BLAME THE SYSTEM...MORE THAN THE SORRY BABYMAMS

I just did that calculator, I don't want to leave my wife, but looking at that I'm just going to have to take an L and stay if things get bad.
I got 4 kids with her. If I can't get full custody I'm going to have to move to mexico.

My co worker, let his wife be stay at home way past when their kid was little, she rode the whole "going to school" thing for close to a decade.
This man had been working for this company 25 years, pension, 401k, stock options. Paid all the bills.

She starts being distant and listening to and hang with her school friends.
She decides she's unhappy being married to him after all this time, while having NOTHING of her own.
They go to court..... HALF. (in my eddie murphy voice).

Half his 401 he spent 25 years stacking (lump sum, literally went in his account and took 150k)
Half his pension (If he ever gets to draw from it)
She got to keep the house (which he had to keep paying for during the year the divorce took)
Child Support (Their son also gets a SSI check)
And spousal support

My man been grinding all his life, and at 50 had to move in with his brother family.
He walked away with his car and his clothes, and couldn't afford to have a place by himself.

I hate it had to be him..

I'm reading both of these posts and my blood is boiling. WTF??!!?!?!?

 

[Balla]

I'm reading both of these posts and my blood is boiling. WTF??!!?!?!?

Reading shyt like this makes not care what any of these shaming bytches or nikkas say.

Call it a second childhood all you want, but Imma play the field as long as I want, imma be in shape/healthy, take care of the fam, and fukk these hoes to sleep.

Funny thing Nas made that song, but his ass was paying Kelis!!

 

[YoungMoneyCashMoneyBoy]

That aint my name, boy. And your reading comprehension is off. Child support is meant to share the financial burden of raising children. Regardless of what Im bringing in, $400 a month doesnt come close to even half the cost of raising kids.

That is your name, Kunt. I know what child support is but your dependence on $400/month from a woman has you sounding like a bytch, a broke bytch. "$400 isn't enough. They gotta eat, they need clothes, they need a place to stay". Do you work? Do you have a career or a job? I make more than enough to support a child. Anything extra from a BM wouldnt get laughed at or praised. It would get met with indifference. You got some women out here with more balls than you not looking for a check.

 

[generic-username]

Why didn't you guys use a condom?

 

[stepbackj34spud]

@JAY?

How u holding up breh?

@GoldCoastSaint

You still a bum bytch with an allowance.

 

[Amsterdayumn]

Why didn't you guys use a condom?

Exactly.

And if you want to have kids, should've vetted her better.

And even if she switched up on you, should've document all the fukk shyt she done you dirty with and seek help from organizations specialised in helping males.

And if all turns sour I'd rather accept my fate in jail then being treated unfairly by the system like that. fukk that, what I look like being treated like that. Worked and saved hard for her to do nothing and spending my hard earned cash with her new BF. Nope. I'd send every last cent offshore and give only my fam or my brehs access.

 

[JAY?]

@JAY?

How u holding up breh?

@GoldCoastSaint

You still a bum bytch with an allowance.

I'm doing pretty well. I'm in a better space financially. It's been over 3 years since I first made this thread and a lot has changed.