Just got child support taken out my check

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Getting that vasectomy was one of the best decisions I ever made. No kids for me I'm good

I keep telling y'all only get with career women, leave those broke broads alone. When the courts see she make $70,000 you're breaking off $300/month at most.

 

[Jplaya2023]

listen to judge mathis on this. Fellas go ahead and get with the judge and state and setup your child support payments because any money not paid through the court she can say you never gave her and she can get you for back support for child support

 

[the bossman]

I'm reading both of these posts and my blood is boiling. WTF??!!?!?!?

The idea of a wife being a stay at home mom sounds nice in theory but if shyt doesn't work out with the marriage, the judge looks at her as nothing but a poor victim with no income. That's automatic alimony.

It's a lot to think about

 

[JAY?]

What happened at the end of this??? can we get an update...

I fukked that up big time
I still be trying to fix that situation but she ain't with it

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Can you pay in cash? If I had to pay child support I would take that shyt in cash and throw it in her face every month

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

I nut in hoes all the time...

 

[iBrowse]

This dramatic ass thread never fails to crack me the fukk up

 

[Buckeye Fever]

The idea of a wife being a stay at home mom sounds nice in theory but if shyt doesn't work out with the marriage, the judge looks at her as nothing but a poor victim with no income. That's automatic alimony.

It's a lot to think about

That's why i wish the fukk i would work to support a chick

 

[BiggWebb79]

Another word to the wise if you got more than one child and that child is about to turn 18 but not going to college, make sure you get your cs modified with the court ahead of time because it will not automatically stop.

I found this out the hard way assuming that it would stop automatically, hell my son turned 18 this past August and 2 checks after his birthday they was still taking out the amount for him.
I go down to the cs office and find out what is going on and they tell me since i have two children, the difference can't told which one gets what .

Mind you i just went down to cs office in April to get receipt for my balance of my back support arrears, the bytch at the desk tells me once he is 18 that it will stop and i don't have to do anything before hand, if she told me i have to get it modify to get it to stop i would've. Now here i am months later still paying because i gotta pay a sheriff to serve my bm papers, since i make to much(but not based on net) to get the court fee waved. when all they have to do is just take my son off of the court order since he's of age.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

"I dont want my woman to work. Im paying EVERYTHING"

Years down the line, she divorces him and since he was paying for everything, the bytch gets half and he has to downgrade to a studio apartment that smells like feet

I will NEVER be a trick

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Another word to the wise if you got more than one child and that child is about to turn 18 but not going to college, make sure you get your cs modified with the court ahead of time because it will not automatically stop.

I found this out the hard way assuming that it would stop automatically, hell my son turned 18 this past August and 2 checks after his birthday they was still taking out the amount for him.
I go down to the cs office and find out what is going on and they tell me since i have two children, the difference can't told which one gets what .

Mind you i just went down to cs office in April to get receipt for my balance of my back support arrears, the bytch at the desk tells me once he is 18 that it will stop and i don't have to do anything before hand, if she told me i have to get it modify to get it to stop i would've. Now here i am months later still paying because i gotta pay a sheriff to serve her papers, since i make to much(but not based on net) to get the court fee waved. when all they have to do is just take my son off of the court order since he's of age.

I got 2 sons that will both be 18 within the next 2 and a half years.

Props on the info, because i assumed it automatically stopped. If they wanna go to college though, i'll be cool with that

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

That's why i wish the fukk i would work to support a chick

And a lot of women shame men into paying the bills. But nobody brings up alimony, child support, and assets in divorce cases. It's not worth the risks paying for everything.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

And a lot of women shame men into paying the bills. But nobody brings up alimony, child support, and assets in divorce cases. It's not worth the risks paying for everything.

Most definitely.

And it is funny when this shyt gets discussed on social media. It brings out simps and lazy ass women talkin' their bullshyt about what a real man is supposed to do

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

Even tho I’m married and been with the wife over 20 yrs(since high school) I’m so glad I’m in a position even if she leaves child support wouldn’t even affect my pockets.. Thanks to bills being paid in full and having zero car notes.. I feel for you brehs tho

 

[AAKing23]

"I dont want my woman to work. Im paying EVERYTHING"

Years down the line, she divorces him and since he was paying for everything, the bytch gets half and he has to downgrade to a studio apartment that smells like feet

I will NEVER be a trick

Facts Don't let these hoes shame you into paying for everything