Just got divorced after 12 yrs...ama

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Just got out of an 11 yr marriage myself..:blessed:

The house that I bought with my 401k (that I'm still paying back) it's for her n the kids now:wow:

Paying 800 a month child support:wow:


Can't even claim 1 of them on the income tax:mjlol: get about 2000 compared to her 10,000 every year :wow:


Now stuck living in a efficiency in east Miramar u ready for this life playboy? It's cheaper to keep her who ever said that shyt knew what time it was.

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Just got out of an 11 yr marriage myself..:blessed:

The house that I bought with my 401k (that I'm still paying back) it's for her n the kids now:wow:

Paying 800 a month child support:wow:


Can't even claim 1 of them on the income tax:mjlol: get about 2000 compared to her 10,000 every year :wow:


Now stuck living in a efficiency in east Miramar u ready for this life playboy? It's cheaper to keep her who ever said that shyt knew what time it was.

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Benefit is growing with someone...
Structure in your life....better than pipin random thots all day n night....
But i was ignorant to the woman i married
If it happens again....then im a fool...
Did you always work a lot of hours, if not do you think the decline came when you started to work more? Unfortunately, I've seen your scenario a lot of times; men working a lot and women getting bored so they start stepping out.
 

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Did you always work a lot of hours, if not do you think the decline came when you started to work more? Unfortunately, I've seen your scenario a lot of times; men working a lot and women getting bored so they start stepping out.

Cheat instead of stepping up to ease the load of the man, or suggest they downsize so the man doesn't have to work more :mjlol:
 

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Did you always work a lot of hours, if not do you think the decline came when you started to work more? Unfortunately, I've seen your scenario a lot of times; men working a lot and women getting bored so they start stepping out.
Yep.....when i was dead broke shyt seemed happy....maybe it was a control thing with her i dunno...
But when my paper started lookin good...of course more hours less attention...getting the house n such....it went a lil sour.....like she upset i have more control of our lifestyle......
Now that i think about she use to say certain shyt like it was competition....

Womem....i tell ya:jbhmm:
 

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Yep.....when i was dead broke shyt seemed happy....maybe it was a control thing with her i dunno...
But when my paper started lookin good...of course more hours less attention...getting the house n such....it went a lil sour.....like she upset i have more control of our lifestyle......
Now that i think about she use to say certain shyt like it was competition....

Womem....i tell ya:jbhmm:

women like to have control over men, which is why many deal with "bum" dudes at the extreme, or blue collar dudes who dont own their own business.
 

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The cheating the lies......see once you give your all to a person....and have no more in the tank...thats when things get ugly...the police callin....the fights...we werent evenly yoked....now mind you i have 2 other kids....so instead of me sittin in a jail cell i had to think about them....so i bounced

:whoo: she cheated on you and beat yo ass?
 

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women like to have control over men, which is why many deal with "bum" dudes at the extreme, or blue collar dudes who dont own their own business.
Yea when she met me i had money...hit a rough patch got back on my feet...thats when i married her.....
I use to tell her all the time...."ill bake the cake...you just add the frosting."
I ask her to pay a bill she'll say...oh you want me to take care of you..smh:mindblown:
 
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