As a woman, this is what scares me about getting married.
To me, in these times - people are quicker to leave - which depending on the marriage - it can be good or bad.
I have been in long-term relationships - where we wanted to take the next step - but then we would see friends and family who were together less time than we were -- get married and divorced - while we were still together.
Honestly, I'm OK with just being committed to each other - no paperwork - so when he's ready or I'm ready to be done. We can just do that.
Even living together, I prefer we both keep our own spots - makes things so much easier if things come to an end - or if someone needs some air.
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...so hopefully i coud give some insight to breh who thinkin bout marriage or goin thru issues....
