Just got divorced after 12 yrs...ama

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Just got out of an 11 yr marriage myself..

The house that I bought with my 401k (that I'm still paying back) it's for her n the kids now

Paying 800 a month child support


Can't even claim 1 of them on the income tax get about 2000 compared to her 10,000 every year


Now stuck living in a efficiency in east Miramar u ready for this life playboy? It's cheaper to keep her who ever said that shyt knew what time it was.

$800/month is a new M3 A Hellcat

 

[SlickHomie]

Good luck bro. Did a 15 yr stint ( not married on paper tho) so I know the feeling.

Do you hope to be in each other’s lives and amicable down the line?

I dont really care......she wants to be friends....but hell even AFTER the divorce she still on that b.s. like lies n such as in she got somethin to prove to me....

 

[HARLEM AL]

They prettymuch saying that thier focus isnt on the marriage anymore...could be the arguing...side nikka....fianances.....
So they are going fo blame YOU....first of all.....but its b.s.excuse to say they want out....but get this.....they want out temporarily...

This right here is a straight up gem.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Yup. every married chick that's ever hit me up BACK IN THE DAY, it was b/c her man was never home

Question. Is that because they feel lonely or because they're just taking the opportunity?

I always wanted to know this

 

[Dusty Bake Activate]

OP I was with the same woman for 11 years (almost 7 of them married) and I dipped out too. Wish I did sooner. It’s all good though. Just focus on the positives moving forward. It’s painful but just do the shyt you like to do and live for yourself for a while at least.

 

[HARLEM AL]

I dont really care......she wants to be friends....but hell even AFTER the divorce she still on that b.s. like lies n such as in she got somethin to prove to me....

Cut her off completely...

 

[HARLEM AL]

Question. Is that because they feel lonely or because they're just taking the opportunity?

I always wanted to know this

Opportunity and attention.

 

[SlickHomie]

I'm sorry OP.

Do you think you will be open to getting married again?

Maybe...but shes gonna have to have more to lose than me.....marriage is the shyt when all the gears are lined up no b.s. ...i would advise to know YOURSELF....
for real....after that if that woman is worth is it study her....dont simp....be a man bout it....but make sure ALL boxes are checked.....make sure she stay busy...she got her own shyt lined up....etc etc

 

[SlickHomie]

w

towards the end did you spend more time away from the crib and fukk other chicks? And are you looking to “make up” for lost time by drowning your “sorrows” in p*ssy?

We were seperated......so i got out here did my thang.....gettin into lil relationships
N shyt....but then i said....fuk it.....lemme just be by myself......get my money back up..........stop sellin dreams...p*ssy is automatic....anywho

 

[HARLEM AL]

But brehs come at me, mad cause I talk a lil tough when it comes to women

Man please. Any man that has women in his life know how fickle these creatures are.

And so I play the game. I even keep a couple waiting in the wings in case this thing dont work out.

Mama ain't raise no fool. And I may have been born yesterday but I stayed up all night

I refuse to be that man whose life was destroyed all because of how she felt in the moment.

Talk that shyt. Pay them no mind when it comes you being direct with woman. Thats because they don't understand that they are saying a woman isnt capable of being an adult. They think you should treat them as children. Not like you would treat each other as men.

 

[Booker T Garvey]

Question. Is that because they feel lonely or because they're just taking the opportunity?

I always wanted to know this

A mixture of both...I had my own place and lived alone..If i didn't and lived w/my girl and had to get hotel rooms and all that silly shyt, they wouldn't have bothered.

But can't ignore that their husbands left them alone with tons of idle time on their hands

 

[SlickHomie]

Nah n1gga u gotta elaborate.

I worked...she did for a lil bit but went out on sick leave
So now I have to handle anything....
Now when its time to go back to work she got comfortable being at home....
Mind you she has NO KIDS...
but she wants to keep up with the joneses...
Now the more i worked the less attention she gets....hell i wanna sit back lay wood and play 2k all day but bills gotta get paid...
So i imagine the 5 bdrm bouse 2 cars...fence dog n shyt...wasnt good enough....she had to see if the grass was greener on the other side

 

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Did covid19 and the effects of the pandemic accelerate the divorce?

 

[LennoxWine]

You can answer more than one question at a time...Just so you know...Proceed

 

[xoxodede]

But brehs come at me, mad cause I talk a lil tough when it comes to women

Man please. Any man that has women in his life know how fickle these creatures are.

And so I play the game. I even keep a couple waiting in the wings in case this thing dont work out.

Mama ain't raise no fool. And I may have been born yesterday but I stayed up all night

I refuse to be that man whose life was destroyed all because of how she felt in the moment.

Not trying to start ish, but men can be as well.

One the bolded sentence -- but if you find out she does this --- she's wrong and all types of thots and $itches, huh?

Anyway, to each it's own.