Just got divorced after 12 yrs...ama

[Colicat]

Did the 2 kids like her? They must be older than 12...so I am sure they have their own opinions... did their behavior impact the marriage in any way?

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Cause i was vulnerable the time we met....just lost my parents...i was a mess..
She look good...had good job...we vibes from the jump...we were inseperable....
Even when i was dead broke...she had me...thats why...
Only thing i gave up was one of the cars....thats it......
3rd yes

After reading your response I totally get it. To my 2nd question I think you basically got off Scott free.
And the 3rd, even after all of the failed marriages you have seen? No matter how good it might seem to be I just think about the divorce rate IN THIS COUNTRY and it brings me back to "reality".

 

[Colicat]

You said she had no kids, how is she claiming them on income taxes getting 10k

I am smelling

Edit: I see that it is a different poster... my bad...

 

[TRUEST]

I worked...she did for a lil bit but went out on sick leave
So now I have to handle anything....
Now when its time to go back to work she got comfortable being at home....
Mind you she has NO KIDS...
but she wants to keep up with the joneses...
Now the more i worked the less attention she gets....hell i wanna sit back lay wood and play 2k all day but bills gotta get paid...
So i imagine the 5 bdrm bouse 2 cars...fence dog n shyt...wasnt good enough....she had to see if the grass was greener on the other side

Wow. This is why it’s never a good idea to have ur woman sitting home with nothing to do. Boredom and girl talk had her wondering what new d1ck would feel like. Did she give u clues she had it in her to be unfaithful? Like being too friendly with guys? Wandering eye? Likes to “people watch”.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Wow. This is why it’s never a good idea to have ur woman sitting home with nothing to do. Boredom and girl talk had her wondering what new d1ck would feel like. Did she give u clues she had it in her to be unfaithful? Like being too friendly with guys? Wandering eye? Likes to “people watch”.

Yeah I used to think I wanted a wife that was stay at home so she can home school kids 100% and stuff like that but 99.9% of Women today aint capable of doing that, and as mention idle time brings in demonic thoughts, and opens the door for some breh who aint productive and has time to be doing nothing in the middle of the day to be running through ya wife and give her the attention you cant (because you are working). lol

 

[SlickHomie]

Did the 2 kids like her? They must be older than 12...so I am sure they have their own opinions... did their behavior impact the marriage in any way?

You know what she adore my oldest but my youngest didnt vibe with her....like lil mama knew she was on some bullshyt

 

[SlickHomie]

Wow. This is why it’s never a good idea to have ur woman sitting home with nothing to do. Boredom and girl talk had her wondering what new d1ck would feel like. Did she give u clues she had it in her to be unfaithful? Like being too friendly with guys? Wandering eye? Likes to “people watch”.

Man im trying to tell you....all these "freinds"...from school pop put of everywhere some ive even kicked it with....
She was a social media junky at first....when facebook came out...she a goodlooker....an attention seeker so take it for what its worth

 

[HabitualChiller]

Just got out of an 11 yr marriage myself..

The house that I bought with my 401k (that I'm still paying back) it's for her n the kids now

Paying 800 a month child support


Can't even claim 1 of them on the income tax get about 2000 compared to her 10,000 every year


Now stuck living in a efficiency in east Miramar u ready for this life playboy? It's cheaper to keep her who ever said that shyt knew what time it was.

What's fukked up is that homie posted joyous smilies with the sheer ruthlessness of this post.

You're a better man than me because I would've had to scalp her

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Yes, SOME of us do. Not all. Not most.

Anyway, I don't want to derail the thread. Best of luck to you.

It's not a derail if it's on topic.

Let's honestly have this convo. I'm not a woman hater like some brehs. I love women but I'm not in denial about how yall can be either

My question to you is... if you admit that there is a segment of women out here that are the way us men here say they are...

Then why do you continue to call us out for what you say is bad behavior when we are only responding to what we see and deal with?

 

[TRUEST]

Man im trying to tell you....all these "freinds"...from school pop put of everywhere some ive even kicked it with....
She was a social media junky at first....when facebook came out...she a goodlooker....an attention seeker so take it for what its worth

Yea man gut feeling is a mutherfuccker. Every single girl I’ve heard of or known who had too many guy friends have been proven to be sheisty.

I dated a girl once who I butted heads with regarding this. One time in a response to one of our arguments she said “ I don’t understand why u keep accusing me of something I haven’t even done yet”. I heard that and instantly something went off in me yeah this b1tch is no good. Peep the word “yet”.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Man im trying to tell you....all these "freinds"...from school pop put of everywhere some ive even kicked it with....
She was a social media junky at first....when facebook came out...she a goodlooker....an attention seeker so take it for what its worth

Social media has alot of people male and female delusional as hell. Also with the 'friend' stuff imo I dont think its possible for heterosexual Men and Women to be friends.

 

[TRUEST]

What's fukked up is that homie posted joyous smilies with the sheer ruthlessness of this post.

You're a better man than me because I would've had to scalp her

That’s his coping mechanisms.

 

[Eclipser]

Just got out of an 11 yr marriage myself..

The house that I bought with my 401k (that I'm still paying back) it's for her n the kids now

Paying 800 a month child support


Can't even claim 1 of them on the income tax get about 2000 compared to her 10,000 every year


Now stuck living in a efficiency in east Miramar u ready for this life playboy? It's cheaper to keep her who ever said that shyt knew what time it was.

 

[desjardins]

Assuming you relatively young (under 45) and have your shyt together you about to eat
Me and my married friends joke that we wouldn't even be mad if our wives gave us a reason

 

[Loose]

It happens people grow apart good luck fam