Just got divorced after 12 yrs...ama

[SlickHomie]

Assuming you relatively young (under 45) and have your shyt together you about to eat
Me and my married friends joke that we wouldn't even be mad if our wives gave us a reason

Thats what its about....i tried the cliff huxtable route...
Time to live
Shoutout to the couples who are making it work....
Just wasnt in the cards

Assuming you relatively young (under 45) and have your shyt together you about to eat
Me and my married friends joke that we wouldn't even be mad if our wives gave us a reason

 

[the cool]

Damn 7 years of bad marriage? I would of left after 1

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Yeah I used to think I wanted a wife that was stay at home so she can home school kids 100% and stuff like that but 99.9% of Women today aint capable of doing that, and as mention idle time brings in demonic thoughts, and opens the door for some breh who aint productive and has time to be doing nothing in the middle of the day to be running through ya wife and give her the attention you cant (because you are working). lol

 

[levitate]

Nah go ahead......i knew what i was gettin into makin this post...lol

Was/is dat ass phat?

 

[TheAnointedOne]

Just divorced a 12 yr old...ama

WTF??

 

[Speaking Womanese]

The dirty little secret of a lot of women is they can tune out of a lot of things. Like during sex, for instance, look at a woman's eyes and see if she's actually 'present'

When a relationship is on the rocks that's one of the first things that tends to be prevalent like she'll still have sex but her eyes are glassy. Like her body is there but her mind is elsewhere whilst the act is ongoing she's tuned out.

Hold this rep like a newborn

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

I worked...she did for a lil bit but went out on sick leave
So now I have to handle anything....
Now when its time to go back to work she got comfortable being at home....
Mind you she has NO KIDS...
but she wants to keep up with the joneses...
Now the more i worked the less attention she gets....hell i wanna sit back lay wood and play 2k all day but bills gotta get paid...
So i imagine the 5 bdrm bouse 2 cars...fence dog n shyt...wasnt good enough....she had to see if the grass was greener on the other side

smh

 

[rico_ens]

breh wtf, expound.

I assume the home had both of your names on it? Whats the 401k story? What state are you in?

Didn't take a hardship took a general purpose loan so got a few more years to pay back got it after my oldest was born bout 2 yrs in the marriage.im in Florida ,the house in my name too but ordered to split assests or "buy her out" . I didn't have a lawyer either just receipts and bank statements in a folder while this bytch walked in with a family attorney with an empty ass binder n I still got that work.

 

[JT-Money]

Just got out of an 11 yr marriage myself..

The house that I bought with my 401k (that I'm still paying back) it's for her n the kids now

Paying 800 a month child support


Can't even claim 1 of them on the income tax get about 2000 compared to her 10,000 every year


Now stuck living in a efficiency in east Miramar u ready for this life playboy? It's cheaper to keep her who ever said that shyt knew what time it was.

How the hell do you bounce back financially from paying out all this bread? I know divorced dudes who end up remarrying just so they won't remain poor. Because two incomes are still better than one.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Hold this rep like a newborn

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Yes...?

 

[Kenny West]

If? If? Ain't no if
Yall do that anyway. Dont play


If you wanna talk to me, you gotta be honest. I'll be honest but you gotta be honest too otherwise theres no point in having this convo

Exactly.

They get called thots and hoes because they do it and all act like they aren't so they can pretend to be a different person if she happens to meet "mr right"

They'll never tell mr right about the roster, the side dikk that still wants in, the fukk buddy etc. Its "oh thats just a friend" Its a game

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Yes...?

I'm not feeling you confirming what I have been in denial about in certain relationships.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

I'm not feeling you confirming what I have been in denial about in certain relationships.

Oh my bad lol.

Women mentally and emotionally leave before we physically do, I felt like the guy was reading into my soul when I read that.

 

[Cat piss martini]

youre gonna have visions of her bent over,
covered in sweat with her eyes rolling in
the back of her head and biting her bottom
lip while getting plowed out by some nikka
in gucci flip flops and her saying how she's
finally got somebody to make it hurt.
Let that shyt go breh.....one day at a time.