Just got divorced after 12 yrs...ama

[MikelArteta]

freedom

 

[Address_Unknown]

Yeah I used to think I wanted a wife that was stay at home so she can home school kids 100% and stuff like that but 99.9% of Women today aint capable of doing that, and as mention idle time brings in demonic thoughts, and opens the door for some breh who aint productive and has time to be doing nothing in the middle of the day to be running through ya wife and give her the attention you cant (because you are working). lol

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[Robo Squirrel]

youre gonna have visions of her bent over,
covered in sweat with her eyes rolling in
the back of her head and biting her bottom
lip while getting plowed out by some nikka
in gucci flip flops and her saying how she's
finally got somebody to make it hurt.
Let that shyt go breh.....one day at a time.

Why that nikka gotta be rocking Gucci flip flops though?

 

[Thegospel]

12 years down the drain

 

[Apollo Creed]

Didn't take a hardship took a general purpose loan so got a few more years to pay back got it after my oldest was born bout 2 yrs in the marriage.im in Florida ,the house in my name too but ordered to split assests or "buy her out" . I didn't have a lawyer either just receipts and bank statements in a folder while this bytch walked in with a family attorney with an empty ass binder n I still got that work.

how can you split an asset that isn't hers? And what is there to 'buy out' lol wow

 

[Ghost Utmost]

When I sent her home to you, could you tell she had been tampered with?

 

[SlickHomie]

youre gonna have visions of her bent over,
covered in sweat with her eyes rolling in
the back of her head and biting her bottom
lip while getting plowed out by some nikka
in gucci flip flops and her saying how she's
finally got somebody to make it hurt.
Let that shyt go breh.....one day at a time.

Past that point....just sayin she didnt have too dent up headboards for free.....thats why i was pissed.....

 

[rico_ens]

how can you split an asset that isn't hers? And what is there to 'buy out' lol wow

If the couple cannot agree on who can keep solo ownership of the house following divorce, the parties may be ordered by the court to undergo a buyout. This means that one spouse buys the 50% ownership interest of the other spouse in order to stay in the house. ... Buyouts do not need to occur at the time of divorce.Nov 29, 2018
LegalMatch › law-library › article


From my understanding in court whatever property u buy WHILE married no matter who's name is on the deed the other spouse entitled and if u got kids forget about it

 

[Orange cream shake]

I worked...she did for a lil bit but went out on sick leave
So now I have to handle anything....
Now when its time to go back to work she got comfortable being at home....
Mind you she has NO KIDS...
but she wants to keep up with the joneses...
Now the more i worked the less attention she gets....hell i wanna sit back lay wood and play 2k all day but bills gotta get paid...
So i imagine the 5 bdrm bouse 2 cars...fence dog n shyt...wasnt good enough....she had to see if the grass was greener on the other side

Wow. She made it harder for the next one. Shoot I’m working right now and watching my son. . I make more than my husband do being a stay at home mom ain’t in the cards for me.

 

[Apollo Creed]

If the couple cannot agree on who can keep solo ownership of the house following divorce, the parties may be ordered by the court to undergo a buyout. This means that one spouse buys the 50% ownership interest of the other spouse in order to stay in the house. ... Buyouts do not need to occur at the time of divorce.Nov 29, 2018
LegalMatch › law-library › article


From my understanding in court whatever property u buy WHILE married no matter who's name is on the deed the other spouse entitled and if u got kids forget about it

ahhh gotcha. This is why I'm big on having alot of stuff before going into a marriage.

 

[You Win Perfect]

fukked up but true. They have no relationship equity. Everything is about how they currently feel at the moment. Which is why when that ''feeling'' is over the realization hits them hard. Their truth is in their emotions. How they feel is their truth. So because she feels it, its true.

Once you learn their true nature you become angry, then you just accept it for what it is.

very well said.
i learned the hard way as I think we all do when we get seriously invested into a woman.
I've been think about just staying single my whole life but that ain't really the wave I see myself on. I really don't wanna be hittin up chicks every weekend talkin about come over and chill when I'm in my 40s and up just for some ass or company.
You have no choice but to deal with the irrational emotional instability of a woman IF you choose to be with one.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Wow. She made it harder for the next one. Shoot I’m working right now and watching my son. . I make more than my husband do being a stay at home mom ain’t in the cards for me.

lotta folks think the grass is greener on the other side. Folks move on and find something new putting on that this the 'love of their life' mean while they still on social media liking your posts and crap like that.

 

[ℒℴѵℯJay ELECTUA]

bothand...so hopefully i coud give some insight to breh who thinkin bout marriage or goin thru issues....

 

[Apollo Creed]

very well said.
i learned the hard way as I think we all do when we get seriously invested into a woman.
I've been think about just staying single my whole life but that ain't really the wave I see myself on. I really don't wanna be hittin up chicks every weekend talkin about come over and chill when I'm in my 40s and up just for some ass or company.
You have no choice but to deal with the irrational emotional instability of a woman IF you choose to be with one.

you gotta learn to be alone, and if committed relationships aint your think, get a roster of women you can smash but keep distant enough. The thing is women are emotional creatures so no matter what, emotions will always eventually get involved.

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

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