Just got divorced after 12 yrs...ama

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you gotta learn to be alone, and if committed relationships aint your think, get a roster of women you can smash but keep distant enough. The thing is women are emotional creatures so no matter what, emotions will always eventually get involved.

I am single now and yeah i do have a roster but like you said eventually they want to take it further. Like i have a shorty now (like almost a year later now) that I just chill (smash) and bullshyt on the weekends but then she started talkin about she wants to settle down and all that. Tries to spend a little more extra time at my crib. All of a sudden I'm getting all types of hearts and kiss faces in texts. babe this and babe that.... I'm like :francis:Its hard not to get attached in some way emotionally to a chick. they suck (:lolbron:) you in somehow. Of course I like her, i'm not gonna lie if she asks.
I cut her off and then cut the next one off and then the next....
then you gotta keep replenishing the roster but for how long.

women are annoying to deal with on a day to day :scust:
 
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Providing you had some good years it wasn't a waste of time.

Funny because my Dad always told me, every 7 years you will go through some shyt in a marriage, you gotta break through this but some don't and it gets fukked up. My brother and wife hit a wall at 7 years married, she left for a week. They worked it out. 7 years later they got divorced:mjcry:
 

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how can you split an asset that isn't hers? And what is there to 'buy out' lol wow
These women really believe just cuz the law says it, it’s right. Like they’ll think in their head “sheeet if the law says it it must mean they recognize being a woman is hard. All the sh1t we go through. Giving him emotional support to enable him to become the man he is.”

don’t believe me? I’m sure uve heard of women saying a man should pay for this and that, because it’s the man job while conveniently alleviating themselves of any responsibilities.

Y’all hear a woman say that and y’all dismiss it as crazy talk. I hear that and I instantly know this is the type of woman very likely to take everything you’ve got if you’re dumb enough to marry her or impregnate her.
 

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both:blessed:and:to:...so hopefully i coud give some insight to breh who thinkin bout marriage or goin thru issues....

How much assets would have to be split because of this divorce?
Will she be awarded the house after the divorce?
 

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These women really believe just cuz the law says it, it’s right. Like they’ll think in their head “sheeet if the law says it it must mean they recognize being a woman is hard. All the sh1t we go through. Giving him emotional support to enable him to become the man he is.”

don’t believe me? I’m sure uve heard of women saying a man should pay for this and that, because it’s the man job while conveniently alleviating themselves of any responsibilities.

Y’all hear a woman say that and y’all dismiss it as crazy talk. I hear that and I instantly know this is the type of woman very likely to take everything you’ve got if you’re dumb enough to marry her or impregnate her.

same women who will talk about white supremacy when it impacts them but want to cash into it every other time :mjlol:
 

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I am single now and yeah i do have a roster but like you said eventually they want to take it further. Like i have a shorty now (like almost a year later now) that I just chill (smash) and bullshyt on the weekends but then she started talkin about she wants to settle down and all that. Tries to spend a little more extra time at my crib. All of a sudden I'm getting all types of hearts and kiss faces in texts. babe this and babe that.... I'm like :francis:Its hard not to get attached in some way emotionally to a chick. they suck (:lolbron:) you in somehow. Of course I like her, i'm not gonna lie if she asks.
I cut her off and then cut the next one off and then the next....
then you gotta keep replenishing the roster but for how long.

women are annoying to deal with on a day to day :scust:

this my thing. If a chick who wants to 'become more' isn't starting to cook for you more and clean your crib then cut her lose. Da hell does this 'next step' add that yall aint already doing?
 

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Sucks but at least you got a sole future to look ahead of.
No more weighing and debating decisions with partner.

It's crazy tho.

How some people can be soo in your corner, while others be mercenary as a mug.

Talking about some women who've been homeless with their man, scraping and straining through the darkest of plights and then stick through to the golden realization of a far flung dream.

Where others be halfway out the door if nikkas get demoted or laid off.
The contrast is brutal.
 

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That's the thing...

It's like if you work more, you'd be better off with her thinking you got a work wife so she can feel some emotion...

At least let her hear some texts ringing off or something..
She got bored and started ordering fashion nova so she can look more sexier for your replacements..:francis:

If she not arguing with you about time, the relationship is on wobbly terms...
 
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