Just got divorced after 12 yrs...ama

[JQ Legend]

breh maybe I'm the weird one, but a woman chilling with a man that aint her brother, cousin, or pops at 2am just sounds off to me

It’s definitely possible to have platonic friends but there has to be boundaries. Chilling with any man who isn’t family period no matter what the time it is is unacceptable. But you got childhood friends of the opposite sex, co workers etc. it’s inevitable. But you gotta discuss these friendships with your partner and have a set of rules that you both go by

That’s wild y’all have more of a problem with it than the actual dude in question

 

[Cat piss martini]

why wont she take me back?

 

[phcitywarrior]

Social acquaintance? Sure. But whilst I’m in a relationship, I’m not meeting them for drinks or dinner. That’s the whole Damn point of being with someone.

Spot on my G. As a society we've become limp. No standards or principles. Everything is permissible and relative. There's no demarcation between different stages of your life.

If you're in a committed relationship then it means commit to it. People wanna have it both ways and then wonder why things aren't working.

 

[Thethirdpew]

Any woman that defend every woman no matter what is a feminist knowingly or not, steer very care of them. Never date them. They're infallible.

Feminism is teaching women that all their actions are justifiable and its a man fault they did it. They are never wrong.

Its even worse in gen z women. I'm in tje military and the average age in my division is about 20 years old. Just last week the girls were talking about a tik tok where a girl brought out the argument that it a woman fukks two guys that are friends she is the one who is using them and not rhe other way around . It was funny how they were juelzing the whole situation when its clear that she got passed around between friends.

 

[Thethirdpew]

Yes the divorce rate should see an 2 or 5 percentage increase starting next year ...

Make that 10.

 

[Thethirdpew]

In the past, women were TRAINED to be homemakers, mainly through force and from a young age. I’m sorry women are no longer being forced to marry some 40 year old at 15 or born into a poor family with a slew of kids, that the older ones are responsible for.

Y’all want a woman to be traditional while y’all apply toxic, westernized ideals of male leadership and confused why there is an issue. Very few of y’all are even raising your daughters to be home makers, yet mad at women today for not being them.

All we got now is a generation of slores and rampant degenerate. I find it odd that the one continent (Africa) where women had more rights back in the day (compared to other areas at the time) is also the one that got conqured by foreigners en masse. The fall of Rome came from the rampant degenerate and female empowerment that followed. Add the same to the end of Egypt under Cleopatra. The same is happening right now between China and USA. Women are running wild in America doing as they please and bringing a culture of degenarcy. Meanwhile China has control of their women, have a disciplined society and in tact families. They are passing us by. The only thing keeping us afloat is science. Amazing innovators like Elon Musk allow us to have an edge over the East but our degeneracy (caused by women and their empowerment movement) will be our downfall.

 

[Youseenmywork]

That why polygamy or polygyny will be on the table sooner than some will think . With HOW women have conerd the market with they sexuality and etc . Once they figure this LGBTQ shyt polygamy or polygyny is next . I say I will never be monogamous I'm 36 so anit no sense in complain about the current times ....find a way to work threw all the BS and get thing in your favor as much as possible.

 

[Azul]

I don't know...

Homegirl a scumbag for cheating but some of OPs answers make me feel like he is leaving some things out (i.e "let's just say more on her end...") Not trying to absolve her of anything... that's just the feeling I get

If I'm wrong I apologize.

 

[Thethirdpew]

That why polygamy or polygyny will be on the table sooner than some will think . With HOW women have conerd the market with they sexuality and etc . Once they figure this LGBTQ shyt polygamy or polygyny is next . I say I will never be monogamous I'm 36 so anit no sense in complain about the current times ....find a way to work threw all the BS and get thing in your favor as much as possible.

Polygamy Is how it was back in the day. In my honest opinion, when stripped to their base desires most women would prefer polygamy as long as the man they share is powerful, handsome, and has genes that they think will allow their kids to survive or thrive. If you take a closer look at a lot of the female empowerment goals you will notice common themes ( not having their sexuality restricted so that they can perform dual mating strategy where they use a provider but have kids with the guy whose genes they want). This is why almost all women support the sleeping around empowerment movement. Marriage pretty much restricts women to the men they have access to based on their circumstance, hence lowering their chance to have kids with men with the genes they want.

In summary, I agree with you. The end goal of feminism is polygamy and and sexual freedom of women.

 

[Thethirdpew]

I don't know...

Homegirl a scumbag for cheating but some of OPs answers make me feel like he is leaving some things out (i.e "let's just say more on her end...") Not trying to absolve her of anything... that's just the feeling I get

If I'm wrong I apologize.

I checked your profile. You're a woman. Figures The group think you guys have is absurd.

 

[How Sway?]

Just got out of an 11 yr marriage myself..

The house that I bought with my 401k (that I'm still paying back) it's for her n the kids now

Paying 800 a month child support


Can't even claim 1 of them on the income tax get about 2000 compared to her 10,000 every year


Now stuck living in a efficiency in east Miramar u ready for this life playboy? It's cheaper to keep her who ever said that shyt knew what time it was.

Got damn

 

[Azul]

I checked your profile. You're a woman. Figures The group think you guys have is absurd.

Going for the easy "oh you're just being a woman."

How is it groupthink? I'm one of the last people who "groupthink" on here considering there are a slew of posters who assume I'm a guy after seven years. Honestly, I haven't even read the entire thread I'm just going by dude's first few posts.

Stating that I feel like he kinda left some things out doesn't mean it justifies her poor behavior. I'm not telling the man he deserved it. Someone else even said "you gotta elaborate" to the response I referenced. That's what I'm basing this on.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Polygamy Is how it was back in the day. In my honest opinion, when stripped to their base desires most women would prefer polygamy as long as the man they share is powerful, handsome, and has genes that they think will allow their kids to survive or thrive. If you take a closer look at a lot of the female empowerment goals you will notice common themes ( not having their sexuality restricted so that they can perform dual mating strategy where they use a provider but have kids with the guy whose genes they want). This is why almost all women support the sleeping around empowerment movement. Marriage pretty much restricts women to the men they have access to based on their circumstance, hence lowering their chance to have kids with men with the genes they want.

In summary, I agree with you. The end goal of feminism is polygamy and and sexual freedom of women.

Good Post ....

I will take a bit deeper . Economically women spend money twice as much as men hence the reason most men wether high or low don't call women out as whole because it messes with money . Men don't need near as much as women . Most men as long as they got a decent car crib and furniture we good . Responsible men try not to create more bills ....women many times is a big bill. They know women are spending somebody's money . Polygamy is fine for me .... there is no way of stopping women and their sexuality men need to adjust accordingly.

 

[Thethirdpew]

Good Post ....

I will take a bit deeper . Economically women spend money twice as much as men hence the reason most men wether high or low don't call women out as whole because it messes with money . Men don't need near as much as women . Most men as long as they got a decent car crib and furniture we good . Responsible men try not to create more bills ....women many times is a big bill. They know women are spending somebody's money . Polygamy is fine for me .... there is no way of stopping women and their sexuality men need to adjust accordingly.

I agree with all of that as well. It's also interesting how societies that normalized marriages often advanced quicker. When a man is married he becomes more productive and tends to spend his time wisely. This has actually been proven. Why increase your productivity at work to buy your wive that new house she wanted when you can just live in a small shack as long as you have the necessary entertainment. Monogamy forces men to become productive members of society and results in men who care more about the community; in polygamy the men that are left behind are often left bitter and angry, hence you also have a society of angry men with lots of free time on their hands. Also, our ancestors knew about how important monogamy was and why limiting woman's sexiality results in a more productive society. Proof? just take a look at most religions. Almost all of them talk about limiting the sexiality of women. Something tells me that the ancients saw what sexual liberation does to society and decided to warn future generations about it .

Oh and I forgot the big one. Women are net consumers. If most men stopped buying shyt for their marriage watch how quickly our housing market crashes (matter fact just take a look at how the diamond industry is barely hanging on now that divorce rates are up).
I'm bad at writing so please forgive my run on sentences .

 

[Youseenmywork]

I agree with all of that as well. It's also interesting how societies that normalized marriages often advanced quicker. When a man is married he becomes more productive and tends to spend his time wisely. This has actually been proven. Why increase your productivity at work to buy your wive that new house she wanted when you can just live in a small shack as long as you have the necessary entertainment. Monogamy forces men to become productive members of society and results in men who care more about the community; in polygamy the men that are left behind are often left bitter and angry, hence you also have a society of angry men with lots of free time on their hands. Also, our ancestors knew about how important monogamy was and why limiting woman's sexiality results in a more productive society. Proof? just take a look at most religions. Almost all of them talk about limiting the sexiality of women. Something tells me that the ancients saw what sexual liberation does to society and decided to warn future generations about it .

Oh and I forgot the big one. Women are net consumers. If most men stopped buying shyt for their marriage watch how quickly our housing market crashes (matter fact just take a look at how the diamond industry is barely hanging on now that divorce rates are up).
I'm bad at writing so please forgive my run on sentences .

The biggest thing I see with out here with men is that they don't want to deal with reality the way that it is . Its a lot of men that keep trying to make the game a ceartin way or wish it to be a ceartin or complain about that shyt is blue pill to me . Red pill you except reality for what it is and figure out how to manipulate the matrix . If men haven't figured out that all being a husband really is is a utility. Women don't see majority of men as a human being. That why it's a lot of women that think men are just here to work and hand over they money . Your right about men just buying shyt for women but you really suppose to get to an age were women's validation is not a motivating factor . See men need to put themselves non a pedestal and respect themselves enough to spend they time wisely and be productive . It another purpose for outside of dealing with women . I'm not waiting till I get the right women to be more "productive" ....that corny to me .