Nah when it comes to focus, self-awareness and control men are held to a higher standard ma'am.S
For instance, I mail people holiday cards. Most of my friends are females, but if they are married I always put the husband's name first as courtesy. I buy decent quality cards, so they don't bend after opening, and just little stuff like that.
If I invited a man over to cook for me, I would have set a formal table, including a center piece with fresh flowers and probably some corny dinner candles.
I've gotten decent glassware at Dollar Tree
Oh, I see you meant in a decorative superficial sense like matching color schemes with your outfit. Yeah no sweat ma'am yeah i agree in that aspect. Women tend to care more about the appearance of things rather than the meaning. Call it surface level attention. But imo for you card exampled you shared that shyt doesn't matter because if they wanted the cards they be happy and appreciative regardless of how it's stylized. It's more meaningful that your sending a card rather than how it appears.
Nah men have to bring more to the table usually because if all bytches wanted was dikk they can get it without the dinners, gifts, romance, trips and all the other things they say they want in a man. For men if he's attracted to her he gonna want to fukk regardless all that other shyt intetionally doesn't mean as much and usually he'll go all out if he feels the woman is worth it but that's not the case most the time.
I never said we should have the same thought process. It was just me realizing the reason you sound so ridiculous right now is because you're a male. I won't agree and I won't understand your "logic". Have a great day, sir! 
For the same price
I only use plastic cups remember.
