Just got out a 4 year relationship at 28

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Don't rush in to a new relationship, take time to heal.

Get in the gym, be the best version of yourself, revisit your goals, if you want to go for a trade, cert, start a business etc. Go for it.

Enjoy being single, summer around the corner, many scantily dressed women.:steviej:
 

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Unless youre a Coli breh irl, Coli Brehs are the worst people to ask "how's the dating scene?"

- Most of the these boys ain't fuking like that
- Most of them dont know how to pick a woman that isn't going to finesse
- Most of them dont qualify for the "good women"
- Half of em bitter/unhealed from a dating disappointment
- Notice this place is always posting the lastest male self help influencer (AMS, KS, etc.). There's a reason they gravitate to these online unverified guys for help instead of an actual vetted real world mentor
- Most of them dont really like women they just like fuking, so they dont know how to communicate properly


I got out of a 2 year relationship in Jan and I'm in my late 30s. Had the same concern you do until I started socializing again.

The dating pool is fine.

Its plenty of 6 fig, feminine, in shape, pretty bw out here. Aint had a problem dating high quality women at all. Seen some BS but if youre having the right conversations most of the BS won't make it to a first date.

Of course it takes more than just a phat ass and a pretty smile to get a date from me but every guys doesn't have a strong standard they adhere to in dating, that famine mindset is a negative feedback loop. They take what they can get, but what they can get is shxt and they never get out of that cycle by self improving.
 
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How cooked is the dating scene right now brehs :mjcry:

Might just move to mongolia and become a celibate monk
Breh....

And I say this with all due respect.....

What would possess 24 yr old man in this day and age to participate in a LTR?

You got into a relationship in 2021 at the height of dating apps and the manosphere...

What were you thinking?
 

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If your ex wasn't really doing anything with her life, or making much money, this is the best thing that could have happened to you.

As others have said, focus on you. Grind until 35-40. Only then would i suggest even bother looking for a woman worthy of becoming your wife.

Sounds extreme, but i guarantee you it's not in these times.
 

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You'll be alright, if you're in the right circles you should be ok when you decide to start dating again.

A lot of people aren't objective with themselves and wonder why they attract so much dutty foot bottom people.

But like others said, use this time to better yourself anyways you can; mentally, physically, financially, spiritually et.
 

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Man….. you better off being single and focusing on yourself. Don’t chase women, don’t chase a relationship, love or none of that shyt. Focus on you and it’ll come to you.
imma be honest i fukkin hate this cliche.

but it's 1000% true. make yourself better and better will come. good luck breh
 
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