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:wow::mjcry:

Plenty chances to fall in love, man
So many weekends I went to clubs, man
In the fast lane my life's a picture flick
Let my drink decide who is the next chick

I ain't gone lie, on the plane it don't matter to me
She say she me love me but it's just chit chatter to me
But deep inside I was always missing something
But I'm a thug so I'm always on something

So many girls always drinking and having fun
Life's a beauty shop and I keep my hair done
Seems like I'm on a merry-go-round
And it make a thug wanna settle down

:lawd:

I remember listening to this on the way home one night years ago ...having just dropped a chick off. :wow:. It really resonated with me.


A brother settled down now. No better feeling when you find that one person and building a family. Ain't nothing out there in those streets man.
 

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Its true breh, dudes out here spending there whole lives, and hard earning in this rat race chasing woman after woman for a slightly different version of ass, t*ts, vagina, and a face. How do I know because I did the same thing coming up at one point. I wasn't even hardcore with it breh, its just something as men we are taught we are suppose to be like, by not only other men, but women and society. I hope every man can come to the realization at some point in there life that they are being played by the game and not playing it. Its like going to the casino weekly, even when you winning you still losing.


shyt is for the birds and leaves you hollow, bitter and lonely after so long. nikka's dont like to admit that part though...



If you out here having a good time playing the game , juggling a main and a couple possibles more power to you. It aint for me though, let me enjoy this solitaire for a bit until I'll run into a partner I trust enough to play spades with.
 

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Its true breh, dudes out here spending there whole lives, and hard earning in this rat race chasing woman after woman for a slightly different version of ass, t*ts, vagina, and a face. How do I know because I did the same thing coming up at one point. I wasn't even hardcore with it breh, its just something as men we are taught we are suppose to be like, by not only other men, but women and society. I hope every man can come to the realization at some point in there life that they are being played by the game and not playing it. Its like going to the casino weekly, even when you winning you still losing.


shyt is for the birds and leaves you hollow, bitter and lonely after so long. nikka's dont like to admit that part though...



If you out here having a good time playing the game , juggling a main and a couple possibles more power to you. It aint for me though, let me enjoy this solitaire for a bit until I'll run into a partner I trust enough to play spades with.

Agreed to the fullest. I was laying in the bed the other night like damn, I'm kinda lonely. And I've smashed double digits over the last few years. These hoes dont provide nothing but a nut. It can get old
 

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Men are sentimental that way.

Men want love.
Women love the idea of being in love.

:francis:


Truth. So many women have this life inside there head where it's all a screenplay from the whole courting aspect, relationship, engagement, marriage, kids etc. And just like a screenplay they want mofos to fill in roles, so when she meets a dude who might treat her right and can provide she ends up dating/marrying him NOT because she loves him but because he is playing a role she is casting in her head for husband that he fits.

This will lead to problems down the line because eventually she's gonna cheat, sneak around then divorce and win half his money because the relationships was started on a shaky foundation. Of course he doesn't know that, he just wants love and to provide. I believe this same concept applies to women wanting children too, so many women fall in love with the attention associated with having kids or getting married a woman just wants that attention and doesn't want to deal with the baby after a few months or the husband after getting married.

Women fall in love with concepts and not the actual thing
 

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Truth. So many women have this life inside there head where it's all a screenplay from the whole courting aspect, relationship, engagement, marriage, kids etc. And just like a screenplay they want mofos to fill in roles, so when she meets a dude who might treat her right and can provide she ends up dating/marrying him NOT because she loves him but because he is playing a role she is casting in her head for husband that he fits.

This will lead to problems down the line because eventually she's gonna cheat, sneak around then divorce and win half his money because the relationships was started on a shaky foundation. I believe this same concept applies to women wanting children too, so many women fall in love with the attention associated with having kids or getting married a woman just wants that attention and doesn't want to deal with the baby after a few months or the husband after getting married.

Women fall in love with concepts and not the actual thing
It's why women flee from relationship to relationship.

The romance and spark fades and off they go in search for another one.

Not all, but it's true of almost every older woman who is single.
 

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It's why women flee from relationship to relationship.

The romance and spark fades and off they go in search for another one.

Not all, but it's true of almost every older woman who is single.

Is this exclusive to women? Far from it.

All of my exes hopped from relationship to relationship, couldn't stand to not have someone in their face/bed/wherever they kept em.
 

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It's not so much about love, it's about how tiring the game is. That's why men who get a lot of women are usually applauded for it, it can take so much effort to get with an attractive girl even if you have your shyt together and she brings nothing to the table other than her puss. Sometimes I think about getting a gf just for the steady, the game takes a lot out of you sometimes.
fam. it takes a lot out of you :whew:
 
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