Keep it real: Would you forgive your chick if she cheated?
- Thread starter Ronnie Lott
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Ronnie Lott
#49erGang
Is it because y'all are assuming the chick is in love with the guy she is cheating with while a guy can cheat with no feelings attached?
For a woman to lay down and open her legs and let another nikka bash her guts in is far worse than a man fukkin some broad with no feelings attached. And u know this
That's disgusting.again it is worse for a woman to cheat
a man and woman in a relationship
a man go out and sleep with a chick he just met at a bar and thats that no emotional bonding, no caring if he ever hears from her again.
now for a woman, how many of you woman out there would sleep with a guy you have zero feelings for when in a relationship?
We have different approaches towards sex in general..
Again, generally speaking, a man can meet a woman he finds attractive, hit it once or twice n forget about it. Its like how you women do your shoes/jewelry/etc, you just wanna rock em to see what its hittin for. Makes you feel like a baller
I seent it, I liked'ed it, I owned it
Women look at sex a bit more complex.. I cant detail it bcuz Im not a woman, but based on observation you dont just fukk and forget. Yall regret it if it doesn't play out like your in-head movie fantasy. Yall dont just throw the p*ssy all willy nilly bcuz you want it to be special, something that you can play back in your head and be satisfied with I guess
And every real nikka knows if you hit it once you can (should be able to) hit it twice, which means if your lady is the one gettin hit.. Ole boy can and will do it again
I see. I still think both is equally horrible but ok.:tardface:
Maybe the chick is just "fukkin some nikka with no feelings attached" but ok.
Anothergirl
Goat ™
most of them would of course their egos won't let them admit it tho.
there's only 2 guys on here i really believe would have the guts to leave @His_Excellence_Reincar (because he's done it before) and @Malta because much like me he has a strict no cheating policy.
there's only 2 guys on here i really believe would have the guts to leave @His_Excellence_Reincar (because he's done it before) and @Malta because much like me he has a strict no cheating policy.
Anothergirl
Goat ™
it's really not tho....esp considering how much work and effort many of us women put into pleasing our men. it's extremely insulting tbh.
Its amazing women actually think the majority of men will take them back.
The majority of men knows that once a women cheats its over, that she will do it again and again because she has no respect for you. If a woman has No respect for you the foundation of the relationship ceases to exist
The majority of men knows that once a women cheats its over, that she will do it again and again because she has no respect for you. If a woman has No respect for you the foundation of the relationship ceases to exist
mcdivit85
Superstar
My man's friend is 6'2 and sexy af (), I'm sure he has options but he's still with his wife, still treats her the same and says he's not leaving her.
he used to say all the stuff y'all are saying. and he's not the only one.
but you're right about the dumb part.
You seem to be paying a nice amount of attention to your dude's homie. That sounds kinda reckless. You telling on yourself in this thread as far as getting taken back? Does your dude know that you turned on by his close, married friend? If so, has he applied sanctions on you or given verbal warnings?
Have you ever thought that maybe your dude(who allows his chick to pine after his homie) and his friend(who allows his wife to get nutted and gutted by other dudes) are simply cupcakes with frosting in the middle?
Peace
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
What do you consider more personal. Entering someone's home, or letting some one into yours.
Yeah, I have never cheated and I'd be willing to walk out on any situation in which I'm cheated on. I've never done it despite temptations, so I cannot excuse any situation where I'd get cheated on, straight
status, even if kids are involved. They can learn to hate her for breaking up the family.DaRealness
I think very deeply
I'm not the type to cheat myself, so hell fukking no. Cheat on me once, that's it. You won't be getting a second chance.
LOL @ females calling that an "ego" thing. So what is it when women walk out on cheating men, huh? fukk outta here.
LOL @ females calling that an "ego" thing. So what is it when women walk out on cheating men, huh? fukk outta here.
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
mcdivit85
Superstar
In my short time on The Coli, I've found that people simply like to be contrarian just for the sake of being contrarian. It seems especially so for the women.
I don't know where people come from, but in my experience, men are much less forgiving of women cheating as women are of men cheating. Most of the men that I know who cheated, including myself, still kept their women after they were found out. The woman may have been angry and hurt but she stayed. Most of the women that I know who cheated were dropped, and some got more than just being dumped. Yea, some dudes, cupcakes, kept the woman but they weren't the majority.
Peace
StickStickly
Superstar
@ it being worse for a woman to cheat. Don't matter who does it, it's still equally fukked up and y'all are both some hoes. These double standards are ridiculous.
but aren't there emotions involved in going to a bar, checking out beautiful women with this trait or that trait, flirting, planning to meet up, sleeping with them (the kissing, rubbing, touching, caressing,) then the longing men feel after to cheat again and the amount of time and mental space they give to thinking about doing it.... That's ALL emotional.again it is worse for a woman to cheat
a man and woman in a relationship
a man go out and sleep with a chick he just met at a bar and thats that no emotional bonding, no caring if he ever hears from her again.
now for a woman, how many of you woman out there would sleep with a guy you have zero feelings for when in a relationship?
Plus what about the woman you cheat with? According to you guys she can't do it without catching something. So now you have her involved in you and your mate's lives.
