Keep it real: Would you forgive your chick if she cheated?

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Took back a girl who cheated on me once after she showed a lot of remorse and sent me a long letter apologizing. Don't regret it. Although I might feel different if she had sex with dude, it was emotional cheating.

I feel like anything short of sex is forgivable...but then again it's hard to even know if she's telling the truth (in my case, I did).
 

Ashley Banks

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You seem to be paying a nice amount of attention to your dude's homie. That sounds kinda reckless. You telling on yourself in this thread as far as getting taken back? Does your dude know that you turned on by his close, married friend? If so, has he applied sanctions on you or given verbal warnings?

Have you ever thought that maybe your dude(who allows his chick to pine after his homie) and his friend(who allows his wife to get nutted and gutted by other dudes) are simply cupcakes with frosting in the middle?

Peace

You're reaching, breh.
 

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You're reaching, breh.

How am I reaching for calling you outta pocket? You made a statement intimating how attractive you find your man's friend to be as if that's not reckless in and of itself. How does that sound when you say it out loud to yourself? How would it sound if you said it out loud to your dude? How would it sound if your dude said the same about your best friend?

Oh, nevermind...:lolbron:,,,,Happy Holidays

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I honestly don't know what I would do? It's one of those situations where it's nice to say you wouldn't or would do something untill the situation happenx. You got to understand nikkas have emotions too no matter how hard they hide it or try to conceal it, now add to that time invested, kids, and joint finances it become less black and white then nikkas here making it out to be.:patrice:
 

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I honestly don't know what I would do? It's one of those situations where it's nice to say you wouldn't or would do something untill the situation happenx. You got to understand nikkas have emotions too no matter how hard they hide it or try to conceal it, now add to that time invested, kids, and joint finances it become less black and white then nikkas here making it out to be.:patrice:

Most men think with logic
 

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Don't think I could.

If I had kids, I have no idea.

Insha'Allah I'm never in that situation though.
 

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6 certs, 6 dimes, 6 figures. All day, errrryday. :birdman: :demonic:

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