More athletes should just do what Ronaldo did. Have your surrogate kids and/or permanent girlfriend that you dont marry.Has her own money?
KD pulling in $50 million a year. What woman is he meeting who's making close to that? She makes 120k a year she's going to want his money. Hell she's making $5 mil she wants his money.
Y'all keep comparing your regular nikka relationship options to an NBA superstar. He's not a 6'2" guard who can walk around in public and not be noticed. He can't go anywhere and not be recognized. He has no ability to meet a woman who likes him for who he is. They all see him as a meal ticket. He's being smart and protecting his assets. Unless you're with her before stardom like Steph or Mahomes' wives falling in love is out the window for men with his profile.
Regular people get married to have someone to split bills with and ease financial burdens. He's supposed to have a joint account where he's putting in $2 mil a month and she puts in $1500
Y'all will applaud these guys for getting married but what's the point when 90% of these guys are probably cheating when they're on the road? If you know you're not going to be faithful don't get married. It's just a charade because the man wants multiple women and the wife wouldn't be with the man if they weren't rich and famous. KD seeing through the BS and bypassing it.
Kevin Durant on why he doesn't have a girlfriend: She's not yours, it's just your turn
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I remember there was a YouTube video years ago of K.D’s mother hugging him on the court. Someone in the comments said “damn, are these black women producing these NBA players all by themselves?”
I remember there was a YouTube video years ago of K.D’s mother hugging him on the court. Someone in the comments said “damn, are these black women producing these NBA players all by themselves?”
Yeah KD’s MVP speech where he was emotional praising his Mom but in contrast emotionless talking about his Dad (who was in attendance) was revealing.
SheWantTheD
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Because the stability these women provide.
Especially if they have kids. A lot of these athletes wives basically run the household and keep everything together.
They hold it down. Who’s there when you get injured, lose a game, get traded and have to move etc? Your wife and kids.
And maybe they also believe she won’t have the audacity to cheat because I’m her meal ticket
Has her own money?
KD pulling in $50 million a year. What woman is he meeting who's making close to that? She makes 120k a year she's going to want his money. Hell she's making $5 mil she wants his money.
Y'all keep comparing your regular nikka relationship options to an NBA superstar. He's not a 6'2" guard who can walk around in public and not be noticed. He can't go anywhere and not be recognized. He has no ability to meet a woman who likes him for who he is. They all see him as a meal ticket. He's being smart and protecting his assets. Unless you're with her before stardom like Steph or Mahomes' wives falling in love is out the window for men with his profile.
Regular people get married to have someone to split bills with and ease financial burdens. He's supposed to have a joint account where he's putting in $2 mil a month and she puts in $1500
Y'all will applaud these guys for getting married but what's the point when 90% of these guys are probably cheating when they're on the road? If you know you're not going to be faithful don't get married. It's just a charade because the man wants multiple women and the wife wouldn't be with the man if they weren't rich and famous. KD seeing through the BS and bypassing it.
Most of what you said is true. But I think KD also has some deep seated emotional issues from childhood that he hasn’t fully dealt with. Steph lowkey alluded to it in an interview when he was asked about KD’s time in Golden State.
What’s her IG?
In The Zone '98
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Bullshyt
How is that BS? His dad walked out on him when he was a child. And why would Steph allude to it if it weren’t true?
In The Zone '98
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What was the context of the interview. Is it on YT?
It was a Rolling Stone interview.
"I think he has had certain things happen in his life that hurt his ability to trust people around him, in a sense of making him feel safe at all times … I love that dude."
Lowkey I wouldn’t be surprised if KD was abused as a child and used basketball as a mental escape.
In The Zone '98
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Interesting comments. Doesn't necessarily mean child abuse though
Agreed but based on how he behaves and reacts to things it wouldn't be surprising at all.
I understand where KD is coming from. Seems like he doesn't want to emotionally invest in someone who is unpredictable. He likes his freedom, peace and solitude.
For him, he will have to find a woman who bonds with him organically. They will naturally develop feelings towards one another over time. No expectations, no pressure. Jus delevoping a genuine friendship w/accruing trust towards one another.
In the meantime, do his thing and finish out his NBA career. After that, maybe settle down and focus on a relationship.
For him, he will have to find a woman who bonds with him organically. They will naturally develop feelings towards one another over time. No expectations, no pressure. Jus delevoping a genuine friendship w/accruing trust towards one another.
In the meantime, do his thing and finish out his NBA career. After that, maybe settle down and focus on a relationship.
SheWantTheD
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he sounds pretty lame, tbh. he shouldn't be talking like some redpilled dude who makes 50k a year
he's a 9 figure, superstar athlete. to act like he couldn't get some woman to commit to him is nonsense. plenty of women aren't cheating on kevin durant