Kevin Samuels was right

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I tell people always listen to the message not the messenger

Women especially and some simps was so caught up on who Kevin was or how he dressed but never got the message

For men he said “ dressed like u have a interview or a meeting everyday when u in the corporate world, have a fukking nice haircut , not no damn rapper or athlete shyt because they getting paid, u not.. to become where u want to be in life work hard and cut some debt “

Men listen for the most part

For Women he told them simple on how to get a man rather high value or trying to be a high value man “ U BE COOPERATIVE AND BE A WOMAN, NOT MASCULINE “ and you’ll get a husband.. for black women he simply said especially “ TALK TO ME LIKE YOU TALK TO YOUR WHITE BOSS”

these women didn’t listen…

The video that was posted in this thread is a prime example especially for black and Latin women…

Like Kevin said do white and Asian women sleep around fukk and party , hell yeah… but on a whole by their junior and senior year in college they start looking for Brad, Chad and John Lee to start a family

Meanwhile sisters and Latinas still out here trying to live that hot girl summer and focusing on they career and thinking time will never run out, then at 36,46 years old behind close doors they crying out for love and marriage watching Beth and Ming li at work talking about they husbands..

Kevin overall was trying to kick knowledge to these women and was trying to tell them u don’t want to be like his generation of women the Vivica Fox , Claudia Jordan’s and Lisa Rayes of the world… old and bitter
 

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Here go the crazy part though....if you put an average man in front of her RIGHT NOW that's willing to love her and provide a consistent life for her.....she'll reject him because she doesn't want to "settle"

:mjlol:

Facts

It’s always that way

Guarantee over the past 10 years Ronald, Miguel and Leonard all 9 to 5 plumbers, electricians and salesman was trying to scoop her up but nope

She was still hoping ex con Jose , playboy Tyrone with 3 baby mamas was going to her off the block
 

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What was he right about? Influencing black men to assimilate and value European ideologies and trappings? Teaching black men that our worth is our money?Teaching black women their value is their looks? While at the same time telling them they are the most unnatractive based on symmetry:scust:


Kevin is for the assimilateds,and his ideology was dangerous and anti black male. The only reason black women are agreeing more.Is because more of them are finally ready to drop off the black man. And chase the "higher value" white men with the big bags. Yet yall think this is a flex and testemant to Kevins legacy:mjlol:


He was public enemy #1 next to Beyonce,but R.I.P.
 

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Oh he was definitely right about a lot of things.

Women didn’t like his delivery. I promise if he had conveyed the same message, just in a more relatable fashion, many women would’ve gotten the message. It’s funny because the White manosphere definitely started this online movement, but when they actually talked to women it wasn’t with this venom, and when Tate emerged as a man using this same rhetoric and tactic when talking to White women, White men got him out the paint. 🤔 Because they won’t allow White women to be demeaned at that level for social media money. As much as people rail against feminism, entitled White women, etc, White society will not allow White women to be degraded by some man on social media 🤔🤔

I mean, the black female therapist who was recently doxxed and lost her job had the same harsh delivery targeted to Black men, and the world came crashing down on her in a matter of days (and personally, yes, I believe she was unprofessional and silly because as a black woman she knows we don’t get passes for that type of behavior).

For whatever reason, it’s cool for BM to talk directly to Black women like we’re shyt, but tone is suddenly an issue when a BW is speaking directly to Black men.



Ol girl in this video came to a harsh realization at the age of 46. Sad shyt.
I also think there’s some serious cases of mental illness when people purposely discuss these major Ls on the web, but that’s a separate issue.

But yes, he was correct about many things. Most of it was the old school stuff that was taught to each generation, but what I didn’t like was placing a lot of the blame on the shoulders of BW, who did not REAR/RAISE themselves. Black culture currently doesn’t teach girls to trust their counterparts and be prepared to be wives. Black culture currently doesn’t teach boys to value the role of provider and patriarch and preparing for that role by achieving academic and/or career highs by 30ish— like other cultures.

We can talk all we want about BW wanting marriage too late, but we aren’t going to pretend Black boys are out of undergrad/professional programs/trade school and into their careers by late 20s/30 like other races. White dudes get out of college and are married by 27-32, Hispanic men focus on trades and are married having babies in their 20s +.
Black CULTURE is off, not just Black women. The Black folks from traditional backgrounds still have these values and find each other, or end up dating out.

Not to mention he started off telling BM about themselves and even had a little show about helping BM entrepreneurs with business plans, etc and stopped the show because he was so embarrassed and flipped it to the women. He said it himself that the audience would be enthralled if he solely focused on women, and he was right.

There are issues on BOTH sides of the aisle, but talking about women brought the money.

So yea, the man wasn’t wrong about many of the things he said.
WE have a loooooooot of work to do to get the Black family back on track.


I also didn’t know how many delusional people were out there 👀, but I also think the people with common sense and actual plans for the future weren’t dumb enough to plaster their faces on YT for the free.
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Doesn’t matter if the message was delivered well
Same reaction would’ve ensued
 

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Reason why so many black women hated KS and rejoiced when he passed is because he forced them to look in the mirror and face reality.
None of us would publicly admit it because we like p*ssy but the reality is ALOT of men BEEN thinking what KS had the balls to put his face on. We all been on them dating sites and know what it is
Despite all the black girl magic and the yasss queening vast majority of them really ain't like that and that's why they 35 and single online complaining all day
 

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I seen a lot of these lately


So yes KS was right




Yup. It’s hitting a lot of women. The “greed / using men for validation, their wallets, dinners, flying them out etc”

Plus the “swipe burnout”

The “city girl” lifestyle is all cap and based on insecurities. A lot of women also don’t see that It’s also short sighted and they’ll need to cash out before it’s too late.

Between now & 2040, you’ll be receiving a lot of this.
 
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