Kevin Samuels was right

[blues_funk_reggae]

I tell people always listen to the message not the messenger

Women especially and some simps was so caught up on who Kevin was or how he dressed but never got the message

For men he said “ dressed like u have a interview or a meeting everyday when u in the corporate world, have a fukking nice haircut , not no damn rapper or athlete shyt because they getting paid, u not.. to become where u want to be in life work hard and cut some debt “

Men listen for the most part

For Women he told them simple on how to get a man rather high value or trying to be a high value man “ U BE COOPERATIVE AND BE A WOMAN, NOT MASCULINE “ and you’ll get a husband.. for black women he simply said especially “ TALK TO ME LIKE YOU TALK TO YOUR WHITE BOSS”

these women didn’t listen…

The video that was posted in this thread is a prime example especially for black and Latin women…

Like Kevin said do white and Asian women sleep around fukk and party , hell yeah… but on a whole by their junior and senior year in college they start looking for Brad, Chad and John Lee to start a family

Meanwhile sisters and Latinas still out here trying to live that hot girl summer and focusing on they career and thinking time will never run out, then at 36,46 years old behind close doors they crying out for love and marriage watching Beth and Ming li at work talking about they husbands..

Kevin overall was trying to kick knowledge to these women and was trying to tell them u don’t want to be like his generation of women the Vivica Fox , Claudia Jordan’s and Lisa Rayes of the world… old and bitter

The bolded is why Kevin will always be an interesting case study. And the coli won't let me rep this for some reason, but here you go 10+

Truth hurts
Reason why so many black women hated KS and rejoiced when he passed is because he forced them to look in the mirror and face reality.
None of us would publicly admit it because we like p*ssy but the reality is ALOT of men BEEN thinking what KS had the balls to put his face on. We all been on them dating sites and know what it is
Despite all the black girl magic and the yasss queening vast majority of them really ain't like that and that's why they 35 and single online complaining all day

For some of the older heads like myself who were in the dating game before social media and dating sites blew up, I knew there was something wrong when women started posting laundry lists of requirements in their profiles, only to go through her pics and see a 2006 version of Lizzo. Me and my boys would talk about it, fast forward 15 years and here we are.

 

[Ohene]

Everybody quoting that Instagram post , as if men don't go through that at a bigger rate

the difference is that men by and large put their best foot forward when trying to date and meet a woman...that men have realistic standards and are willing to settle. women however dont date in good faith and are exploitive for the most part ...using men for attention and entertainment, rejecting dudes for the slightest reason

i've fukked and dated enough women to know you should NEVER EVER feel sorry for them when it comes to dating

 

[Rekkapryde]

The same person who also said this, smh



Take advice from a c00nfused fakkit, brehs

He said a lot of real shyt, but damn sure said some c00n and dumb shyt too.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Rely on a youtuber to motivate you

Lemme elaborate
Be a grown ass man and need another man to tell you that you ain't shyt instead of looking around and wanting better for yourself

 

[MikelArteta]

Everybody quoting that Instagram post , as if men don't go through that at a bigger rate

of course this lonely ass woman can go create a dating profile and have 20 dudes will to take her out tonight

 

[Ahadi]

But thecoli told me different

Which Coli facts are debunked as soon as you go outside?

Single mothers ending up alone and suffering. :mjlol:

www.thecoli.com

But nah; if the single mom has ONE kid, and she’s still bad, in shape, 8 & up. (Maybe. Adjustable 6) She can still get chose. As long as she’s willing to have the next guys kid.

 

[Mike809]

the difference is that men by and large put their best foot forward when trying to date and meet a woman...that men have realistic standards and are willing to settle.

women however dont date in good faith and are exploitive for the most part when it comes to dating...using men for attention and entertainment

And at what age do those men finally settle ? It ain't their 20s.

Those dude settle once they lost connections with their friends , and don't have the best relationship with their families.

It's already been proven that women are better at keeping friends and having deep bonds with their family than men.

You lying to yourself if you dont think their are more lonely men in their 40s than women .

 

[Mike809]

of course this lonely ass woman can go create a dating profile and have 20 dudes will to take her out tonight

Men built that system

 

[UpNext]

Why would you deny someone's black lineage because they look white?

Andrew Tate refers to himself as a "Person of Color"

For the same reason why you're denying his white lineage. Except in my case nobody that sees that man thinks black when they see him, so there's a greater logical reason to call him white.

 

[Roid Jones]

Of course he was right, anyone with sense knew that

 

[Ahadi]

Lemme elaborate
Be a grown ass man and need another man to tell you that you ain't shyt instead of looking around and wanting better for yourself

Bunch of dudes watched “Lil Baby’s documentary” and suddenly want to be better



Nothing wrong with encouragement or searching for it. Black ppl actually needs it the most. Ppl crying about the community needing guidance and ppl turn around and start shaming when it happens.

Other groups are humbly taking this info and running with it. But with us it always has to be a fight, we have to look at the persons past, blood type, “swag” in order to make an investment, it’s foolish.

 

[JNew]

Of course he was right, anyone with sense knew that

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Bunch of dudes watched “Lil Baby’s documentary” and suddenly want to be better



Nothing wrong with encouragement or searching for it. Black ppl actually needs it the most. Ppl crying about the community needing guidance and ppl turn around and start shaming when it happens.

Other groups are humbly taking this info and running with it. But with us it always has to be a fight, we have to look at the persons past, blood type, “swag” in order to make an investment, it’s foolish.

Nah it's childish as hell
Most ppl still won't do shyt after watching it

And most Black ppl need it...I'd argue that most of us have a childish mentality
Same reason they push politicians like Kamala and just appeal to her being Black and a woman instead of her record

 

[Ohene]

And at what age do those men finally settle ? It ain't their 20s.

Those dude settle once they lost connections with their friends , and don't have the best relationship with their families.

It's already been proven that women are better at keeping friends and having deep bonds with their family than men.

You lying to yourself if you dont think their are more lonely men in their 40s than women .

lol proven by whom? most nikkas i know have friends going all the way back to high school/elementary school. Cant say the same for women

and the men would have no problem settling down earlier, if the women (whilst in their prime) werent busy soliciting attn/offers from (typically older) men. and why do the women do it? because they feel young men dont have enough (be it money, assets etc.) to take care of them. They want the finished product...heence why men may take a bit longer to find a woman.

you have a very elementary understanding/view of dating and relationships breh.

 

[Roid Jones]

Bunch of dudes watched “Lil Baby’s documentary” and suddenly want to be better



Nothing wrong with encouragement or searching for it. Black ppl actually needs it the most. Ppl crying about the community needing guidance and ppl turn around and start shaming when it happens.

Other groups are humbly taking this info and running with it. But with us it always has to be a fight, we have to look at the persons past, blood type, “swag” in order to make an investment, it’s foolish.

This part and it really makes no damn sense