That’s false
The woman he was with was nurse he was courting for months
He was about to be engaged to her
This was confirmed from his good friend on YouTube by the name of Dennis Spurling
Kevin Samuels was right
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That’s false
The woman he was with was nurse he was courting for months
He was about to be engaged to her
This was confirmed from his good friend on YouTube by the name of Dennis Spurling
They want to be with a woman , trust me.
Sadly ,good women have increased their standards and most men can't meet them.
And you live with your head in the sand if you believe women are due for some kind of reckoning
Oh he was definitely right about a lot of things.
Women didn’t like his delivery. I promise if he had conveyed the same message, just in a more relatable fashion, many women would’ve gotten the message. It’s funny because the White manosphere definitely started this online movement, but when they actually talked to women it wasn’t with this venom, and when Tate emerged as a man using this same rhetoric and tactic when talking to White women, White men got him out the paint.Because they won’t allow White women to be demeaned at that level for social media money. As much as people rail against feminism, entitled White women, etc, White society will not allow White women to be degraded by some man on social media
I mean, the black female therapist who was recently doxxed and lost her job had the same harsh delivery targeted to Black men, and the world came crashing down on her in a matter of days (and personally, yes, I believe she was unprofessional and silly because as a black woman she knows we don’t get passes for that type of behavior).
For whatever reason, it’s cool for BM to talk directly to Black women like we’re shyt, but tone is suddenly an issue when a BW is speaking directly to Black men.
Ol girl in this video came to a harsh realization at the age of 46. Sad shyt.
I also think there’s some serious cases of mental illness when people purposely discuss these major Ls on the web, but that’s a separate issue.
But yes, he was correct about many things. Most of it was the old school stuff that was taught to each generation, but what I didn’t like was placing a lot of the blame on the shoulders of BW, who did not REAR/RAISE themselves. Black culture currently doesn’t teach girls to trust their counterparts and be prepared to be wives. Black culture currently doesn’t teach boys to value the role of provider and patriarch and preparing for that role by achieving academic and/or career highs by 30ish— like other cultures.
We can talk all we want about BW wanting marriage too late, but we aren’t going to pretend Black boys are out of undergrad/professional programs/trade school and into their careers by late 20s/30 like other races. White dudes get out of college and are married by 27-32, Hispanic men focus on trades and are married having babies in their 20s +.
Black CULTURE is off, not just Black women. The Black folks from traditional backgrounds still have these values and find each other, or end up dating out.
Not to mention he started off telling BM about themselves and even had a little show about helping BM entrepreneurs with business plans, etc and stopped the show because he was so embarrassed and flipped it to the women. He said it himself that the audience would be enthralled if he solely focused on women, and he was right.
There are issues on BOTH sides of the aisle, but talking about women brought the money.
So yea, the man wasn’t wrong about many of the things he said.
WE have a loooooooot of work to do to get the Black family back on track.
I also didn’t know how many delusional people were out there, but I also think the people with common sense and actual plans for the future weren’t dumb enough to plaster their faces on YT for the free.
Black women raise black boys, 80% of the black children are born out of wedlock, black mothers are raising black boys, KS spoke on that, he also stated that after 7 years old a black boy needs to be with his father. If black boys were to go with their fathers after the age 7, Black men would be in better shape.
Men who pick up their mother traits are not good for society and building in my opinion. Most go to prison etc. A man will, at times, provide you with structure and discipline.
Weekend Dads (visitations) will not help, a boy needs to be around his dad after 7 more than he needs to be around his mother. Women cannot raise a black boy
The usual combat from this is truth that I'm saying is usually: "The daddy is not in the child's life" or "The daddy isn't shyt" Well, let's take that and ask, "Who picked and why did you pick that man to procreate with to begin with"?? The Black woman, why would you pick a man like that??
We can go even further down the rabbit hole, why would you have a baby with a man and not require him to marry you FIRST?? Black women control access to who fuks them, if she has a baby with dirty dik Rodney, who gave dirty dik Rodney the ass?? Or a guy with no job? the weed man?
If she's the 2nd Baby Mama, she did it to herself to be labeled as such.
Black women make some of the most horrible decisions in picking men.
Whose making these choices? Black women, KS said, you let black women make choices by themselves, they'll self-destruct when it comes to picking a man to form a family, that's why he advocated for Black Women to involve their own FATHERS when selecting a man to marry, men know how to size up men better than women. Men will pick what you NEED and not what you WANT.
But women/little girls can't talk to their FATHERS about picking a suitable man because their mother at times, has shytted on their fathers, (who again, see my first previous comment) has picked, she's picking the wrong dudes to procreate with, instead of marrying the right man.
If she would have married, and THEN had children, chances are, the daughter will more than likely know how to pick a man and she would have seen how a relationship work instead of getting it from Tyler Perry's Sistas/Movies or listening to SZA and Summer Walker lyrics or watching Money Baggs Yo and ARI relationship goals.
It's time for some straightenin in our community and it starts with the BW
ajnapoleon
Veteran
They want that to be true that it was a fat latina
the thing is men know if we dont work hard and provide for ourselves we know we gonna be on the streets
there are damn near no men shelters out here
guess how many womans shelters are around
we understand what life can bring us
we are good with it
some woman dont
thats the situation
and lets be real those in the mano phere call out the dumb shyt men do
woman explian away damn near 100 percent of what woman do
you have to see that
no hate
just asking do you see that?
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
nah. It starts with us tbh.
Us meaning who?
ajnapoleon
Veteran
this is true
funny thing if you have any belmish it will be brought up everyday until submission
we dont like or trust each other at all
with every hatefull comment made agaist each other its like thanos getting a infinity stone on the gauntlet
Why are these good women married? By any race of men?
What standards are increased? Having a job and being able to live on your own, most men do that now
51% of BM are single and 62% are in the middle class, and if you really in reality, men, black men are doing better than bw financially
Ain't nothing sad about it. Especially for those who have daughters, just ask em.
You’re absolutely right!They were raised by other BW though.
So why aren’t people shoving mics/phones into the faces of the people who are raising/ raised women? Yelling at a 28 YO and telling her that she got it all wrong makes no sense when she literally finished college and left her parents’ home a few years ago.
You have mothers AND fathers telling their girls to focus on school because they shouldn’t expect to find a husband to take care of them. Like I said, other groups tell their girls their job is to sniff out the guys who are about something and hold on tight from the jump. Black families call you fast if you’re trying to date, so you don’t learn the strategies other girls do from their own mothers.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
Us as “Good” or “Outstanding” BM
women are receivers. Putting their feet to the fire is like arresting the accomplice for a crime: the suspect is still roaming the streets. The “Modern Woman” is a result of the Men. Whether they influence/pass down bad behaviors or enable toxic traits, (collectively) we aren’t victims. Dudes have spent the last few years trying to “stick it” to these women and what has been the result?
We as regular BM need to check ANY breh who does NOT add any positives or benefits to us collectively. The simps, panderers, fake Hoteps… all the undesirables. Women will see that and act accordingly.
Yes he was right, because the poor man, which is anyone who is not apart of the 1%, does not date for love, marriage, and family anymore. It's totally fine when the rich don't do it, because they're already vain and weird, but to see the rest of the population act like they're the cream of the crop is insane and thus produces insane results. Lol be normal for God's sake!
That's absolutely false and part of the reason why the white manosphere is filled with trolls that literally terrorize women (white women) on dating apps, especially older ones. The same white manosphere that gave rise to coalfax and so on. The few times they had civil discourse with women, it was done in formal affairs where both sides were operating under pre-established rules. Most times that was not the case and often times. They literally spawned shooters and we're saying they were better. This kind of revisionism and white-washing is appalling.