All I know is I didn’t start giving my parents a kiss till I was a grown man (on the cheek tho). With my old man only if he’s come back from a trip, even then it’s more of a hug. I wasn’t babied, hell I was sent to walk to school at 4 years old in a damn war zone. Where the teachers beat you with in an inch of ur life. I used to look at other kids funny when they got kisses from their parents, shyt was disgusting to me at the time. It was a different era and a different place.