ladies be honest you hate it when dude says "take my number instead"

LadySimone

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Not sure why so of you guys are getting defensive about the dusty negros. Why circle the wagons around them?
 

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Not sure why so of you guys are getting defensive about the dusty negros. Why circle the wagons around them?
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I never thought about it too much. If a man gives me his number first, and I'm interested in him, I'd give him my # at the same time and I don't particularly care who contacts whom first. (Although it's always been the man, for me.) I prefer when a man offers his number first.
 

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Well since most men UPFRONT is everything charming, funny , hard worker respectfully ...sex is good etc. Women get what they wont up front and in return sex happens because a man had to imply all his hard work and EXISTENCE to get you . Now that sex has happend ...Whats YOUR job ?? I have to go cultivated a personality to EVEN be LIKED. Without it i would be a lame.

See women believe that they stimulate a mans mind upon the first date or what not but how do you know hes not just listeing to your horseshyt to get some ass? I havent met a woman who stimulates my mind like i do hers because ive had to go out and create a personality . A lot of woman honestly dont wont to actually put in the works to BECOME trully intresting . I laught a women who try to sell you implyed future p*ssy :russ:

i dont know you personally so i dont know if your a penis receptacle or not ...but i know one thing i wish i could have this debate face to face ...:ehh:
Somebody's been listening to Patrice O'Neal :patrice:
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Good points

But at the end of the day....more men asking for numbers instead of giving out theirs...



Being the minority and giving out number makes u loom not thirsty >>>>>>>>>>>

If a chick gave out her number to 9 dudes and the 10th dude gave her his number on some " text me whenever you want..bye"


Who she gonna respond to first ?
Who looks more thirsty ...?

Women dont use that kind of logic...theyll be thinking like :patrice: hes not thirsty he must be on his shyt and have options :shaq:


You might be right,if all things are equal she might be more interested in the dude who seems uninterested:ohhh:...But whats the chances all things are going to be equal?if they not then she will pick up for the "thirsty" dude she finds more attractive and left the better first impression:heh:,she aint gon pick a dude over who shes more attracted to just cuz he told her to "Call me:youngsabo:"...because lets be honest,women really only use that thirsty title on cats they don't want and not attracted to,or dudes that come on so strong its obvious he only want sex which makes her not like em.

If it works it works though,i cant argue with results:manny:...but u probably losing as many chicks who are crazy shy where they cant call becuz they don't know how:snoop:...and chicks who just refuse to call a man first on they stupid principle.

just not sure where this is different from cats who believe in the whole exchange numbers but then don't call her for a few days so not to seem thirsty....if u was on her mind like that she gon call you before the 3 days and you find out the same thing....this approach u migh come off looking cocky though which can lose as many chicks as being thirsty if they not that interested to begin with.
 

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You might be right,if all things are equal she might be more interested in the dude who seems uninterested:ohhh:...But whats the chances all things are going to be equal?if they not then she will pick up for the "thirsty" dude she finds more attractive and left the better first impression:heh:,she aint gon pick a dude over who shes more attracted to just cuz he told her to "Call me:youngsabo:"...because lets be honest,women really only use that thirsty title on cats they don't want and not attracted to,or dudes that come on so strong its obvious he only want sex which makes her not like em.

If it works it works though,i cant argue with results:manny:...but u probably losing as many chicks who are crazy shy where they cant call becuz they don't know how:snoop:...and chicks who just refuse to call a man first on they stupid principle.

just not sure where this is different from cats who believe in the whole exchange numbers but then don't call her for a few days so not to seem thirsty....if u was on her mind like that she gon call you before the 3 days and you find out the same thing....this approach u migh come off looking cocky though which can lose as many chicks as being thirsty if they not that interested to begin with.
You're using logic women operate off emotions :mjpls:
 

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Tabernacle.


...you ain't supposed to be giving out this game, doe.

Hell no, more dudes need this game to balance out the game. Stop oppressing knowledge from your brehs. That is what CACs do.
 

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Most of then, yes. I'm going to and fromwork when I'm on the bus. I'm dressed casually smart, hair well groomed, teeth brushed, natural make up, clothes clean, sitting there either listening to music or reading a book. Then I have your cousins who looks like he hasn't been home in two weeks come talk to me. Then when he hears my accent, I'm caught in the death grip.

It doesn't help that I live in the hood and the hood is characterised by low quality men and women for that matter. Instead of questioning me why not encourage your brehs in the art of discipline ie don't to chat up girls when they are down and out busted looking. Tell them to get to a better point in their life and then search for women.

:dwillhuh: so a man shouldn't interact with women until he has a massive salary?
 
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