Lol I tried this before, letting a guy do his thing because there was no title, and neither of us wanted one, but we were exclusive. It doesn't work. At all. It's exhausting lol. Plus you run the risk of spreading/catching sh*t. Not a fan.
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InDePickWest
Im Not American
If he's honest, I will honor him for that but I'm not that chick. My best friend is though, she can fukk a nikka and be through. Her bf does the same (with chicks). Besides them both being the way they are sexually..I low key envy their relationship.
I wish I could have sex without any feelings.
Premeditated
Elle Driver
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InDePickWest
Im Not American
I can but I don't make a habit out of it. I'm sure you know sex is waaaay better w/ someone you care about. The other shyt is for males & emotionally stunted women.
Most dudes do not want this. After "your girl" starts pulling 2, 3, 4 times as many bodies as you it's gonna go from a cool idea to ima kill thesee nikkas and her.
Your average dude ain't gonna be able to pull as many bodies as your average chick in a foot race. It would like like ww3 on her end and a gang fight on the dudes.
"It was my idea to have a open relationship, now a nikka mad, now ima bout to drive 90 miles like Matt Barnes just to whoop a nikka ass"
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Your average dude ain't gonna be able to pull as many bodies as your average chick in a foot race. It would like like ww3 on her end and a gang fight on the dudes.
"It was my idea to have a open relationship, now a nikka mad, now ima bout to drive 90 miles like Matt Barnes just to whoop a nikka ass"
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Nah b, they all cheat. There is nothing a woman can do to stop a man from cheating. It's his choice to be faithful and that determines on how he feels about the woman. It's a crap shoot. You can only pray he's done chasing tale.
OP ain't do nothing to you
If we were just in a relationship, and i didnt really know any details, and it was just sex, i think i would be okay with it. no side chicks, just incidental casual sex where he doesnt know their last names and he's not communicating with them
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If i was in love with him, nope. The thought of someone youre in love with having sex with someone else is devastating. devastating.
been there, dude had me crying for months and probably messed my mind up for life
.If i was in love with him, nope. The thought of someone youre in love with having sex with someone else is devastating. devastating.
been there, dude had me crying for months and probably messed my mind up for life
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C L O N E*0690//////
monogamy is about catering to egos*
I have to say I don't believe a relationship will be 100% monogamous. At some point in time someone will probably mess up. Me and hubby have had this discussion before and while we don't want the other to ever step outside of the marriage to expect perfection is setting your mind up for perfection which doesn't exist. I pray we can make it with no infidelity but chances are it may happen. But to answer op question hell no to an open relationship. A) men think they can handle their girl messing around too but they can't and B) stds and outside kids is not the move. I will pass
Kaii-genesis
I AM
Agreed.
Here is how I look at this whole thing. For me it's rarely an emotional thing too, it's sexual , just lust. Not meaningful spiritually or emotionally in anyway and once that lust is gone, its gone. It may not be after one night and but it will end eventually. People often confuse that attraction for something else; especially when they have been intimately involved for some time because of the biochemical reactions which take place that make you feel closeness and all other emotions. That is why we get into these short term relationships -monogamous as they may be are not rooted in true love and companionship.
As much as we may like to believe that we 'fall', the truth is there are only at most two or three people that we truly ever felt or will feel a profoundly deep connection with.
Not to mention that our egos and our hormones more especially play a major role. There are various studies of how our biochemistry changes in matters of attraction and lust. Humans in general always seek fulfilment and yal underestimate how easy it can be for people to do some stupid shyt when they feel unfulfilled by even the slightest percentage.
This is essentially true for species on a physiological level. Sexually monogamy is not natural.
People who want to be in these open relationships are just uninhibited and give into their desire for physical gratification with whomever they feel it for. Most of us just live them out in our heads.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
I can but Im not bout that life
...anymore
Everytime I try, it either gets boring or nikkas wanna kiss and cuddle afterwards.
I can but Im not bout that life
...anymore
Everytime I try, it either gets boring or nikkas wanna kiss and cuddle afterwards.
I'd make you love me
Cuddles and kisses
