Gemini.
Ladies, Do Y'all Approach w/out Approaching? And do Dudes Have a "Resting Breh Face"?
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Gemini.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
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No. With one of them. We’d seen each other twice. Met him at six flags. The first time I saw him, we was just staring at each other. He was exactly my type. But my friends pulled me away trying cockblock. Saw him again later. We were staring at each other again. He was walking pass turned around to give me one more look, and I wasn’t about to let him get away, I smiled at him and waved at him to come over. He came back and got my number.
I’ve told this story on here before. But Another breh worked in the same building as me. He looked good. I always saw him checking me out on the low but he would always look away when I would look back. He was shy. My friends were like, “he looks like one of those bm that likes white girls, I don’t think he likes bw”. He did seem like he could have been the type to date white girls. But I was like “I don’t care, I bet you I can pull em” and I sent him an IM that very afternoon. I don’t even remember what I said. But he responded back, was flirting and everything and the rest was history. And he was one of those brehs that only dated white girls. But he dated me.
If I want a guy bad enough and he doesn’t come talk to me I don’t have a problem making my interest known. I don’t worry about rejection, I’m cute lol. Plus I learned to just go after brehs I want from growing up around white gurls. Funny thing is, it doesn’t happen often. I have to really be interested—the guy has to be my exact type, or there has to be something I see in him... but I know what I want and once I decide I want someone I will be very obvious. otherwise I won’t care enough to be bothered to approach. And on average I prefer men to approach.
Well shoot every woman prefer a man to approach.
And yeah i have seen some brehs that look like they love white broads. Most of the time they light skinned, got that token negro haircut or they look like they hiding that full upper lip
THATS A GOOD EXCUSE FOR LACKIN CONFIDENCE
I remember being approached before by women when I was cheesing hard cause I was thinking about something funny in 2 different occasions
That's when I discovered that women do aproach man when we are smiling, having good time so wherever me and my boys want to be approached we just go to a packed venue and start fake laughing
And it never fails bytches come ask us what's so funny, we isolate them and checkmate
Too easy
That's when I discovered that women do aproach man when we are smiling, having good time so wherever me and my boys want to be approached we just go to a packed venue and start fake laughing
And it never fails bytches come ask us what's so funny, we isolate them and checkmate
Too easy
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
I remember being approached before by women when I was cheesing hard cause I was thinking about something funny in 2 different occasions
That's when I discovered that women do aproach man when we are smiling, having good time so wherever me and my boys want to be approached we just go to a packed venue and start fake laughing
And it never fails bytches come ask us what's so funny, we isolate them and checkmate
Too easy
(Back to the drawing board)
Well shoot every woman prefer a man to approach.
And yeah i have seen some brehs that look like they love white broads. Most of the time they light skinned, got that token negro haircut or they look like they hiding that full upper lip
Nah, he didn’t look like that. He was a chocolate breh with a nice haircut and body. But it’s hard to explain—he gave off vibes that he was a breh that messed with ww. I just didn’t care lol.
(Back to the drawing board)
Ahh forgot to tell me and my boys got some background in acting so all that faking inside jokes and laughing gotta be. Bit believable but yeah it's funny how well this work
Outside of clubs is prolly the best spot to do it
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
I feel you.
Shouldn't no grown ass man be shy tho.
And do yall women really be talking to one another like that? "Girl i dont care...watch me go pull him". Then yall go fake drop some shyt in front of him and bend over
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
Ahh forgot to tell me and my boys got some background in acting so all that faking inside jokes and laughing gotta be. Bit believable but yeah it's funny how well this work
Outside of clubs is prolly the best spot to do it
Me and my cuzzn pretty much got how to play it off on lock. Outside of clubs tho......seem like most them broads drunk tryna find out who got they phone and where the car at
Yeah but we do it in the beginning of the night tho when they still good
Id rather approach, but I like hints.
A smile, a wave, etc.
U walk around mean mugging depending on my mood I wont even acknowledge ur life. But im a savage so sometimes idc.
Most women who’ve approached me outright were either taken (married or bf), older, working girls or women with masculine energy. None of which I prefer but will gladly take.
Ladies, if u are truly feminine & u want attention from a real dude....at most u should be nice and strike up a small convo w him or smile in his direction.
If he still dont bag u he’s either oblivious or he don’t want u.
A smile, a wave, etc.
U walk around mean mugging depending on my mood I wont even acknowledge ur life. But im a savage so sometimes idc.
Most women who’ve approached me outright were either taken (married or bf), older, working girls or women with masculine energy. None of which I prefer but will gladly take.
Ladies, if u are truly feminine & u want attention from a real dude....at most u should be nice and strike up a small convo w him or smile in his direction.
If he still dont bag u he’s either oblivious or he don’t want u.
I can’t speak for all women. I tend to be goofy so i’ll have those kind of unprofessional conversations at work. But no I’ve never faked dropped something in front of a breh. That’s stupid... lol. I don’t get the logic in that—besides letting him get another view of your ass, how will that lead to him talking to you. I won’t do stupid silly shyt like that. Waving, or saying hi, and smiling with eye contact tends to do the trick. All that other stuff y’all mentioned that some women do to get your attention just seems silly imo. Like how is loud talking or bumping into someone going to let them know your interested?
Lol ive had women do some weird shyt like
Talk louder around me to get my attention
Fake phone calls
Dance by me by themselves
Sit by me acting nonchalant peeking over every few seconds
Position themselves by me
Try to mess with something Im doing (if im on a computer they’ll come by and tap key and smile like their playing)
They all get ignored by me cuz I think their weirdos
It really is some weird shyt. Just smile or check me out and thats enough for me to come over and be receptive when I talk to you.
It aint that hard.
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
You would think they would be intimidated tho to walk up to a group of random men and start talking. shyt its hard for them to walk up to even 1!
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
Me personally, i think that small conversation gotta be a lil "lemme show him im interested, conversation. Cuz if im outside at work chillin and sweating, and a girl come out the store like "whew its hot out here!" . that aint enough for me. Ima think she just making friendly conversation. "Shoot you aint lying. I only been on the clock 30 mins and it feel like im frying out here".
That girl gone walk away mad at me cuz i aint get a sense of no type of flirting in that situation. Now if its the same scenario and she like "...yadda...yadda....you dont be out here doing nttn but playin on yo phone" then i possibly might think she tryna get me to bite