Ladies: Do you find it possible to date a man that makes alot less than you?

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I guess in very rare cases things can work if one person makes a lot more or less than the other person. It's based on what they are willing to put up with. I know a few people that have been thru it and some are still together and others aren't. It just comes down to what they are willing to put up with.
 

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My parents were fairly well-off* when I was going up, my mom lost it all because of the divorce so I've been on both sides.

I don't really care as long as you have a job and it can help you support yourself. :manny:
 

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My parents were fairly well-off* when I was going up, my mom lost it all because of the divorce so I've been on both sides.

I don't really care as long as you have a job and it can help you support yourself. :manny:
:ehh: so when do i need to make that trip to Canadia?:smugdraper:
 

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if they have a job and provide for themselves then no its none of your business.

what you make is between you and your employer. now if you legally get married that's different but if you're dating a person and they have all their own stuff and its of a respectable level its none of your business what they make unless they decide to make it your business.
I agree with this unless you paying my bills no need for you to know what I'm making if we dating. All you need to know is I don't need your money.
 

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Are we just talking about DATING or building a life together?

I can see how it's nobody's business if ya'll are just dating. But if you're trying to build something, IMO that's information that needs to be shared. How are ya'll buying houses and cars and whatnot without knowing each others financials? Even just renting an apartment, you need to know half that rent gonna come every month right?
 

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do you really have to ask?

A man should make alteast the same amount if not more than his woman, if not there tends to be major problems

disagree as you may

Money cant buy you a backbone. In my experience if a woman really likes you she doesnt care about how much bread you have. As long as your not a sucker ass bytch.
 
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