Ladies: Do you find it possible to date a man that makes alot less than you?

[winb83]

Kermit da kkoon has been ethering himself all week.

@win83

I don't know why a women would date man who does not bring anything financially to the table and their lifetime financial goals.

because relationships are supposed to be about more than your utility to the person you're in them with. they're supposed to be about love and affection and women would have you believe that they are fair and will consider and "worthy" man for such a role.

this of course is an illusion. part of dealing with modern male female relations is that you can't just bring anything to the table you have to bring more to the table than she does.

i'm gonna put it like that a chick that lives in her mother's house could meet a man that's a $100K a year doctor and easily date him because his utility factor to her is very high. she can use him to upgrade her own life.
reverse the situation and that female doctor that makes the $100k will have nothing to do with the male basement dweller.

women will put all the bullshyt rationalizations of provider and bringing something to the table and ambition and all that shyt but the ugly truth is

“The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”

 

[MikeBrownsJob]

nikka I get p*ssy thrown to me always. bytches want a nikka who is cute and can put a smile on their face.

WPOAT

 

[Ain't That Something]

Y'all nikkas hustle backwards with these hos. At the end of the day, get the digits and fukk. It's not complicated.

nikka I get p*ssy thrown to me always. bytches want a nikka who is cute and can put a smile on their face.

Breh you can't be serious. You really can't.

 

[RicanFury]

the lies that will be told in this thread

word broads fukk broke nikkas all the time. i know this firsthand.

 

[Rawtid]

ok lets say...woman makes 60 k, man makes 35 k just for measurement factors

I'd prefer that our combined salaries be six figures, so in this example I wouldn't. Now if I made 70k and he made 40k, I wouldn't have an issue.

 

[kermit da hustla]

Breh you can't be serious. You really can't.

Are you serious? Again, as I said a few posts up, y'all sheltered nikkas need to step into the real world. Hos aren't nearly as scary as you making them.

 

[Data-Hawk]

You can be a broke nikka and fukk wit these hos if your game is on point. It's not even difficult.

hoes like this?

 

[Data-Hawk]

at nikkas content with being broke as long as the got game and getting p*ssy. This can't possibly be all nikkas strive for

 

[Rawtid]

Why should a man or a woman even discuss how much they make anyway? its neither's business what the other makes because you go to your job to earn your money and they go to their job to earn their money.

i've never told a woman i wasn't related to what i make and i never will. i don't care what she makes because she's not getting a dime of my money and i'll never ask her for hers.

It is every bit of your business to know how much your significant other makes. I'm not saying it's a first date conversation but it's good to know and definitely a deal breaker in getting serious with someone.

 

[Ain't That Something]

Are you serious? Again, as I said a few posts up, y'all sheltered nikkas need to step into the real world. Hos aren't nearly as scary as you making them.

Yep you a broke nikka

 

[winb83]

It is every bit of your business to know how much your significant other makes. I'm not saying it's a first date conversation but it's good to know and definitely a deal breaker in getting serious with someone.

if they have a job and provide for themselves then no its none of your business.

what you make is between you and your employer. now if you legally get married that's different but if you're dating a person and they have all their own stuff and its of a respectable level its none of your business what they make unless they decide to make it your business.

 

[Rawtid]

if they have a job and provide for themselves then no its none of your business.

what you make is between you and your employer. now if you legally get married that's different but if you're dating a person and they have all their own stuff and its of a respectable level its none of your business what they make unless they decide to make it your business.

I think finances is a great discussion for a couple to have and that it's very important especially since most of you guys end up shacking up. If that's a conversation that a guy think is none of my business, then he's not the one for me.

 

[kermit da hustla]

Yep you a broke nikka

broke or not, i don't need to spend a dime getting p*ssy. yall clowns are extra lame. drawing up rules. you the type of nikka to sit back at the bar and clown me from afar while i game a bytch and convince her to leave with me that night.

 

[just my thoughts]

I think finances is a great discussion for a couple to have and that it's very important especially since most of you guys end up shacking up. If that's a conversation that a guy think is none of my business, then he's not the one for me.

In the same token is my finances is a defining factor for her to be with me then
its best we part ways.

 

[Rawtid]

In the same token is my finances is a defining factor for her to be with me then
its best we part ways.

That's fine as well. Not everyone will be on the same page as you which is why it's so special when you find someone that is.