Sorry I misread your question. I read it too fast. Yes I do.Why not? Still too early or you ain’t doing it all?
Sorry I misread your question. I read it too fast. Yes I do.Why not? Still too early or you ain’t doing it all?
@BmoreGorilla I am datng someone great.
Did you submit to him?
No Edit: Sorry I meant to write yes
I am so glad my mother didn’t have to have that conversation with me I just simply watched how she was, and my folks been married sinceBlack mothers never sit their daughters down and say "my domineering rebellious nature drove not only your daddy away, but every strong man that I've ever had... Don't do what I did."
So many women have to learn male nature exclusively through trial and error which is sad. If your mother puts you on game at age 13 and you start seeing results from 13 - 16 years old, imagine how far ahead you'd be with men by the time you're 21, let alone 25.
Older women, even my family, are extremely jealous of younger women and actually revel seeing their daughters miserably failing with men as badly as they did.
Everything in this thread is generational knowledge that every generation of women is suposed to pass along to the next.
I wanna know this
I am so glad my mother didn’t have to have that conversation with me I just simply watched how she was, and my folks been married since![]()
Respect my parents always did everything 50/50 both worked my dad didn’t tell me no bs like don’t go to college and focus on being a housewifeNeither did my mother. She found a man who would never demand such childish, pathetic behavior and would laugh at the idea being submitted to as if he'd married a dog. That was 37 years ago.
Not being argumentative
Not critiquing or criticizing men
Stating my opinion in a brief, respectful and non-emotional manner
Being "happy" and smiling more
Being complimentary
You’re so adorable.Hi ladies
I do it. It's nice to me what men will do for you when you present that side to them. I don't abuse it though. The men in my age group are almost always surprised by it. One guy thought I was messing with him and became kind of mean to me. I didn't get it until after I found out how he grew up. He apologized but I decided to leave that situation alone and blocked him. Some guys are happy and will want to do things together and for me. Others don't know what to do, lol. I don't feel like it's my job to guide them. I want them to figure it out and take action.
I grew up in a family with gender roles. Both sides of my parents family. So I know what I want. I plan to date towards that. The only thing is I think I'm too nice. Maybe raised too nice and some try to take advantage. I just end it when I sense that.
I tried it with older men and I think the heck not. They take full advantage. Have to be careful with that. They court better though.