Ladies of The Coli is it wrong to tell a woman she doesn't need to wear make-up?

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Its wrong if you coldly tell her.

You should voice it like a suggestion instead of an order then it wouldnt be bad.

Realistically your better off suggesting to the ones who overdo makeup that you think she would look better if she wore minimal so she can show her beautiful natural features.
It wouldn't be a suggestion or an order. So I'm not sure where ole girl got the "male entitlement" thing from. That just sounds stupid as fukk. I'm not saying she can't or shouldn't wear it. I'm just saying I think she's gorgeous either way but I think she's gorgeous without it. Now some women look better with make up which is the point of wearing it correct? This women absolutely doesn't need it
 

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It wouldn't be a suggestion or an order. So I'm not sure where ole girl got the "male entitlement" thing from. That just sounds stupid as fukk. I'm not saying she can't or shouldn't wear it. I'm just saying I think she gorgeous either way but I think she gorgeous without it. Now some women look better with make up which is the point of wearing it correct? This women absolutely doesn't need it
That depends on the girl and how she perceives it.

Im just suggesting a way where it cant be seen as an order or annoying.
 

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It wouldn't be a suggestion or an order. So I'm not sure where ole girl got the "male entitlement" thing from. That just sounds stupid as fukk. I'm not saying she can't or shouldn't wear it. I'm just saying I think she's gorgeous either way but I think she's gorgeous without it. Now some women look better with make up which is the point of wearing it correct? This women absolutely doesn't need it
Heres the $64,000 question that will answer everything for you:

Do you think she is interested in what you find attractive about her?
 

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Most women would hear "you wear too much makeup"

promise lol
Even if its a situation where say I wake up the next morning with some chick Im seeing and she has on no makeup. And I say some shyt like

Me: "Damn girl did you get up in the middle of the night to put on makeup and get as gorgeous as possible?:shaq:"

Her: "I don't have on any makeup"

Me: "Oh shyt:banderas:"

Than grab her and make out with her morning breath and all. Would she still be offended?:lupe:
 

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I'm just going to take it from my own perspective. If it was my man telling me I don't need to say work out (since I don't wear makeup, had to come up with something else) I'd tell him I want to and KIM and wouldn't feel offended.

If it was some stranger I'd probably hit him with the Waka flocka "okay" and say to myself "nikka I ain't working out for you :dahell:"
So you'd be offended by it. You should take it as constructive criticism. Now that persons approach in that situation is probably all wrong:pachaha: but me I'd be like :ehh: maybe he/she is on to something that I never noticed in myself. If they were being a dikk I'd tell them to go eat one if that's the case. I'm not sensitive so I just take it for what it's worth:manny:
Heres the $64,000 question that will answer everything for you:

Do you think she is interested in what you find attractive about her?
How about the $132,000 question.

Do you think she wears the make up for herself or to look good for someone or people in general?:patrice:
 

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Even if its a situation where say I wake up the next morning with some chick Im seeing and she has on no makeup. And I say some shyt like

Me: "Damn girl did you get up in the middle of the night to put on makeup and get as gorgeous as possible?:shaq:"

Her: "I don't have on any makeup"

Me: "Oh shyt:banderas:"

Than grab her and make out with her morning breath and all. Would she still be offended?:lupe:

:mjlol: nah


She gonna call and brag to her friends "girl, he thinks I look so good without makeup. Kissing my morning breath, he so pressed, I think I like him tho...."

:mjlol:
 

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Even if its a situation where say I wake up the next morning with some chick Im seeing and she has on no makeup. And I say some shyt like

Me: "Damn girl did you get up in the middle of the night to put on makeup and get as gorgeous as possible?:shaq:"

Her: "I don't have on any makeup"

Me: "Oh shyt:banderas:"

Than grab her and make out with her morning breath and all. Would she still be offended?:lupe:


It not real until you make out with the morning breath.
 

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How about the $132,000 question.

Do you think she wears the make up for herself or to look good for someone or people in general?:patrice:
Women either wear makeup to look good to themselves, to someone else specifically or to the general population in order to find a specific person within said population. Im asking you if you think that YOU are someone she specifically trying to look for, if not herself. If so, then tell her. Otherwise, nah.
 

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I'm just going to take it from my own perspective. If it was my man telling me I don't need to say work out (since I don't wear makeup, had to come up with something else) I'd tell him I want to and KIM and wouldn't feel offended.

If it was some stranger I'd probably hit him with the Waka flocka "okay" and say to myself "nikka I ain't working out for you :dahell:"
That's completely different :dahell:

Working out improves your physical and mental health :blessed:

Makeup is slowly fukking up your face :damn:
 

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Tell her she looks better without it. Instead of saying she doesn't need it. Because it's about want not need.
He needs to create a conversation or steer one into being able to say something akin to how much more she glows seems refreshed when she doesnt wear makeup. Make it not about her level of attraction (warranting a possible defense) but about a specific trait she has when she does something versus when she doesnt that is tied in to attraction indirectly.
 

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The way you phrase it is key. Telling her "Dang, girl, you look good" when she's barefaced vs. "Why you wearing makeup? You don't need it" will generally garner different responses.

Also, many women wear makeup because it's fun, not because they 'need' it, per se. I love lipstick and eyeliner for the colors alone.

Depending on the chick, she'll either take it as a compliment or tell you to keep your opinions to yourself LOL
 

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So you'd be offended by it. You should take it as constructive criticism. Now that persons approach in that situation is probably all wrong:pachaha: but me I'd be like :ehh: maybe he/she is on to something that I never noticed in myself. If they were being a dikk I'd tell them to go eat one if that's the case. I'm not sensitive so I just take it for what it's worth:manny:

How about the $132,000 question.

Do you think she wears the make up for herself or to look good for someone or people in general?:patrice:
Maybe I don't care for that persons constructive criticism
 
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