Ladies of The Coli is it wrong to tell a woman she doesn't need to wear make-up?

[wickedsm]

It really depends on your relationship with her and her personality.
I don't think it's offensive but that doesn't mean she wouldn't find it offensive.
I've been told so but I don't wear alot of makeup or makeup every day either so..

Drake said it in the song and nobody lost it

 

[Birdie]

If women want to keep lying and deceiving people with makeup than they have no business speaking about wanting to find a "real man" or complaining about whatever lies a man tells. Makeup up, body magic, push up bras, filters they're lying to you before they even meet you.

You have to be a deranged individual to actually be offended that a man find what you actually look like more attractive than the tranny you're trying to look like. But than, this is similar to Black women being irate when someone says natural hair looks better on them than perms and weaves.

 

[Sterling Archer]

Not at all

Well I dont think you should suggest to women that you arent friends or at the very least, casual with about a change to their appearance even if it is meant as a compliment. But if you arent someone who she is trying to look good for, just keep it to your self. That being said, I'm not sure OPs scenario warrants a Male Entitlement moniker.

 

[Sterling Archer]

It really depends on your relationship with her and her personality.
I don't think it's offensive but that doesn't mean she wouldn't find it offensive.
I've been told so but I don't wear alot of makeup or makeup every day either so..

Drake said it in the song and nobody lost it

Exactly.

 

[agnosticlady]

Tell her respectfully and be nice. You don't even have to mention the make up. Just whenever her skin is out tell her she has beautiful skin.

 

[PeridotPuss]

Well I dont think you should suggest to women that you arent friends or at the very least, casual with about a change to their appearance even if it is meant as a compliment. But if you arent someone who she is trying to look good for, just keep it to your self. That being said, I'm not sure OPs scenario warrants a Male Entitlement moniker.

He decided how she could be improved upon to his liking and is wondering if he should come confront her with this revelation


I must have missed the part where she asked op to brainstorm on how she could be more attractive to him and get back to her

 

[BmoreGorilla]

If its worded right I would think a woman would take it as a compliment

But Im also not a woman

 

[PeridotPuss]

If its worded right I would think a woman would take it as a compliment

But Im also not a woman

Most women would hear "you wear too much makeup"

promise lol

 

[Sauce Dab]

Women still wearing makeup in 2016?

 

[Sterling Archer]

He decided how she could be improved upon to his liking and is wondering if he should come confront her with this revelation


I must have missed the part where she asked op to brainstorm on how she could be more attractive to him and get back to her

I think thats a bit much from his question seeing as how we dont know the extent of their comfort level but I agree with your principle.

 

[Blackout]

Its wrong if you coldly tell her.

You should voice it like a suggestion instead of an order then it wouldnt be bad.

Realistically your better off suggesting to the ones who overdo makeup that you think she would look better if she wore minimal so she can show her beautiful natural features.

 

[Beck.er.]

Yes. Compliment her natural beauty when she doesn't wear makeup or wears minimal makeup. Positive reinforcement.

Don't tell her when she has a face full of makeup that essentially she is walking around looking less attractive. It'll sound like a passive aggressive insult or that you are all up in her business telling her how to alter her lifestyle to better please your eyes the fraction of any day she's in your line of sight.

Really really don't say anything if this is someone you want to have a serious relationship with. Please, don't.

 

[Sterling Archer]

Most women would hear "you wear too much makeup"

promise lol

Very true. Given that OP is even bothering to ask us this question, its obvious that he doesnt have that conversing charm that would make what he means to say come across as such.

 

[Arishok]

I'm just going to take it from my own perspective. If it was my man telling me I don't need to say work out (since I don't wear makeup, had to come up with something else) I'd tell him I want to and KIM and wouldn't feel offended.

If it was some stranger I'd probably hit him with the Waka flocka "okay" and say to myself "nikka I ain't working out for you "

 

[GoFlipAPack]

He decided how she could be improved upon to his liking and is wondering if he should come confront her with this revelation


I must have missed the part where she asked op to brainstorm on how she could be more attractive to him and get back to her

I must have missed the point she asked me that too? better yet I'm trying to remember the part where I said she needed to improve to my liking