Ladies, What Goes Through Women's Heads When Y'all Are Not Approached?

[Rusty Kuntz]

Apathy.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

"What a fukking @sshole"

So every dude is supposed to approach or else he's an a$$hole?

 

[lightskinjezebel]

So every dude is supposed to approach or else he's an @sshole?

joke

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

joke

 

[Colicat]

He's just not that into you...

Spoiler

"You will get em next time...tiger"

 

[Mr.Plan B]

tHOUGHT I WAS JUST STUPID WTF A nikka HAD DYSLEXICS THIS WHOLE TIME............

 

[USSInsiders]

Ok, so make another misdiagnosis

 

[USSInsiders]

tHOUGHT I WAS JUST STUPID WTF A nikka HAD DYSLEXICS THIS WHOLE TIME............

nah breh, the goat isn't dyslexic. He just has a unique style of writing and his punctuation is unorthodox to say the least.

huff, i say, this stripper bytch,
gone off he rocker...at a loss for her ineptitude and spiraling inhibitions,
within the context, she can't pocket flows and her voice is offkey,
desensitized to the complexities that invoke true GOD EMCEEs,
be gone, i, say, she is gone with the wind like Charlie chaplin, but god save
the queen, if evermore was the paramour of an evanescent scoundrel, built from titans of industry!
slapboxing isn't her thing, selling her soul, maybe

her inability to contextualize her insecurities, rings true like mobile warfare,
this goof duck brawd had better watch her to,ngue or a thousand lashings, , , , ,

art barr

 

[USSInsiders]

TRANSLATION to this and the specifically the bolded:

I only fukk with lame simp trick ass based nikkaz.

you not fooling nobody.
you have not one virtue in the world to fool a real man/nikka/alpha.
only fools who don't really get cooch and have no real social or tangible sexual experience with females.
would want to be in a real committed relationship, with a sckripper.
you also, not even real enough with your job description.
to even fukk'n accept your occupation in full.
as you struggle mentally with the decision to partake in your occupation.
plus, the idea you can still be in a real tangible relationship.

instead of being an extra making beast.
who is known world wide as the best pole master in the universe.
as you on the internet talking to us.
instead of being the biggest daytime session draw at your strip club.
plus, in the nighttime being the biggest and highest drawing private show.
or, the highest single booked pole performer in the night hours.

it is 2o14, and faking a relationship is totally some simp shyt.
as you don't have to fake a relationship for a nut, in 2o14.
yet, it sounds like you do nuffin but partake in those types of events.
where simp based trick john face ass nikkaz go primarily to get laid.
to fake a relationship for a nut, with a stripper.

I can post your own quotables where you specifically say you don't like to be approached.
plus, you partake in going to functions.
where john generally are consistently available as well.

I bet you not even the secret darling of the chamber of commerce from where you are from.
as you lack the ability to fully even authnicate your lack of virtue.
plus, your profession to fully maximize your draw as a stripper/extra performer.



art barr

ok, so make another scathing post

 

[Mr.Plan B]

nah breh, the goat isn't dyslexic. He just has a unique style of writing and his punctuation is unorthodox to say the least.

huff, i say, this stripper bytch,
gone off he rocker...at a loss for her ineptitude and spiraling inhibitions,
within the context, she can't pocket flows and her voice is offkey,
desensitized to the complexities that invoke true GOD EMCEEs,
be gone, i, say, she is gone with the wind like Charlie chaplin, but god save
the queen, if evermore was the paramour of an evanescent scoundrel, built from titans of industry!
slapboxing isn't her thing, selling her soul, maybe

her inability to contextualize her insecurities, rings true like mobile warfare,
this goof duck brawd had better watch her to,ngue or a thousand lashings, , , , ,

art barr

NAW BRAH I WAS TALKING ABOUT ME................

 

[性恶魔]

being gender queer

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Hopefully that's the 2nd conversation, and I assumed you had this problem in the past. I get that it works for you. I'm just not seeing how it's immature to exchange contact info at the 1st meeting.

I've had women call after my interest was gone. Being stern has always worked for me. My method is immature because I handled the situation differently than you?

Maybe we're not understanding each other. I completely get attending events with like minded people. It's how you feel about exchanging contact info that I don't get.

And it sounds like you think men aren't being superficial because they show some patience. Odds are any man that approaches you is attracted to you physically. Not giving him your number right away doesn't change that.

We disagree on when the process begins. I say the process begins when you meet that person. Our processes are just different. I want to get to know that person sooner than later. You feel better if the process to takes longer and they don't have your number before you know them... at least as much as a few events will allow.

I value my space & time and never had a problem using my method of meeting women. When I want to get to know a woman, I do it during dates. I can't imagine learning any less than you would by only having contact at these events.

Are these men you meet different than the rest of us? They're approaching you only because of similar interest in this event, not because they're attracted to you? I think you might be mistaken about that.

Sounds like we agree accept that you believe only talking to them at these events and getting info from their so called friends changes something.

I want my info 1st hand. I'm OK getting/giving a number to facilitate that. You somehow think that's immature.

For me to put weight on what someone says about a person, they'd have to be my friend, not theirs. I'd assume a woman talking bad about one of her "friends" has an agenda.

There's always a story. For every person you meet, there's another person willing to talk bad about them.

All of us have failed relationships. I don't see how giving a number out a few weeks earlier than you think is OK has much to do with that. I assume you continue to get to know someone well after you exchange contact info. Missing/ignoring signs plays a part. People disguising themselves plays a part. People changing plays a part. People getting into relationships before they really know someone plays a part. I don't see how talking on the phone with someone for a week or 2 before going on a date contributes to a failed relationship.

I have some relationships that didn't work out. I assure you that getting their number during a 1st encounter had nothing to do with things not working.

Only serious enough for you to call almost everyone immature.

I've met women on the street, at bars/lounges and at events where we're likely to have things in common. I have enough experience to feel comfortable saying where I met them and when they gave me their number had nothing to do with the success of any relationship. I also know they're the same women. I've met "quality" women at lounges while they were drinking and acking up with their homegirls. I've met less than quality at work related events, book signing, etc. with them looking and acting like a million $. I only discovered their character, or lack of, after talking to and hanging out with them a number of times.

As a man, I'm sure I have diffent goals initially.

Quality doesn't equal good relationships. Love, trust & understanding does. 2 folks with those qualities have a chance. One or both without, no matter how classy, driven, successful, won't work. I can't see you finding that out after conversing with them at a few events. Many times you don't know how a person is in a relationship until you're in one.

It's not intellectual. It's relationships. You thinking you have it figured out is a mistake.

We're not talking about putting thought into people. We're talking about how to go about meeting them.


I understand your method. I believe it works for you. But I'm only defending my maturity level.

We all have similarities, but I don't want to be like everyone else. And just like most things, your milage may vary.

I get your point now. Actually, I got it the 1st time and didn't realize it. You like your method and think it's better than everyone else's. So much so that anyone not using your method is immature. Cool.

I am not going to go through this line by line b/c I feel like I have explained by myself well enough and you seem still be ignoring a lot of what I saying just to hear yourself talk.

I think randomly approaching people who you don't know from Adam and expecting that some sort of "successful" "romantic" relationship is immature. You don't like my opinion...oh well. The numbers speak for themselves. You are upset with me b/c I am stating the obvious which is that traditional dating practices do not work well and rarely end in with a successful relationship. You speak of failed relationships as if it should be the norm.

This "take it as it comes" method you speak of is something we start in middle school and then carry into adulthood. My point is that as adults if we want something that goes beyond the childish relationships we had when we were younger then we should take it a little more seriously and not just allow anyone into our life b/c they are "cute." Surely you are aware that not everyone deserves a chance and even brief causal interactions can have consequences or lead to negative circumstances.

All I am talking about is doing a little more leg work in the beginning before you get to know them/their representation. Is it really so terrible to actually do a little bit of filtering instead of dating person after person just b/c they are attractive. I am talking about being a little responsible with my time and space and you are acting like it is the worse thing in the world.

I don't really understand what you want out of this conversation other for you to tell me how "it works for you." If it does then do you but don't get all ruffled b/c I choose to be a bit more stringent than you with my dating practices and encourage others to do the same. Just b/c something works for you doesn't mean that there are not more successful or alternate ways to go about them.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

tHOUGHT I WAS JUST STUPID WTF A nikka HAD DYSLEXICS THIS WHOLE TIME............

I have no idea. I was just rolling on his dumb ass. I have no idea what is wrong with him but it is very obvious that something is wrong. The best part is when dudes start . They don't say "nothing is wrong with him." They say "you misdiagnosed him" and then pretend like they know wtf he is saying. As if to say, he's fukked up. You just called it wrong. shyt is comical.



EDIT: I see you were talking about yourself.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

nah breh, the goat isn't dyslexic. He just has a unique style of writing and his punctuation is unorthodox to say the least.

huff, i say, this stripper bytch,
gone off he rocker...at a loss for her ineptitude and spiraling inhibitions,
within the context, she can't pocket flows and her voice is offkey,
desensitized to the complexities that invoke true GOD EMCEEs,
be gone, i, say, she is gone with the wind like Charlie chaplin, but god save
the queen, if evermore was the paramour of an evanescent scoundrel, built from titans of industry!
slapboxing isn't her thing, selling her soul, maybe

her inability to contextualize her insecurities, rings true like mobile warfare,
this goof duck brawd had better watch her to,ngue or a thousand lashings, , , , ,

art barr

You forgot to switch accounts before you typed out my poem. Dumb ass.

 

[Art Barr]

You forgot to switch accounts before you typed out my poem. Dumb ass.

you are the only one stooped enough to not know.
people on here and all over the net, enjoy impersonating me, you dumb bytch.

I don't have aliases.

I have people who impersonate me.
just like you try to impersonate and fail at being a female with virtue.

again, you failure at your industry wack ass prostitute.
at this time in the morning...
you supposed to be asleep from doing extras.
after just getting out of your last excursion with a john.

yet, you up on the internet.
suffering, from possible sleep depravation.
while, erroneously thinking you spotted me using an alias, you goof lame hooker.


art barr