Ladies, What Goes Through Women's Heads When Y'all Are Not Approached?

[karim]

Bro I do this too.

I've been hit with the "don't worry about it, he must be gay."

One time a bytch was dancing in front of me the whole night trying to garner attention and eventually she looked to her friend and said "omg he's really starting to make me mad" Her friend had to keep her stable with a "Girl don't worry about him. His loss. Just have fun.'

It's the satisfaction you get from not submitting to the modern women's entitlements. The ether you FEEL like you delivered is fuel for the soul. Lowering bytches self esteem and making them BE AGGRESSIVE SIMPS FOR ME?

I am guilty of this too.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Yes but if you saw those beautiful shoes you would want them.
You wouldnt get mad if you had them.

SO if we have women who look but don't want to be approached, how would one know which woman wants to be approached and which wants to just look?

exactly

How she reacts when/if you get eye contact. If she smiles at you for too long or you catch her looking again and smiling and then again, just get the hint already. If she acts like you just caught her stealing, then she wasn't planning on you noticing. Those who weren't planning on getting caught react differently depending on their mood and/or confidence

Sometimes it's the OR so

Other times


And to be honest sometimes even though you don't want to even talk to the guy you can't help the




But every girl knows if he catches you again he's probably going to come over so tread with caution. Does that answer your question

Ok, so is it always a smile? Because I rarely ever get a smile. I usually get a reciprocal stare, and it feels like whoever looks away first loses. I'm always the one to look away first. I'll look again but a lot of the times I won't get the stare again, so I won't know what it meant, if anything at all. And then sometimes I take a girl being nice to me as her being interested in me, and that fukks me all up even more. I approach girls when I really want to talk, but I never go across the room, though. I'll find sly ways to get close and then talk. I don't just see a look and then run all the way over to them. It's been awhile since I hit on someone like that, though. Most of these girls give signals but then end up having boyfriends What the hell is that about?

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

If you leave shyt to chance, the only people that will usually give you a clear "come on" or hit on you will be fakkits and hoodrat black women.

So the answer is to leave it to chance? I never thought about it that way. I mean, like I said before, I hit on girls and ask for numbers, but I am guilty of looking at a girl or being hit on a good looking girl and thinking she's out of my league or I know she MUST have a boyfriend.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

exactly


Ok, so is it always a smile? Because I rarely ever get a smile. I usually get a reciprocal stare, and it feels like whoever looks away first loses. I'm always the one to look away first. I'll look again but a lot of the times I won't get the stare again, so I won't know what it meant, if anything at all. And then sometimes I take a girl being nice to me as her being interested in me, and that fukks me all up even more. I approach girls when I really want to talk, but I never go across the room, though. I'll find sly ways to get close and then talk. I don't just see a look and then run all the way over to them. It's been awhile since I hit on someone like that, though. Most of these girls give signals but then end up having boyfriends What the hell is that about?

If I was to give guys in general one piece of advice it would be to treat females like human beings. If you see a man who you think might look interesting or you might have something in common or you just want information from him, what do you do? Go over and start a conversation right. Do the same thing, talk to her like a human being not like some dodgy sales man trying to sell her something crappy and broken which she doesn't need.

This way there's no awkward "should I hit on her" because you're not hitting on her, whether she's interested or not. Trust me, as flattering as it is to have some guy read off all the lines he's crammed into his head, no reasonably intelligent woman is going to be impressed by it.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Ladies, just a thought


Reading your signals (mixed or otherwise) is confusing and time consuming. If you're interested in a guy, just approach him and make some conversation at least. If not, keep it moving just like we keep it moving

I only approach women at a bar or unless I know them/about them already. So if I don't know you or your situation, i always assume it's mixed signals, she's just being polite especially if she smiles, or she thinks I look strange if she stares

 

[BAiiNE]

He got a girl somewhere and don't wanna get f'd up

 

[BAiiNE]

Ladies, just a thought


Reading your signals (mixed or otherwise) is confusing and time consuming. If you're interested in a guy, just approach him and make some conversation at least. If not, keep it moving just like we keep it moving

I only approach women at a bar or unless I know them/about them already. So if I don't know you or your situation, i always assume it's mixed signals, she's just being polite especially if she smiles, or she thinks I look strange if she stares

I agree. I actually do this. I have approached guys before. If I like you why not??

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

I agree. I actually do this. I have approached guys before. If I like you why not??

That takes a lot of guts, most girls second guess themselves (what will he think, will he respect me blah blah blah)

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

If I was to give guys in general one piece of advice it would be to treat females like human beings. If you see a man who you think might look interesting or you might have something in common or you just want information from him, what do you do? Go over and start a conversation right. Do the same thing, talk to her like a human being not like some dodgy sales man trying to sell her something crappy and broken which she doesn't need.

This way there's no awkward "should I hit on her" because you're not hitting on her, whether she's interested or not. Trust me, as flattering as it is to have some guy read off all the lines he's crammed into his head, no reasonably intelligent woman is going to be impressed by it.

Well, that's not really my problem. I don't have a problem talking to women and having regular convos; I do that quite often. But then when it gets to that point of where I'm like should I ask for the number or not? That's when I get confused and start trying to figure out in my head if she is interested or she's just talking to me or if she has a boyfriend or if I'm annoying her or what.

It doesn't help either that I've had a lot of bad luck when it comes to hitting on girls. I've hit on some chicks before and had long interesting convos only to find out they had boyfriends Then I've talking to some girls and had a good convo and then got the digits, but I hit them up and they have some excuse as to why they can't hang out. Most of the time it's that they are too busy with school or work or something It's like, why give me ur number in the first place? Then I start feeling like maybe she gave me her number out of mercy, and that really kills my confidence. So it's like, a lot of the times it goes no where so I'm like whats the point?

 

[Greenstrings]

I don't even notice. Is there an age limit on this topic? Who actually goes around and thinks about this when they are out and about?

Probably people that aren't already in a relationship?

 

[BAiiNE]

That takes a lot of guts, most girls second guess themselves (what will he think, will he respect me blah blah blah)

True but all you gotta do is say hi. Lol. Usually the guy will take over from there if he's wit it. Sometimes I feel like guys don't know your situation or if you're interested so they just don't say anything. But if you say something and flirt a lil then they know you'd like to talk to them. So I don't look at it as a scary thing. Guys respect it

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Well, that's not really my problem. I don't have a problem talking to women and having regular convos; I do that quite often. But then when it gets to that point of where I'm like should I ask for the number or not? That's when I get confused and start trying to figure out in my head if she is interested or she's just talking to me or if she has a boyfriend or if I'm annoying her or what.

It doesn't help either that I've had a lot of bad luck when it comes to hitting on girls. I've hit on some chicks before and had long interesting convos only to find out they had boyfriends Then I've talking to some girls and had a good convo and then got the digits, but I hit them up and they have some excuse as to why they can't hang out. Most of the time it's that they are too busy with school or work or something It's like, why give me ur number in the first place? Then I start feeling like maybe she gave me her number out of mercy, and that really kills my confidence. So it's like, a lot of the times it goes no where so I'm like whats the point?

Everything happens for a reason, maybe the point is to help you out with this info.

Came across this video and now I understand why I am attracted to this guy I have been trying to friendzone (not in a horrible way) for ... a year now wow. Me thinks he watched this video at some point.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Everything happens for a reason, maybe the point is to help you out with this info.

Came across this video and now I understand why I am attracted to this guy I have been trying to friendzone (not in a horrible way) for ... a year now wow. Me thinks he watched this video at some point.

Ill watch the video later on after I get some sleep. It's just that most of the shyt that happens to me with women doesn't make sense. There's always some bullshyt involved. Like I said, they'll hit on me (or so I think) and will have long meaningful convos and then turn around and mention that they have a boyfriend. And then if they don't there's some dumb shyt about them not wanting to hang out. shyt is mad frustrating and confusing, and I think it's had a really bad impact on my self-esteem when it comes to dating.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Ill watch the video later on after I get some sleep. It's just that most of the shyt that happens to me with women doesn't make sense. There's always some bullshyt involved. Like I said, they'll hit on me (or so I think) and will have long meaningful convos and then turn around and mention that they have a boyfriend. And then if they don't there's some dumb shyt about them not wanting to hang out. shyt is mad frustrating and confusing, and I think it's had a really bad impact on my self-esteem when it comes to dating.

Don't let it get to you. Think of it this way, if they didn't find you interesting in the first place they wouldn't have had this long meaningful conversation. Also as a female you can't go right out and tell a guy you're unavailable/uninterested before he even said he's interested. That's messed up.

I think you are exactly the kind of guy the video would help out. Let me know what you think after you watch it.

 

[Bobby Reds]

I was pumping gas few minutes ago and this chick held the door open for me and when I was pumping she wax getting something out the car. * we were opposite sides of the pump* I saw her look up towards me but I stayed looking straight at my meter. * she had on some tights*.

Was you playing hard to get?