Ladies, What Goes Through Women's Heads When Y'all Are Not Approached?

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Times have changed, breh. There are too many women out here going for what they want for me to be trying to read some shy bytches mind.

While she's sitting over there in the corner, hoping I can read her mind, another bytch is walking up and going for what she wants.

Or dropping a nikka texts and shyt.

Im saying.
Ladies, be more direct.
Atleast touch the dude or something.
Can't just stand over there cleaning your nails like "Im clearly cleaning my nails for no reason. he better approach me"
AIn't no dude thinking about all that shyt.

 

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@Marty Kaan

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Im so confused.
If you're in public, how are you gonna only talk to a man you already know?
If you already know them, that means they had to approach you *you said you don't approach*.
But at the same time you said you don't like to be approached.

I didn't say I only talk to men I know. I said I don't want a random dude who has no reason to talk to me approaching me.

You do understand that there are better ways to meet people than just randomly walking up to them right? I don't even recommend trying to meet random people. That's how you end up with a crazy. I usually met quality people though mutual acquaintances and events that interest me. It usually goes like this.

1. Go to an event/gathering/place of interest
2. Meet people at the event and possibly see/chat with a person(s) of interest
3.Go to another event. See person(s) of interest again and chat more
4. Go to another event. See person(s) of interest another time and exchange info.

Between all of this you do your research and see what type of person you are dealing with. I don't exchange contact info the first time I meet a person.

It's a lot easier than dealing with randoms, you probably already have a lot in commended, you have similar interests and you have people who can vouch for you them.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Imo a grocery store is acceptable though

Not to me. It's rude. I am there to shop for my food and leave. I don't want you in my face. But you do you. I am just saying that I would be annoyed not interested.

That is something high school kids would do. You got to up your strategy if you want more successful results.


For example, I like men with money and a liberal attitudes. Do you think I am more likely to find what I looking for by randomly approaching men in the grocery store or by associating with those type of people and hanging out at events where they hang out (socialize)? To go even further, will I then be even more successful if I am able to have several conversations with him and ask his friends about him?

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I would think not interested for whatever reason. But I don't throw "signs and hints". I base this off of them staring and never saying anything.

 

[BezO]

Not to me. It's rude. I am there to shop for my food and leave. I don't want you in my face. But you do you. I am just saying that I would be annoyed not interested.

That is something high school kids would do. You got to up your strategy if you want more successful results.

Is it childish just because you don't like it?

Grown folks do this method all the time. I know some mature women that prefer to be approached in non-social settings. And I prefer approaching women in non-social settings.

For example, I like men with money and a liberal attitudes. Do you think I am more likely to find what I looking for by randomly approaching men in the grocery store or by associating with those type of people and hanging out at events where they hang out (socialize)? To go even further, will I then be even more successful if I am able to have several conversations with him and ask his friends about him?

Of course, attending events where the men you like are more likely to be will skew the type of men you meet. But I'm confused about conversations having a different effect just because they're spread out over several events. You could exchange info and get to know someone just as well.

And I doubt many friends would give anything but praise about someone interested in you. Are dudes really telling you their boys ain't shyt?

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

Not to me. It's rude. I am there to shop for my food and leave. I don't want you in my face. But you do you. I am just saying that I would be annoyed not interested.

That is something high school kids would do. You got to up your strategy if you want more successful results.


For example, I like men with money and a liberal attitudes. Do you think I am more likely to find what I looking for by randomly approaching men in the grocery store or by associating with those type of people and hanging out at events where they hang out (socialize)? To go even further, will I then be even more successful if I am able to have several conversations with him and ask his friends about him?

I think it's always like this til you meet a guy you're attracted to. I met a lovely young lady in a grocery store because she almost ran me over with her cart. There was very strong attraction though... I'm sure if there wasn't I would've been labelled as some creep.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

I didn't say I only talk to men I know. I said I don't want a random dude who has no reason to talk to me approaching me.
.

You miss the shots you don't take

 

[The_Sheff]

Not to me. It's rude. I am there to shop for my food and leave. I don't want you in my face. But you do you. I am just saying that I would be annoyed not interested.

That is something high school kids would do. You got to up your strategy if you want more successful results.


For example, I like men with money and a liberal attitudes. Do you think I am more likely to find what I looking for by randomly approaching men in the grocery store or by associating with those type of people and hanging out at events where they hang out (socialize)? To go even further, will I then be even more successful if I am able to have several conversations with him and ask his friends about him?

What nikka is gonna dish dirt on his boy to a chick? Ole boy could have a harem of chicks but his boy aint gonna tell you!

 

[Raava]

What?

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

What?

dope avi btw

isn't that from ranma?

 

[Raava]

dope avi btw

isn't that from ranma?

Thanks, yea its P Chan/Ryoga

 

[SNG]

See me I don't mind approaching females i've had an interest in I kinda prefer the one's that do approach me always have a slutish vibe I had this one instance where this pawg came with her man to the club and as soon as this nikka went the bathroom this bytch decides to come up to me and bite me on the neck and say I had too your to cute I just pointed that bytch out of my site and she was mad as fukk . I don't mind showing the ether to b

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

What?

Will discuss later. My birthday is tomorrow by the way.

 

[Raava]

Will discuss later. My birthday is tomorrow by the way.

I know! So make note of this because I am notorious for remembering the week of but forgetting on the day.