ladies what is a "good man"

rogue_riezo

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guess you gotta settle
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Nah son.

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Too young to shack up with someone and settle now when there's a world of women out there :blessed:. I can atleast see why I mostly meet the less desirable ones, it's the company I keep so in effect I'm to blame for it :mjcry:.
 

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the average woman of today is fielding multiple offers, here today and gone tomorrow once the novelty dies down, loyalty in any gender is rare as hell. How many people will stick by you through the good and the bad :sas1:

look I've been near on my death bed in the hospital and many people I called friends friends, many people who said they loved me and all that ish didn't even come to visit. I've been engaged, I've dated enough women in my life I've seen enough friends come and go to know that loyalty isn't some ish that is on every corner

Quality versus quantity. You must learn the difference.

A quality woman will ALWAYS have admirers but a quality woman loves and respects her man enough to not even be tempted by other men. I could and would never give my heart to a man who believes that what we have together is fleeting and disposal. Most women who are looking for everlasting love wouldn't either. How can you even begin to build with someone who dismisses your love and affection as a "novelty"? Women who are genuine and have open hearts would run in the other direction. But women who like to play games and who are master manipulators will take you on for a free ride to see who can use whom first/harder/faster/better/worse/ etc.

So again, look for quality. Look past the girls who advertise themselves solely to appeal to your sexual desires and look for attractive women of more substance. I'm sorry that you haven't had the loyalty from friends and the loves in your life that you deserve but there are still kind hearted, genuine, loyal, loving people in the world but you have to be open (and discerning) enough to allow them in.
 

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Ultimately it's whatever you can endure
No one is truly genuine. We are all not just 1 thing as in nice or good or bad. Nice guys/women? That's just game. Cause you different doesn't make you better. The answer..just be as genuine as you can be with the person you love. A good man is a guy that tries to be..faults and all. Most women can't accept that cause reality is a bytch
 

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I honestly think that's why they had arranged marriages back in the day. Women won't pick what's good for them long term because of stupid shyt like comes tions and tingles. I think women can learn to love a guy who is good for her but doesn't provide tingles.
 

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Someone who is a protector and a provider, & if you can't do that then you ain't sh*t :\

So a man can't provide companionship? :mjlol:

He just a paycheck and a bodyguard. If your father ever heard you saying that shyt, he would be :pacspit:
 

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So a man can't provide companionship? :mjlol:

He just a paycheck and a bodyguard. If your father ever heard you saying that shyt, he would be :pacspit:

If a chick told a dude this, nikkas would go nuts.

"Why do I have to Fukk you, cook, clean, etc? Can't I just provide companionship?"

That's called a friend, nikka.
 
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