there are a lot more good guys than there are roughnecks...its just that they get the shyt end of the stick. As far as girls getting wifed up...nobody is saying that there aren't a lot of good woman out there, Its just that many of them make poor decisions and get emotionally effed up and turn bitter. It typically happens around age 21 for women I've noticed.
80-20 rule (don't even try to flip it...i could use basic economics to explain why it doesn't apply to the vice versa) you smarter than this
@Desirous my canadian homegirl said honesty, kindness and loyalty
There are SO MANY dudes out there that go months...years even without sniffing p*ssy, it gets so bad for some of them that the first sight of action they get...they end up being OVERLY kind and the girl turns them into a trick accordingly.
It gets so bad for some of them that they hold on to the woman for dear life because they remember what it was like to be single and lonely...they end up being OVERLY loyal and it gets mistaken for clinginess or exploited as if dude is wrapped around his or her finger.
I've seen this happen to dudes. Shiiieeeeetit even right now I think about how my first ex girlfriend broke up with me when I was 19 and I have heard her verbally imply that she knew I was kind and loyal. It was also my abrasive honesty that was a big factor in our breakup

. 4 Years later and she has gone through a slew of probably 5 or so boyfriends that didn't work out including a couple fukked up situations that I won't elaborate on.
So what gives? Point blank...most girls don't give a shyt or know about what a real good man brings to the table until its too late.