ladies what is a "good man"

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lol. thats a damn lie :mjpls:

and the reason it is...is because girls don't know how to distinguish between a "good man" and a roughneck upon first meeting them. I can't speak for you, but there are many dudes who holla at girls and get curved without even a chance :mjlol:

I say this because I've been curved accordingly. But shyt who am I to say I am a good dude right :yeshrug:.
But you guys say good girls get wifed quick so who are wifing up these good girls? The roughnecks? :ohhh:
 

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But you guys say good girls get wifed quick so who are wifing up these good girls? The roughnecks? :ohhh:
there are a lot more good guys than there are roughnecks...its just that they get the shyt end of the stick. As far as girls getting wifed up...nobody is saying that there aren't a lot of good woman out there, Its just that many of them make poor decisions and get emotionally effed up and turn bitter. It typically happens around age 21 for women I've noticed.

80-20 rule (don't even try to flip it...i could use basic economics to explain why it doesn't apply to the vice versa) you smarter than this

@Desirous my canadian homegirl said honesty, kindness and loyalty :mjlol:

There are SO MANY dudes out there that go months...years even without sniffing p*ssy, it gets so bad for some of them that the first sight of action they get...they end up being OVERLY kind and the girl turns them into a trick accordingly.

It gets so bad for some of them that they hold on to the woman for dear life because they remember what it was like to be single and lonely...they end up being OVERLY loyal and it gets mistaken for clinginess or exploited as if dude is wrapped around r her finger. In worser cases, the dude is dragged through the mud for years because he lacks self value and allows the girl to string him along.

Honesty? Y'all can't handle the truth...:comeon:. Girls can't even grasp the concept that the same dude telling you the truth about how you need to go to the gym or that the dress your wearing is ugly (knowing it may cause a fight, p*ssy held for ransom or strife) is probably the same dude who will be honest to you throughout the relationship. Instead you would rather hear sweet nothings and then act surprised when you see texts from another hoe in his phone. This falls under loyalty anyhow.

I've seen this happen to dudes. Shiiieeeeetit even right now I think about how my first ex girlfriend broke up with me when I was 19 and I have heard her verbally imply that she knew I was kind and loyal. It was also my abrasive honesty that was a big factor in our breakup :mjlol:. 4 Years later and she has gone through a slew of probably 5 or so boyfriends that didn't work out including a couple fukked up situations that I won't elaborate on. :mjpls:

So what gives? Point blank...most girls don't give a shyt or know about what a real good man brings to the table until its too late.
 
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there are a lot more good guys than there are roughnecks...its just that they get the shyt end of the stick. As far as girls getting wifed up...nobody is saying that there aren't a lot of good woman out there, Its just that many of them make poor decisions and get emotionally effed up and turn bitter. It typically happens around age 21 for women I've noticed.

80-20 rule (don't even try to flip it...i could use basic economics to explain why it doesn't apply to the vice versa) you smarter than this

@Desirous my canadian homegirl said honesty, kindness and loyalty :mjlol:

There are SO MANY dudes out there that go months...years even without sniffing p*ssy, it gets so bad for some of them that the first sight of action they get...they end up being OVERLY kind and the girl turns them into a trick accordingly.

It gets so bad for some of them that they hold on to the woman for dear life because they remember what it was like to be single and lonely...they end up being OVERLY loyal and it gets mistaken for clinginess or exploited as if dude is wrapped around his or her finger.

I've seen this happen to dudes. Shiiieeeeetit even right now I think about how my first ex girlfriend broke up with me when I was 19 and I have heard her verbally imply that she knew I was kind and loyal. It was also my abrasive honesty that was a big factor in our breakup :mjlol:. 4 Years later and she has gone through a slew of probably 5 or so boyfriends that didn't work out including a couple fukked up situations that I won't elaborate on. :mjpls:

So what gives? Point blank...most girls don't give a shyt or know about what a real good man brings to the table until its too late.
You've never answered my question on whose scooping up all these good women breh :sas1:


We in this thread never said every single good man is getting tied down but plenty of them do. There are women that like roughnecks (hell I know few who've turned down good man for thugs) but there are women who like good men :yeshrug:. I, personally, don't have one because I don't go out to meet people plus I want to get my body right before that happens so he can have a chick with a :takedat: body and a :banderas: personality. I'll be wifed up in no time :blessed:
 

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I sincerely want a good decent civilized women but its super hard to find

I can't be tupac in a business suite

Have you considered the fact that MANY "good decent civilized women" are NOT looking for a "Tupac in a business suit"? Why can't you just be maclomxxx_45 in a business casual attire?
 

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You've never answered my question on whose scooping up all these good women breh :sas1:


We in this thread never said every single good man is getting tied down but plenty of them do. There are women that like roughnecks (hell I know few who've turned down good man for thugs) but there are women who like good men :yeshrug:. I, personally, don't have one because I don't go out to meet people plus I want to get my body right before that happens so he can have a chick with a :takedat: body and a :banderas: personality. I'll be wifed up in no time :blessed:
reading comprehension. the answer is in the first line [good men...and roughnecks...basically anybody who is lucky but there are still a lot of good men left over was basically what i said]
 

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reading comprehension. the answer is in the first line [good men...and roughnecks...basically anybody who is lucky but there are still a lot of good men left over was basically what i said]
Ok, not every good man is going to get tied down like not every good woman is wifed up by the age of 22.

Are you taking this personally because you feel you're a good man but you get overlooked?
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reading comprehension. the answer is in the first line [good men...and roughnecks...basically anybody who is lucky but there are still a lot of good men left over was basically what i said]

But are those good guys REALLY looking for good women....or are they chasing tramps and trollops? Because just as you guys say that women only want thugs, a LOT of you guys bypass the "good girls" for the wh0res of the world.
 

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But are those good guys REALLY looking for good women....or are they chasing tramps and trollops? Because just as you guys say that women only want thugs, a LOT of you guys bypass the "good girls" for the wh0res of the world.
The "good girls" got crazy list of of requirements thats why we tend to overlook them...but then u find out that she is fukking some bum on the down low

Pls explain that
 

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good guys are overrated...as long as I respect you, fukk you right, and break you off every now and then..that's all you need. Your job is to try your best not to annoy me.:yeshrug:
 
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