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Men like this are everywhere

Probably 20 in your inbox right now
Those are the must haves, but you also have to take into account chemistry and having things in common, etc. You can't force that stuff even with the nicest person and those are important factors that are separate from being a 'good' guy.
 

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Chemistry, tingles, butterflies, connections, novelty fade.

Those are the must haves, but you also have to take into account chemistry and having things in common, etc. You can't force that stuff even with the nicest person and those are important factors that are separate from being a 'good' guy.
 

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Chemistry, tingles, butterflies, connections, novelty fade.
Eh @ tingles and butterflies. Yes, those fade. But a connection doesn't fade (I'm not talking about butterflies...I'm talking about having common ground to be able to tolerate one another despite certain differences and being able to overlook things you might find annoying).
 

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Eh @ tingles and butterflies. Yes, those fade. But a connection doesn't fade (I'm not talking about butterflies...I'm talking about having common ground to be able to tolerate one another despite certain differences and being able to overlook things you might find annoying).

:ehh:

I think women overrate this "connection" "chemistry", "soulmate" due to hollywood and r&b songs etc.

:manny:

with dedication, communication and sacrifice anything in possible


Considering how fake people are until they get comfortable around you "chemistry" can be easily misinterpreted
 

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So what yall sayin is you'd rather a dude with literally all those characteristics you listed over, say
Idris Elba, Pac, Trey Songz, Leo DiCap, the Rock, etc? :patrice: I'm sure

Yes, SOME women will want what those men have to offer even if those men are not loyal, honest, chivalrous, kind hearted, loving, etc. etc. BUT you have to ask yourself if THOSE types of women are worth having themselves.

A lot of you guys look at the "big booty fake t!tty dime" women of these men with envy but you should be grateful. Those men often have the wh0res of the world chasing after them because of their fame and money. Instead of looking at the pretty, classy school teacher or marketing rep these guys want strippers and professional gold diggers whose job it is to have the biggest behinds or twerk the best in order to trap high income fools with an illegitimate baby or more. Those guys are often so busy looking for trophies amongst wh0res that they will NEVER win at having a happy life. These guys marry wh0res and then spend ALL of their time worrying about these women doing what they do best.....with other men.

I don't understand why you guys don't get it.
 

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:ehh:

I think women overrate this "connection" "chemistry", "soulmate" due to hollywood and r&b songs etc.

:manny:

with dedication, communication and sacrifice anything in possible


Considering how fake people are until they get comfortable around you "chemistry" can be easily misinterpreted
But, how much are you supposed to sacrifice? At the end of the day, you have to also be happy to be around this person. I'm sure that personally, you would sacrifice only so much - and that's to be with a woman you love, not just any random female who is honest, loyal and kind. There has to be more than just the basic qualities.
 

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:ehh:

I think women overrate this "connection" "chemistry", "soulmate" due to hollywood and r&b songs etc.

:manny:

with dedication, communication and sacrifice anything in possible


Considering how fake people are until they get comfortable around you "chemistry" can be easily misinterpreted


Why are you so jaded, mister?
 

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My mom, whose been married to my father for 26 years, says the chemistry, connections, and butterflies are still there for her :yeshrug:


and my parents been married 32 years, The newness wears away, but the love should always be there.

butterflies fade as the newness wears off and it becomes routine.
 
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