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Why are you so jaded, mister?

speaking the truth means jaded?
everyone regardless of gender is great in the honeymoon infatuation period. The newness, the tingles, learning about someone new. Once the honeymoon period wears off you see the real them.
 

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and my parents been married 32 years, The newness wears away, but the love should always be there.

butterflies fade as the newness wears off and it becomes routine.
Same with mine. They don't have butterflies and all that crap, but at the end of the day, they have a solid foundation - similar values, they accept each other's flaws, tolerate one another's sour moods, and are able to have great conversations on the same intellectual level, which keeps them stimulated and interested in conversing with one another.
 

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But, how much are you supposed to sacrifice? At the end of the day, you have to also be happy to be around this person. I'm sure that personally, you would sacrifice only so much - and that's to be with a woman you love, not just any random female who is honest, loyal and kind. There has to be more than just the basic qualities.

love is a fleeting emotion, happiness comes from within, as long as a woman isn't nagging or a thot most men will be content

a honestl loyal and kind female :ohhh:, that combo still exists? :upsetfavre:
 

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speaking the truth means jaded?
everyone regardless of gender is great in the honeymoon infatuation period. The newness, the tingles, learning about someone new. Once the honeymoon period wears off you see the real them.

But the "real" them can be even more amazing once the walls come down! Haven't you ever been in love with someone who just simply amazed you more and more with each passing day/week/month/year?
 

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love is a fleeting emotion, happiness comes from within, as long as a woman isn't nagging or a thot most men will be content

a honestl loyal and kind female :ohhh:, that combo still exists? :upsetfavre:
Happiness does come from within because you can be with the most amazing person, but if you're unhappy with yourself, you will find faults with him/her. But there you go...you don't like a woman that nags...she can be kind, loyal, honest, but a nagger...so that's something that will fukk with your happiness and probably something you'll find difficult to tolerate.
 

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But the "real" them can be even more amazing once the walls come down! Haven't you ever been in love with someone who just simply amazed you more and more with each passing day/week/month/year?

rarely

and nope, only been in "love" twice and as time went on they became worse, everyone is great in the beginning when those flattery words flow, when your just learning about them, you just "click" when you feel so lucky like damn finally how is this person single? :mjlol:

Selling yourself as grand is so easy in the beginning.
 

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Happiness does come from within because you can be with the most amazing person, but if you're unhappy with yourself, you will find faults with him/her. But there you go...you don't like a woman that nags...she can be kind, loyal, honest, but a nagger...so that's something that will fukk with your happiness and probably something you'll find difficult to tolerate.

if a woman was kind, loyaln honest and a nagger, I'd sacrifice that's how rare that combo is no one is perfect.
 

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So why do people stay married if love, chemistry, and connection fades :dahell:

Dedication, comfortability,
I didn't say love fades :dahell: for the most part love is "fleeting"

its like a new job you get so excited as you start, you love what you do but as time goes on its just mundane, but you still go and just suck it up look up and your like damn ive been here 9 years already :dahell:
 
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