NobodyReally
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If you can’t read whether someones a high earner even before the date, that’s on you.
lol. Um, OK. I guess if you don't know actual rich people. You're telling on yourself. Bill Gates drives a regular car, wears sweats and khakis. Those of us who grew up around rich people know they don't flex on purpose before a date, usually anyway, because they've been socialized not to flex. It draws flies. so yeah, like I said, if someone is flexing before a date, whether they got the money or not, it tells me a lot about what they value, and what they think I value. Now if they just eat at high end places normally, I will get that intel on their response to my self deprecating joke and it'll be cool. But a lot of dudes will spend that kind of money because they want you to put out and it creates expectations. Just my opinion. Everyone moves differently.