Ladies, why do you expect a $200 dinner for a first date?

[Shadow King]

She told you where she wanted to eat, you balked, she moved on. No harm no foul. I assume if she had asked where you want to eat you would have mentioned some cheap uninspired choice and she would have moved on.

Men should have a general idea of the best restaurants in their city and lean on them for date ideas instead of the lazy “dinner and drinks ie Applebees” lazy shyt. Assuming she recommended a good restaurant I would have had no issue going if she was attractive/interesting. I’m in it for good food.

You running this into the ground lol

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

If that's her standard or even just her ask. Anyone interested in her is allowed accept or decline.

I just don’t understand how she thinks a stranger should spend $200 plus on a first date. Seems to me she just wanted to go on a date maybe not that interested in me as much.

 

[badboys11]

The girl ran through 30 messages that day and found the lick she was looking for.

Op got his feelings hurt and offended cause he liked the lil prostitute, so he ran to the internet blaming all women for her behavior

It's no different than it used it be, u holla at 30 women throughout the course of the day to find the one u looking for. Sometimes, one girl gets personally offended at your approach when it was never personal, just a numbers game.

Difference is now the men have turned into the bytches, the women have rosters. The game has changed

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Thursday foolery… y’all down to answer the mans question?

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@CinnaSlim

if i mention it its because its somewhere i want to go and pay for my self so in that sense i am entitled to whatever i want to afford lol. of course i would tell him he doesn't have to pay for me, i don't really be expecting anything from dudes. just do you and i can decide if im down or nah. seems like she did the same thing

but yall should know that there's dudes that are generous so maybe that's the answer to ops question. he may not, maybe there was somebody else on hinge that did and she made an executive decision lol

 

[Mike809]

I can cook

I can cook too , but I save that for the 2nd or 3rd date. I ain't inviting no random person to my place lol .

 

[jadillac]

@Tommy Lee Jones

If she's familiar with the place then she has been before. It's probably her date "spot".

I wouldn't go if you gotta foot the bill.

BUT........ if you do go, just automatically KNOW that you are taking an L. That $200 bucks you'll never get back and in addition that $200 this time will set the standard. And on the other end, there's a chance you don't get a 2nd date. So you're taking an L, either way.

She'll expect that or similar from you, always. And when you can't or don't want to, she will get "bored"

 

[J.E.T.S]

I only take women on nice first dates if I’m trying to keep her . & it’s going to be a place that I choose .

You ain’t wrong, but you fukked up letting a women plan the date .

 

[Duke Dixon]

I want to know what $60 mac and cheese looks like.

 

[Giselle]

I can cook

I would never go to a strangers home and I’m sure many other women wouldn’t either. You also shouldn’t be inviting strangers into your home, it’s unsafe

 

[KnickstapeCity]

$200 dinners? Hard dikk and bubble gum. Juicy Fruit is like 35 cents, breh.

 

[Giselle]

I only take women on nice first dates if I’m trying to keep her . & it’s going to be a place that I choose .

You ain’t wrong, but you fukked up letting a women plan the date .

I always pick first, I have a whole list of activities! I’ve been seeing other women bash men/women for the woman picking the date but I prefer it in the beginning.

If you’re struggling with money though it’s best for you to pick it and pretend the main reason is bc ur a man who plans/leads or whatever they say online

 

[⠀X ⠀]

She simply wasn’t feeling you like that. Sounds like she was looking for a sucka. You did the right thing. No need to worry about it

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

She was seeing what she could've gotten away with.

I'm not even mad.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

I visualized choking the living life out of you for posting this garbage

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

I'm sure her taste varies depending on who's paying

How are you sure?

Now, you say you’re sure, but I’m PRETTY CERTAIN you’re just assuming.