Lady Says Guys That Put Them On A Pedestal Are Not Attractive, Is This True?

Carlton Banks

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Most women are insecure. A guy treating her like gold rubs her the wrong way cuz deep down she feels like she's not worth all that. She'll end up feeling like he's delusional, a bad judge of character and a pushover
 
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She ain’t prettt enough to be the cheating type & her fam would get in her ass for cheating on me

Average looking women are much bigger hoes. They are so excited at the attention they get from men, that they can't resist. They also get approached more because men assume they are easier...because they are. They are also assumed to have better personalities, because they can't depend on their looks.
 

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Its not even about being nice. Because I'm nice and smash all the time.
Its just like dudes wouldn't let their own mom smoke in their crib but would let some random chick hes known for like a month do it.
Brehs not even being nice brehs being beta.

My idea is. If you can make friends easily then you can easily get a girl.
You don't force your friendships. You don't go around thinking....
man if I don't make a friend today I'll never make a friend or ever have a friend again!

Dudes get a girl to just look into his direction and breh fangs are out acting all different than he usually is and desperate as if hes never had p*ssy and this is his only shot at p*ssy ever which is why brehs puts p*ssy on the pedestal

Like if you pay attention
dudes who get girls all the time don't put them on a pedestal
guys who barely get a response puts a female on the pedestal

only time you should put a female on a pedestal is if shes the mother of your child or wife.

pretty simple just enjoy life brehs.
 

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"I think it's something in human nature" :mjlol:

These older women are always trying to be philosophical about their lack of healthy and functional relationships.

Truth, she's probably an emotional mess who tends toward a certain type, while running off the others. Nothing wrong with any of it, but please take responsibility for your actions.
 

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I think the problem is "good guys" assume that because theyre so-called good, they should be desired in the same way that they desire the women they go after.

Women want many things, we're no different than men in that regard. A good guy with sex appeal, financial stability, and a desire for a meaningful relationship is what most of us want. On top that, mofos gotta just click and there's no forcing that part.

Being the guy who will never beat her isnt enough to demand her attention. Just like being the girl who will always cook a good meal or give head or look pretty isnt enough to demand his love.

I disagree... to an extent. I think the reason good guys feel that way is because a lot of women portray a "good guy" being the end all. So when a good guy gets denied, he thinks "but I'm what you said you wanted."

The issue is really that women (like most people) aren't outwardly honest about what they want. They really mean "I haven't met any good guys that I find attractive." But that sounds shallow. So they just talk about good guys and how they don't exist... which isn't true.

Furthermore, a lot of woman probably don't even attract the good guys with all of the other attributes they want anyway. So they further put the blame on men when in some cases they are just as much the "problem."
 

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I think the problem is "good guys" assume that because theyre so-called good, they should be desired in the same way that they desire the women they go after.

Women want many things, we're no different than men in that regard. A good guy with sex appeal, financial stability, and a desire for a meaningful relationship is what most of us want. On top that, mofos gotta just click and there's no forcing that part.

Being the guy who will never beat her isnt enough to demand her attention. Just like being the girl who will always cook a good meal or give head or look pretty isnt enough to demand his love.
Yeah yeah yeah whatever.....is that you in the pic though?
 

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Makes no sense to respond to these threads. There guys will believe what they want and generalize us while not wanting to be generalized themselves :manny:
 
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So what makes you attracted to her then :patrice:

She not IG model fine but she look good enough for me. She held me down when I didn’t have shyt and was working dead end jobs. Now that I have a real career and my own shyt we’re bout to build something special together


Average looking women are much bigger hoes. They are so excited at the attention they get from men, that they can't resist. They also get approached more because men assume they are easier...because they are. They are also assumed to have better personalities, because they can't depend on their looks.

Nah.
She ain’t that type. All I can do is trust her till she give me a reason not to. If anything does happen then I’ll move on. No big issue. I’m the catch not her so me losing her won’t effect me.
 
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